For today's society, many parents leave their hometowns to work hard in order to make their families better, but the psychological changes in children leaving their parents are great.
For a five-year-old who left my parents, I deeply appreciate the kind of loneliness that does not have parents around, in school, every year the school holidays or occasional parents' meetings let grandparents come instead, and others are parents and mothers come, occasionally so many times may not feel anything, to the back of the envy of others can have parents to come, and they did not, resulting in the back does not need someone to hold a parent-teacher conference for themselves, will also lie with the teacher, I have never been to my school since I went to school, Even when I read to the grades, my parents did not know, which made me hate my parents and envy others for having a good parent, the longer I left my parents and waited until they came home, I even felt that I could not call out the two words of my parents, and the kind of resistance in my heart was unconsciously born.
For the era when I was a child, a village had two landlines, saying that in order to think of my parents calling every day that is impossible, making several phone calls in a year is a luxury, from the beginning of pulling my grandparents to call my parents to in turn pulling me to call my parents, feeling in my heart that I don't miss them, my own three meals a year are grandparents, until now for my parents or no sense of kindness to my grandparents, a feeling that can't be said is pressed on the chest, As a left-behind child living with grandparents lacking the strict teaching of parents, their granddaughters and grandchildren here are reluctant to scold, and this also leads to more rebellion in their own children than other children, which is like the kite that is released and it is difficult to take it back.
In short, no matter before and now, children are inseparable from the companionship and careful teaching of their parents, no matter how busy they are, they still have to take time to accompany their children and understand their children