People's lives are destined to be lonely, and no one can accompany us all the time, but you have to get used to it, because this is the normal state of life.
Perhaps, in this world, someone can accompany you through the road, but you must know that there can be no one who completely accompanies you to the end, including your parents, lovers, and friends.
For our parents will grow old and leave this world before us; our lovers may leave us; our children will grow up and leave us to live their own lives.
First: Former classmates are now running for their own things and looking for a future
When we went to school, we had a group of like-minded friends who naively thought that we would talk like this in the future. But when we graduate from junior high school and after high school, everyone goes their separate ways. The ideals are different, the application for the exam is different, and the schools you go to are different. Maybe we'll talk to each other in between, and as time goes on, we talk less and less, until we don't, and we become the most familiar strangers. When we meet again, we will say that we have not seen each other for a long time, and we are no longer the teenagers we once were.
Second: The lover we think of does not accompany us for the rest of our lives
At the age of starting a family, we think we have met the person who can accompany you for a lifetime, and it is also the trend of fate, the two of you fell in love at first sight, and you feel that you have met the best man in the world for you, except for your parents. That's when you feel like you can finally go up the next level again, and you'll share your day-to-day with him, everything you do at work. As everyone knows, the good man in your heart does not love you as much as you think, he just thinks that you are more suitable for marriage, and if he finds someone more suitable for marriage, you will be abandoned immediately. When you center on a person, that person takes control of your life, and you may be miserable and devastated.
You have returned to the old days, plain and plain, not sad or happy, but with a little more expectation for the future life, and the expectation for yourself. You suddenly feel that this kind of life is also very good, alone, stay at home and be quiet when you are unhappy, and when you want to be happy, you will buy something you like to eat and stay at home to play. This is a person's life, plain and real.
Third: Parents are getting older and leaving only themselves
As we grew up, our parents also changed, from black silk to white hair: from love to silence, their lives need our company, we can only do this, maybe one day, they will leave us, then they will realize that this is loneliness.
Life is life, our life can not be like the novel written, the heroine has countless halos, the male protagonist is a business tycoon, such a thing 99% of the possibility will not happen to ordinary people, the only thing we can do is to enrich ourselves.
Mr. Yang Dai said: "Everyone will have an unusually difficult time, the pressure of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of learning, and the trepidation of love. Survive, life will suddenly open up. Time will also teach you how to shake hands with them and make peace, don't be afraid. ”
Jia Pingwa said: "Life is a temporary sitting, no one can stay by your side forever, in the end, you are only left with yourself." ”
I hope that we will shake hands with loneliness for the rest of our lives, and may everyone live as they want. Wait patiently, live well, and one day you can wait for everything that belongs to you.
I don't know what everyone thinks about this?