Men have to tell you the truth, and when you like a girl, don't chase her.
First, in the winter, you go early in the morning to buy her hot soy milk, buy fritters, take off your coat for him to wear, and shiver with cold. Do you think he will be moved by this? Don't be stupid, people girls won't be with you because you do this. You're only touching yourself by doing so. Because these things are done by couples with each other, people are not your girlfriends, people don't need your warmth, girls want the advantages of you. You have to learn to amplify yourself and your strengths infinitely, either you are very handsome, or you are very humorous, or you are very rich. In short, you have to have your own advantages. If you're just a good guy, you deserve to be issued a good guy card.
Second, never go to pestering and salvaging a woman, why are you pestering her? It's really not because of how good she is or how much you love her. There is only one truth, and that is because you have too few options. It's like when you started your business, if your company had only one employee, then you're definitely worried that he's going to quit, right? But when you have twenty employees, you don't care about any of them leaving, right? So when you can't do without him, it's not that he's too good, it's that you're too low. If you worry about losing her every day, offer her like a queen. But what you don't know is that the more you do this, the easier it will be for her to leave you. When you lose her, but there are many times when she comes to the door, it doesn't matter. In fact, only when you don't care, she will care more about you.
Third, it is impossible for a man to have pure friendship with a woman. If there is a representative that this person has not yet reached the time of exposure, it means that he is a master. If you really want to have a purely friendly relationship with the opposite sex, one way is that after you marry him directly for a few years, you will find that the friendship in your relationship is really too pure. No matter what you dress in front of him, he has no distractions at all. Then he told you they were all good friends, don't do that. Therefore, relying on love is simply impossible to maintain a long-term marriage, and the most stable support point of marriage must be interests.
Remember this sentence, don't think that others will not hurt you because you are a good person, you have to believe, don't dare to hurt you because you can bring her benefits. As long as you can bring him benefits, even if your personality is not good and you are grumpy, she can still endure it. If you can't bring her benefits, even if you are docile like a kitten, it will make you lose your hair.