Disregard is the greatest contempt

On today's headlines, there is a man named Guo Songmin, who is staring at Hu Xijin. As long as Lao Hu expressed any opinions, he could pick out faults from between the lines and scold Hu Xijin's "concubineism." What is "concubineism" is probably to say that Lao Hu blindly follows the trend and loses his principles and opinions in order to please the people and shangfeng. But he never saw Lao Hu fight back, because Lao Hu didn't fight back, and Lao Guo seemed to be a little annoyed and angry, and the scolding became more and more intense. Both of them are big coffee, and I would like to ask Guo Songmin: Lao Hu is not an enemy, why do you hold on to it? Wouldn't it be nice to do something more meaningful? The melon eaters watch the drama, and they just watch your jokes.

There is another person, Li Hongye, the founder of Formula Xiangsheng, who has been calling Guo Degang in the past three years, and his hatred for Lao Guo seems to be getting stronger and stronger. This no, this goods has opened a live broadcast, most of the content is related to Guo Degang, all kinds of insults, slander, paranoia, for three years Old Guo never issued a word, only run his own Deyun Society, completely ignoring Li Hongye. Everyone also saw that Li Hongye did not want to argue with Guo Degang about right and wrong, but to rub Guo Degang's traffic and heat, and he himself said that black and red are also red. The work is not bullshit, the character is so bad, and ignore him, let him go.

This reminds me of the things that Li Ao scolded in the early years. Li Ao is a madman, everyone scolds, scolding Yu Guangzhong is particularly powerful, saying that he is a horse ass literati, but Yu Guangzhong never fights back. Later, Yu Guangzhong was interviewed, and the reporter asked how he viewed Li Ao scolding him, and Yu Guangzhong said: He scolded me, indicating that he could not live without me in his life; I was silent, indicating that I could live without him. Li Ao was even more mad after hearing about it. Li Ao, a person, is talented and arrogant, and he does not know how many people he has scolded in his life, if he spends his scolding energy on academics, he may have greater achievements.

The same is true in marriage. A happy marriage must be that two people understand each other, can see each other's efforts, each other's good, and it is not easy to hurt each other. In an unhappy marriage, either two people are selfish or immature and lack tolerance, so the chicken and garlic skin have become the fuse, and in the end, both sides are defeated, and the chicken feathers on the ground are either shot and scattered, or they survive and live like they and each other hate. There is also a situation that one party in the marriage pays more, the other party is at ease as a matter of course, and does not care about the other party's feelings at all, such a marriage, probably will not have a good result, because once the resentment breaks out, it is bound to converge into a river and break through everything. There is a brother who has been in two marriages and has been licking dogs professionally for twenty years. He always went after the proud and delicate woman, for the satisfaction of his own face, not to see if the two were suitable. After marriage, because it is difficult to get, so it is extra pitiful, it is really good for others, it is obedient, infinite compromise, people are not only at ease, but also indifferent, licking the dog is also dignified, licking the dog is also temperamental, and finally the marriage is disillusioned without accident. People have self-esteem, and self-esteem can not stand the test, do not use self-esteem to warm a cold heart.

Man, still do something valuable, both with a sense of accomplishment and to please yourself. You are always thinking of people who hate them, and you have thoughts of them day and night. You scare him, you love her, you stimulate him, and as a result he completely ignores him, and maybe he will say in his heart: You deserve it too! His life is as wonderful as ever, and your life is grayed out by resentment, so why bother? Why bother?

Let go of resentment and demands on others, pick up love and self-esteem for ourselves, and we can live a wonderful life. In the same way, if there is no substantial harm to the rotten people who are pestering us, we can laugh it off and ignore it outright. Sometimes silence has the greatest power.