There are various theories about marriage. Many people say that marriage is the graveyard of love, is marriage really so frightening? Can't you be happy? I hope the following marriage philosophies will make your marriage happy!
1. The four criteria for men to find a wife, the importance is in order: appearance, quality, ability, family background; the four standards for women to find a husband, the degree of importance is: ability, quality, appearance, family background. The most important quality of a woman is kindness, and the most important quality of a man is a sense of responsibility.
2, two people from acquaintance to marriage generally go through four stages: first, ordinary friends stage; second, ordinary male and female friends stage, commonly known as the ambiguous stage, there is a male-female relationship, but each other is free; third, the lover stage, that is, the moral norm of one-on-one male and female relationship, both parties into each other's real life, such as empathy, to pay a moral price; fourth, the husband and wife stage, is the one-to-one relationship between men and women stipulated by law, such as one party does not perform the legal obligations, to pay a legal price.
3, love has three characteristics: first, love is not self-controlled; second, when you love a person, you will never love TA again; third, the symbol of love is "I miss you", the person you miss every day is the person you love.
4, what a man looks like before marriage, for a long time after marriage, he is still like that.
5, family and friends are not optimistic about the person can not marry.
6, low IQ, can be made up by rote memorization of stupid birds fly first; low emotional intelligence, can be compensated by learning love skills and marriage rules.
7, just look at what he does, don't listen to what he says, don't guess what he thinks, his real thoughts are in his actions.
8, the person who can arouse your lust and the person who can live with you, without two or three years of interaction, it is difficult to be the same person.
9, the core word of the relationship between the sexes is only one, not "dependence", not "possession", but "attraction".
10, a man who is accustomed to spending his wife's money, his sense of responsibility is as vague as the curse of the New Year's Day gamble.
11, women, in marriage must grasp the real things!
12, power is an aphrodisiac, talent is also an aphrodisiac.
13, judge whether he has you in his heart, not to see how hot he is with you, but to see how close he is with you, kiss is intimate, intimate, sincere to help you.
14, skills need certificates, talents do not need certificates; marriage needs certificates, love does not need certificates - understand that love is a talent, maintaining marriage is a skill.
15, be a lover to make each other sexually happy, be a husband and wife to make each other happy.
16 The desire for control between men and women comes from sexual desire.
17) Your stability is a powerful force that creates attraction and cohesion to defend your marriage.
18, after marriage, you should put the family interests in the first place, the money earned must first meet the family expenses and family reserves, and then you can meet the needs of the husband and wife, the family interests are greater than the personal interests of the husband and wife, only in this way, the family will be built well.
19, some husbands are good husbands, because he spends his monthly income on mortgages, households, children and reserves, and then gives his wife the rest of the money to buy clothes and gifts, if there is a balance he will buy things for himself, if his wife also does this, then their family will be very warm and harmonious.
20, emotional pain can be divided into benign and malignant two, benign pain is like the pain of surgery, will be exchanged for health and new life; malignant pain is like the pain of wound infection, will lead to more painful results, and the initiator of malignant pain is resentment, dependence, demand and fantasy.
21, the husband as a nanny to rely on women are mentally disabled.
22, women, when you no longer love your husband, don't throw a tantrum at him, this is creating a time bomb.
23, only when you recognize the cruelty of marriage, you can say that you understand marriage, only those who understand marriage, can have a harmonious marriage.
24, women who love toss are actually waiting for men to conquer.
25, idle women will eventually become a pool of stagnant water, men can not avoid.
26, there is a normal state of married life, that is, patience.
27, husband and wife contradictions are inevitable, but they are already in marriage, and whoever takes no one has a rut, it depends on who is more independent than who is spiritually and economically.
28, marriage is not where we want to do, it is an integral part of the social structure, but also need to follow the rules of society, husband and wife independent, mutual respect, joint performance of family responsibilities, in order to have a harmonious and stable married life.
29, marriage can not be forced, in fact, the marriage that is forced is either an empty shell or a bomb, and it will not have a good end.
30, in the eyes of the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law is always an outsider.
31, the secret of coordinating the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to make them not think that they have lost to each other. Lose to you, they are willing, the mother thinks you have grown up, will live, the wife feels that you have the opinion, the manhood, the sense of security for you. Only when you have the ability to coordinate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will you not be splinted, but will be the most delicious part of the sandwich cookie.
31, "The Legend of the Eagle Hero" in the Huang Yaoshi deeply loves his dead wife, freezes the wife's corpse, accompanies him day and night, Huang Yaoshi faces this love corpse and repeatedly recalls the happiness of the past, like taking drugs - this is a metaphor: all those who cannot extricate themselves in the lost love are living in the yin and yang realm, pitiful, terrible, and hateful!
32, long-distance love, online love is how beautiful it is how painful, however, this pain is not like real love from the bits and pieces of life, the pain of real love is often rewarded, through the run-in, two people can better understand and adapt to each other, long-distance love, online love Pain is often not rewarded, because imagination can not replace reality, two people to really get married, the reality of the run-in is an essential stage.
33, the more women with low emotional intelligence, the more they like sweet talk men, which is simply a curse!
34, the driving force for maintaining marriage is not love, but family affection - there is still a strong desire for love in marriage is often an important reason for the breakdown of marriage.
35, not from the countryside to study, married to the city women are phoenix men, if there is no conspiracy against the wife's family property to cheat marriage, did not sell love drugs to the wife for the welfare of their family, it is not a phoenix man.
36, phoenix men have a scheming, but the calculation is their own wife, mental control, economic plunder, this is the fundamental reason for the society to shout at the phoenix man.
37, a modern woman can not because of marriage without normal social, can not suppress themselves.
38 Man is fragile in the face of desire, kindness and responsibility, because he can resist destructive desires and is precious.
39, many love stories, the beginning is to see who is more passionate than whom, the end is to see who is more desperate than whom.
40, guessing in love is fun, guessing in marriage is a scourge.
41, to have endurance, to endure the relationship between husband and wife is a little dirty, marriage is not clean, not dirty here or dirty there.
42, really lustful people are not good at gambling, and people who are really lustful are not.
43, without love, there will be no death, fantasy love will die!
44, love has two important meanings: first, control their feelings, can afford to put down; second, have the ability to deal with emotional problems. Do not love a few times, not traumatized once or twice, it is difficult to understand feelings, control feelings, can not be afraid of injury and do not fall in love, people are mature and grown up in pain.
45, late maturing women harm themselves for a lifetime, and late maturing men harm the whole family for a lifetime.
46, men admit mistakes usually just don't want to quarrel, not really feel that they are wrong.
47, marriage does not mean possessing each other, the development of monopoly psychology in the end is a complete loss.
48, marriage is not the princess prince has lived a happy life since then, but the beginning of new responsibilities and troubles, once you enter the marriage, the social role will suddenly increase, in addition to being the spouse of the other party or the other party's family members, the pressure of being a person will come, and the troubles will also come.
49. In marriage, only by striving for and enjoying due rights and interests is it called dignity.
Very really these sentences, after reading it, do you think that in fact, marriage is not as terrible as we think! Be kind to marriage, be kind to your partner, and want to have a happy marriage, in fact, it is not difficult at all, you say?