Mark Twain tells us, "You can't do everything you want in life. ”
Indeed, life is like the weather every day, sometimes sunny, breezy, smooth and joyful; sometimes lightning and thunder, wind and rain, ups and downs. We can only take it all, because we don't have the right to choose.
If misfortune comes to you, then please don't be depressed, face it bravely, and be a strong "Saint Seiya". After all, life is like an electrocardiogram, and if all is well, it proves that you are hanging up.
When the mussel sand becomes a bead and the pupa becomes a butterfly, you will definitely be grateful to yourself for persevering and struggling.
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If you stay up, you will get a strong resistance to pressure
I've seen an example like this:
In the countryside, people crush freshly unearthed seedlings. People who don't know think this method is almost murderous. But the truth is that the crushing of the seedlings is to make the seedlings grow better! Because the newly unearthed seedlings are heavy and shallow, they cannot withstand the storm, and they must apply heavy pressure to stabilize the roots and whiskers and lay a solid foundation.
This is true of young seedlings, and so are people.
Beveridge has said that people's best work is often done in the face of adversity. Mental stress, and even physical pain, can become a mental stimulant.
Remembering the bully Li Zheyuan, when he took a leave of absence to prepare for Yale University in the first semester of his junior year of high school, he had to get a high SAT score at one time and take down the difficult GRE word (GRE is the American graduate school entrance examination) in ten days.
Li Zhaoyuan bought the book and found that he had to memorize more than 4,000 new words, an average of 400 words per day.
As a result, Li Zheyuan began the process of frantically memorizing words.
All day long with the word book is inseparable, next to the pillow, in the bed is, on the keyboard is, the bathtub side is still.
For time, the loser climbs with the hour, and the winner runs after the second hand.
Finally, kung fu pays off.
Li Zhaoyuan passed the exam and received a four-year full scholarship with impressive results. At the age of 18, he became the first undergraduate student in Fujian Province to be admitted to Yale University.
Afterwards, Li Zheyuan said that because there was tremendous pressure, he did not dare to relax every day, so he carried it down.
People often envy the brilliance of diamonds, but who knows, this piece of pure carbon has been tested by thousands of years of high temperature and pressure in the depths of the earth's crust!
Similarly, under the heavy load of pressure, the fountain can spray out silver flowers.
Successful people, in the time of patience and perseverance, tend to be more and more frustrated and courageous, and succeed.
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If you stay up, you will gain tenacity and willpower
At a community sharing meeting, friend Little A told us his story.
In 2019, after five years of hard work, he passed the CPA (Certified Public Accountant Exam), and a friend said to him: "You are so good!" ”
In 2020, he became a signed author of two public account platforms, and his friend said to him: "You are too powerful!" ”
In 2021, he put together the articles he had written into a book, and his friend still said to him: "You are so good!" ”
"In fact, if there is anything powerful, it is just gritting your teeth when you encounter difficulties and have no idea." Little A Cloud said lightly.
He was a little disabled since he was a child, so he was more introverted and inferior, and later had several good friends, and gradually opened his heart.
In 2018, he wanted to go to surgery to get himself back to normal.
It was a major operation, and the doctor had to cut open the back and then insert two sticks and countless nails into the spine. Because of the danger, he even wrote a suicide note.
Although something went wrong during the process, the good thing was that the operation was a success.
But it took him months to get up, stand, and walk again. Every time the pain was unbearable, Little A gritted his teeth and insisted, slowly, more and more progressively, and finally, finally survived.
In 2020, he wants to go to the M platform to be a contracted author, but the other party's standards are very high, and although he tries very hard, he still can't meet the standards.
He was so anxious that he couldn't sleep at night and thought about giving up.
But right away, Little A dismissed his idea. He felt that he should cherish every opportunity he got, and no matter what, he would insist on it.
Although the process of persistence is mental torture, Little A succeeds!
Minand once said, "Whoever has the will to go through all kinds of hardships can achieve any goal." ”
The intensity of pain is directly proportional to the will and stiffness that nature gives to human beings.
Indeed, nothing in the world can crush the hope of a strong willpower.
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If you survive, compassion will arise
We know that Andy Lau is a famous Chinese actor, singer, producer and lyricist.
However, in 1991, when he first started composing lyrics, his life was difficult.
As soon as Andy Lau's "Love is So Stupid" was published, the music ghost Huang Xia unceremoniously criticized in the media, "I have not seen a lyricist who writes love so stupidly." "It makes him very uncomfortable.
But Andy Lau, who is hard-working and modest from snacks, is not discouraged, but works harder. As he put it: "I'm also a normal person, I cry, I'm stupid, I practice everything for a long time." ”
Word by word, over and over again.
In 1997, Andy Lau gave "Ice Rain" to Huang Xia, who finally affirmed him.
It is precisely because of his own difficulties that Andy Lau has always been very considerate of others and willing to help others.
Andy Lau said: "What you learn must be taught, and what you earn must be given to people." ”
After his achievements and fame, he did not have arrogance and arrogance, did not look at everything, but often had a compassionate heart and a broad heart.
Truly achieved what Yu Youren said: "The heavens and the earth in the belly are wide, and there are often ferry boats."
Because of experience, we can better appreciate the state of mind of others when they encounter difficulties, push others with themselves, and be able to help others when they need them.
And this not only helps others, but also broadens the path of life for themselves.
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Tribulations are life's best gift
After a bit of tempering in the sea, the pebbles can become smooth, when we encounter difficulties and obstacles in life and work, do not give up lightly, find the right way, work hard, persevere, and survive the past is the willow dark flower.
In a sense: tribulation is the best gift of life!
Survive the past, you will get a strong resistance to pressure;
Survive the past, you will harvest tenacious willpower;
Survive the past, and compassion will arise;
"The sunshine is always after the wind and rain", "Blowing away the yellow sand and seeing the gold", after surviving, you will eventually become a different version of yourself.
About the author: Ruo Ping, a student of Xiaonuan Writing Camp, loves literature, likes to read books, and likes to write essays.