It turned out that my friend didn't dare to get married for the reason.
A man in his thirties doesn't want to get married at all, looks and income are good, but doesn't want to get married or go on a blind date;
One day I couldn't help but ask him, "Do you like men, I know you haven't seen any girl you mention until now."
He looked at me with a look of horror and said, "I like to be a woman all the time."
It wasn't until one time when friends got together, when everyone had a little drink and started talking about the topic again, that he said why.
"My parents divorced, but I remembered that my parents didn't have a very fierce quarrel, and it was relatively stable that I didn't understand why my mother divorced until many years later."
Once I went to the remarried father's house for dinner, after eating I planned to wash the dishes as a guest to show that my father still had a few mouthfuls of food to eat, I planned to talk a few words, waiting for my father to finish eating. After chatting with my mother, when I was ready to clean up the dishes, I saw my father finish eating and naturally put the dishes and chopsticks up to wash, and I said out loud: "Let me wash the dishes."
The little mother said, "No, your father can wash the dishes now, we made an appointment, I cooked rice and he washed the dishes."
I smiled
I remembered another thing. At that time, when my parents were not divorced, once we finished eating, my father and I went downstairs to hang out, half an hour home, my father came in the door and saw that the bowl on the table had not been washed, at that time my father looked very bad, he found a garbage can to pour the bowl and leftovers into the garbage can together, my mother saw the time and asked him why he did this, my father said " If you don't wash the dishes in time after eating, next time I will throw away the bowls, but I will not pay for the bowls."
It turned out that after the divorce, my mother said the sentence: "Your father is not good to people, but it is not good for me."
I don't know if I can be good to the other half after marriage, if I can't be good to the child's mother, it is actually the biggest harm to the child, because the child's favorite person is his parents.
