Introduction: An Lingrong in "The Biography of Zhen Huan" has a strong performance in the play, and she leaves people with the impression of being vicious and vicious, but on the surface it looks sensitive and cautious. Many people attribute the tragedy of her life to the fact that she was not born tall, and in the harem, vanity fair, the fight is the background of the family, so the fall of An Lingrong is also reasonable, but is this really the case?
An LingRong became a joke, who is to blame?
An Lingrong entered the palace through the draft, compared with Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang and the small lords of the same period, she really did not have any background in the county, even if it was her father's county beggar, she was also an official who donated money. An Lingrong, who came out of the small door and small household, as soon as he arrived at the foot of the imperial city, even his hair was full of inferiority.
She was cautious and did not dare to offend anyone, and with Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang, she also tried to use a humble and almost flattering attitude. But what is strange is that although An Lingrong is treating everyone around her with humility and caution, she has not received the expected return. Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang actually did not treat her as a close sister in many cases, and although the emperor also spoiled her, he also regarded her as a soft and respectful pet. The queen used her, and used it like a grass walk... An Lingrong did not want to be looked down upon all his life, wanted to climb up all his life, wanted to raise his eyebrows and exhale all his life, and finally lived into a joke, why is this?
It's all self-sufficient
Character determines destiny, and this sentence is especially appropriate for An Lingrong. Because of her cautious and cautious attitude towards the world, she will always remind the people around her, so that everyone around her will remember her origin. Therefore, her attitude of caring too much about her origin is actually reminding others to look down on her at all times.
You see that Yu Ying'er, who was born in an ordinary palace girl, is just a low-level palace girl who does rough work, and after being favored by the emperor, can't she also be arrogant? You see these people in the palace who worship high and stomp low, during the period when Yu promised to be favored, who dared to have an unpleasant confrontation with her? Even if I was dissatisfied in my heart, I was still talking behind my back, but people promised to ignore this, just do whatever they wanted. At least during Yu Ying'er's gain of power, she was happy.
There is also Ye Lanyi, who was born from a horse trainer, which is not as good as Yu Ying'er, who dares to embarrass Ye Lanyi in the palace? When the emperor was not humble and unassuming, and Ning Concubine was favored, the grand pomp and circumstance did not lose the Zhen Huan of that year. Moreover, Ye Lanyi had not offended the emperor once or twice, nor had he violated the rules of the palace once or twice, but every time the emperor was protecting him, who could do anything to Concubine Ning?
No matter how bad this An LingRong's origin is, it is much stronger than Yu Ying'er and Ye Lanyi, but in fact, An Lingrong is really not as good as these two, in the end, it is not because of personality, so the confidence is given by himself. An Lingrong was too inferior, too sensitive and cautious, in fact, it was really hurting her, wasn't it?
Conclusion: The most important thing in the royal family is that people like An Lingrong, who are always only promised to others, are different from the following slaves. Because of such a weak, sensitive and bullying look, others will always talk about her origins and will always bully her. Human nature is so complicated, persimmons are always picky soft pinch, people are picking honest bullying. The tragedy of An Lingrong's life actually has little to do with her origin, it is caused by her own personality, isn't it? In fact, many times, girls are outside, it is necessary to be appropriately strong, otherwise it will be easy to be bullied, and the viciousness will not make people afraid, because the surface cannot be seen. The strength of the open side will make people dare not be easily bullied!