Author: Wen Qiusheng
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Love is like a double-edged sword, love to the right person, it will be in the future thorns, and love the wrong person, it becomes the deepest weapon to hurt yourself.
At an age of ignorance, love is always filled with infinite reverie, thinking that it is sweet and intoxicating, but there are many people in the world who have no part.
Maybe there will be a person in your life who teaches you how to love and finally leaves.
Life in the world, love the wrong person, is a growth lesson.
People always have to go through experience and try to know what they really want, or what is the best for them, and when the next relationship starts, at least they will not repeat the same mistakes.
If you have been hurt in the relationship, prove that the other person is not the right person. It doesn't matter if you love the wrong person, feelings are not the whole of life.
Since you can't get love, love yourself well. Those who do not belong to your heart, those who do not love you, do not treasure, do not continue to love.
02, love without being able to do it, is the most painful thing in this world
In this world, it is the most bitter thing to give everything for love, but what is waiting for love is not allowed.
It is not easy for a person to meet a person he really likes in this life, that is, the heartbeat when the deer collides; it is the cramped uneasiness after looking at each other; it is the concern for the details of life, but it is such a person who loves to the bone, but he is not the one who really accompanies himself through the rest of his life.
Pence once said, "What is a life without love?" The long night without dawn! ”
Love without permission is probably the most torturous thing in this world.
When love sprouts, your brain seems to lose control, always trying to do everything for the person you love.
For him, I can sacrifice all my time and thoughts, only to expect him to look back at himself and face his feelings.
In the long night, I left myself alone, looking back on the past over and over again, swallowing the tears of grievance over and over again, as if I no longer had the slightest strength to wait for the dawn.
How can someone who has truly loved be willing to let go easily? Even if the heart is like a knife, it is still reluctant to put it down.
Even if that love has long been ingrained, but now it has to be uprooted, it is too cruel, and the pain may only be understood by those who have experienced it.
03, in the world, love the wrong person is to grow
There will be many encounters in people's lives, some people will become your partners in work; some people will teach you how to cherish the friendship of meeting in Pingshui; and some people, staying in your world for a short time, have set off a terrifying wave.
When love comes, it always makes people defenseless. Before you know it, your heart has been captured by the other party.
For love, how beautiful the inner imagination and expectations are, how cruel the reality will be.
Because you love the wrong person, your world becomes fragmented, your heart becomes haggard, the road ahead is confused, and you don't know where to go.
Life in the world, love the wrong person, although it is a detour on the road of love, but it makes us know more about love, more understand how to cherish love.
Zhang Zhixin once said: "If pain is exchanged for knowing the truth and adhering to the truth, we should consciously bear it happily, and then, and only then, pain will turn into happiness." ”
Life is a process of continuous experience.
After experiencing the cruelty of reality, I know better how to cherish the ordinary beauty around me, plant a heel in the world of feelings, and know how to distinguish what is true to each other and what is hypocrisy.
When I was young, I desperately loved a person, and perhaps did not exchange the deep friendship of the other party, which became the biggest reluctance and the deepest regret in my heart.
However, after this disaster, the heart will also gain something, know what love is, know how to love.
04, do not belong to your heart, do not treasure
People are particularly prone to be desperate when indulging in a relationship, as if as long as they do not give up, they can always wait for the other party's response.
A lifetime is not long, and staying at an intersection for too long will only deepen the damage to yourself.
The road is wrong, remember to turn back; people love wrong, know how to let go. Feelings that do not get a response should stop the loss in time. After all, love is not a one-man.
Isakovsky once said: "Love is not one heart beating another heart, but the spark of two hearts colliding together." ”
If you don't want to leave regrets in your life, don't be led by obsession, people who really love you are reluctant to let you suffer from loss.
Love if there is no collision of souls, it is a cold shell, do not take dignity to gamble on an unworthy love.
A sign of a person's true maturity is that he knows how to make trade-offs. Know how to let go of the paranoia in your heart, use a rational attitude to run your own life, rather than obstinately going your own way, and use all your obsessions to pay tribute to the love that has passed away.
Some emotions, some people, some things, even if it is beautiful, if it does not belong to you, you can only let go.
Only by vacating the place in the heart and cleaning up the memories that have accumulated dust can we lighten up and find more solid happiness.
05, do not belong to your heart, do not continue to love
The world is so big, it's a blessing to meet the right person.
If you have not yet met, it can only mean that the time has not come, before all the heartbeats are just deepening your understanding of love, no longer ignorant, know how to self-improvement and self-love.
In the world of feelings, pay attention to a "fate" word, and everything has its own arrangements in the dark.
If the deep love is shallow, it is already doomed to belong to you, then no matter how hard you try, you can't win it. Don't be hot and courageous, but in exchange for the pain of tearing the heart and lungs.
Everyone's life deserves to be taken seriously, and if they don't give up on the wrong choice, how can they meet the right person?
Feelings need to be pleasing to each other, unilateral payment, forced love will not be happy. Time will tell you the answer, but life is short, don't stay too long on someone who doesn't love you.
Loving someone does not necessarily mean having him, there is no reason for this life, and choosing to let go is a good ending for both parties.
The road for the rest of your life will continue to go on, it does not belong to your heart, don't continue to love.
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