Foreword: In any relationship, when one party can't maintain it, it is the time to announce the end of this relationship, for the two people who once loved each other, the original sea oath mountain alliance, since then parted ways, the previous relationship between you and me, has since become the most familiar stranger, the most friendly separation for feelings, is a decent breakup, each is fine, do not disturb each other.
But people are always a sentimental animal, although they have not been able to accompany you through the rest of your life, but seeing that you have a bad life, or can not bear it, will still reach out to help you, if you are single, you do this, may feel that you are a person with heavy feelings, if you have a marriage, or so much love, will it make the current, feel that you are obsessed with your previous life? Whether such an action is responsible for your current family, let us understand what the husband's psychological changes are.
Narrator: Zhang Shen is 32 years old
The previous youth was ignorant, failed the girl, did not give her a certain romance, ordinary days, the trivialities of life in her age when she needed love, these heavy shackles were tied to the girl's body, and finally did not resist the pressure of life, we chose to break up peacefully, at that time, I did not think of finding someone to spend the rest of my life with me, because it would be painful to have a girl.
Getting older and older, the other half is also more and more difficult to find, looking for young people who are afraid of blocking people's youth, no way, the family introduced me to the current wife, the second marriage of her, before marriage is also a rough understanding of the next, before there was a child, but did not have to the custody, has been raised by the man, the contact behind feels good, there is no bad habits, according to the old man in the family, is a person who lives a life, just like this, held a wedding and got married.
The days are fine, she is inside and outside the Lord, the surrounding neighbors are boasting, I can marry such a wife at this age is my blessing, and my parents are also very optimistic about her, the work of the family has not been supervised by the parents, always cleaned clean, the food is so sweet and delicious, the days have passed for a long time, the old man wants to hold the grandson, I discussed with her, she also said at the time, can make the marriage stable, is to have a child, this is called a home.
But since the last time I said I wanted to have a child, she has undergone some changes, changes that can be seen with the naked eye, always absent-minded when talking, always sloppy when doing things, cooking is the same, either forgetting to put MSG, or forgetting to put salt, the whole person has changed a lot, as if there is something to say, but can not say the same, so after a while, I asked her if she is uncomfortable, she also replied no.
One day, eating food stimulated the stomach, in the middle of the night the stomach grunted, stomach trouble, opened my eyes, I saw the light behind me, and there was a crying sound, I slowly turned around, saw my wife was chatting with my ex-husband, at that time I was annoyed, I felt that my wife was carrying my ex-husband to contact the posture of compounding, otherwise why was I crying in the middle of the night.
But I did not expose her on the spot, because I want to see if this woman really betrayed me, catch the thief and catch the dirty, catch the adulterer and catch the double, I coughed a few times, got up and went to the bathroom, pretended not to know the existence of this matter, came back and slept with my head covered, thinking about stealing the phone tomorrow to see what was going on, the next day, I found the opportunity, holding my wife's mobile phone to read their chat history, the more I looked at it, the more I looked at it, the more I felt worthless for my wife.
Because the child was raised by the ex-husband, every time the ex-husband gambled money and lost, he looked for his wife to borrow money, did not borrow money and said that he was going to kill the child, the wife did not tell me to bring the child here to live, I was embarrassed to open my mouth, afraid that I was not responsible for being a stepfather, this time I told my wife that I wanted a child of my own, she said to her ex-husband, no, let the child come over, live with us, his ex-husband but the lion opened his mouth to compensate, otherwise he would not let him see the child.
It is such a personal scum, let my wife every day soul is not guarded, crying in the middle of the night, angry I want to go to him to fight, such a practice is not a man, but, what can be used for fighting, how can I win the battle, I hurriedly contacted my lawyer's friend, let the wife sue her ex-husband for child custody, the final result is deeply popular, the wife because of the arrival of the child, touched by the crying, our life is still as happy as before or even better than before.
Conclusion: Happy women meet men who understand themselves in marriage, and I hope that every girl can meet boys who are good to themselves and live happily ever after.