Men who sincerely pay in their feelings will unload their outward strength and show their tender side to their lovers.
Only a person who truly loves is willing to put down the disguise and the hard shell and reveal soft and thick love to the lover.
Men will have a strong desire to protect the true lover, afraid to let the lover hurt and sad, and would rather bear all the suffering themselves, but also make the beloved person happy and happy.
To see how much a man loves, it depends on whether he cares about his lover's feelings. The man who loves you will make you feel that being with him is the most correct choice, and at all times, there is a solid sense of security.
Someone said: "No matter how tough a man is, in front of a true lover, he can no longer be hard." ”
Men who know how to recognize "encouragement" are the greatest luck when they meet.
When a man falls in love with you, the most typical feature is "instigation", don't believe it.
【01】
Some people said: "Home is the most unreasonable place, and it is also a place where there is no difference between victory and defeat." ”
Two people have been together for a long time, and friction and contradictions are inevitable.
If a man truly loves you, he will bear all the unpleasantness alone, no matter how big or small, he will take the initiative to apologize to you and admit his mistakes.
Men who take the initiative to admit their mistakes are the smart men who know how to maintain family harmony.
Their ability to distinguish between right and wrong is not reflected in the shortness of their parents, but in the courage of boys who work hard outside.
"The Wife's Romantic Trip" Jiang Qinqin is often evaluated as "low emotional intelligence, mouth did not open the door." ”
She picked up Chen Jianbin, regardless of the occasion, and made the audience across the screen feel embarrassed.
However, Chen Jianbin, who deeply loves Jiang Qinqin, has never been angry, and he is infinitely tolerant of her in the program or outside the program, and when he finds that she has small emotions, he takes the initiative to bow his head and admit his mistake.
There are many definitions of good men, but in front of their wives, men who take the initiative to bow their heads are also a good man.
Ugly words will say that tantrums are also human instincts, and in front of lovers, men can suppress these bad emotions back, which is the ability.
Men who take the initiative to bow their heads and admit their mistakes always put their lovers in the first place, and they would rather be wronged themselves than care.
As the saying goes, "It is difficult for a clean official to break the housework." ”
A real man, even if he is a superman on the outside, at home, he who can bow his head for his lover is the real hero.
【02】
The love story of the famous scholar Hu Shi and Jiang Dongxiu has always been rumored to be a good story.
Mr. Hu Shi, who has studied abroad, not only has excellent academic achievements, but also has been exposed to new education and life concepts.
However, he was very filial to him, and still accepted the arranged marriage of his parents and married a woman with small feet.
He and Jiang Dongxiu, regardless of personality, knowledge or life trajectory, have almost no intersection, and many people are not optimistic about this marriage.
However, this "Mr. Suit" who is a titan in the academic world has coaxed the "little-footed wife" to smile, and the two have accompanied each other for a lifetime.
When Hu Shi was busy at work, when it was time for his wife to set, the meeting was not finished, and he would also be anxious to explain the situation and rush home.
He also made up his own "New Three from Four Virtues", "The wife should follow when she goes out, the wife must obey the order, the wife must blindly obey when she says wrong; the wife must wait for makeup, the wife must endure scolding, the wife must remember the birthday, and the wife must spend money to be willing." ”
He was notoriously afraid of his wife in the circle, a professor, but afraid of an illiterate who was "illiterate".
Mr. Hu Shi's love reflects the deep affection of taking his wife as the center and putting his wife in his heart.
The so-called "born pair", "heavenly union", is not necessarily a door-to-door pair, lang talent and female appearance, but in the feelings, cherish each other, understand each other.
Men who regard their wives' words as "holy will" are the true masters who stand up to the heavens and the earth, and men who know how to love and respect women are more worthy of respect.
【03】
Napoleon said, "A man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who takes a city." ”
In the face of love and marriage, we must not only bear the "jack" of work, but also deal with the green skin of life, the "sugar-coated shell" from the lover.
As the saying goes: "No quarrel, no quarrel, no husband and wife." ”
Good feelings, the more noisy feelings the better, increase the distance, on the contrary, couples who will not "quarrel", in the end can only gradually drift apart.
In the relationship, the man who truly loves you is reluctant to be angry with you.
A friend told a story that happened next to him, the man was a sanda coach, a tall man of one meter and eighty, married a petite wife of one meter and five meters.
Although his wife was small, her temper was not small at all, and when the two were just married, his wife was angry twice in three days, and even punched and kicked him.
And he has never fought back, scolded and not returned the mouth, let alone lost his temper with his wife.
Until one day, he thought of a way to vent, he ran to the train station where there were many people, deliberately exposing his mobile phone and wallet as bait.
He often attracts thieves, and then he will chase after the thief and beat him up, and he feels very relieved.
This trick was tried and tested, until he appeared in the train station, and even the thieves exchanged messages and avoided him, and he scared the thieves.
Back at home, he is still obedient to his wife, and his love for his wife warms each other in his unique way.
Not getting angry does not mean that there is no fire, but the man who never spreads his anger at home and does not get angry with his wife is the most powerful.
After a man falls in love with you, he is willing to change for you and become so "instigated", but so brave and responsible.
He is powerful enough to absorb all negative energy and turn you into a spoiled princess; he is only willing to be a docile little sheep in front of you and let you slaughter.
Love the man who is "provocative" in front of you, miss it, and you will never find it again.
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