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Today I recommend to you the story of My Friend Xiaohan.
With the enhancement of China's national strength and the improvement of people's acceptance, transnational marriage has no longer caused the same discussion as in previous years. But in the past few years, transnational marriages are still talked about, with a little bit of ostentation and envy. Therefore, in this context, there are many women who marry foreigners for green cards, so what happened to them later? Today I will tell the story of my friend Xiaohan.
Xiao Han is my high school classmate, tall and hot, good reading results and then went abroad, has a good appearance and talent, such a girl is a lot of boys like it. Although Xiao Han has the ability, she is not a strong woman," on the contrary, she has a variety of styles, and is very proficient in human feelings, such a lovely person, I don't know how many men like it.
The years when Xiao Han went abroad were exactly the years when the admiration of the foreign world was very serious, and families with conditions rushed to send their children abroad, and it was better to study or live. Many girls have chosen to marry white people in order to obtain foreign green cards, and Xiaohan is no exception. We had never met the white man she had married, and we only learned from the rest of the population that the other person was nearly twenty years older than her, and then they had a mixed-race baby, and that child was indeed very good-looking. But the marriage with a purpose could not last long after all, after obtaining the green card Xiaohan divorced, the child returned to Xiaohan, and received a good maintenance fee, and then returned to China with the child. After returning to China, Xiao Han's parents were hanging around to introduce xiao Han to the blind date, and there was later Xiao Han's marriage object Li, Li Mou personal conditions were good, but they hid the true situation of Xiao Han from Li.
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Because He often travels on weekdays, it is impossible to stay together every day, but they will stick together as long as they have time. But then Xiaohan found a very strange thing, he called Li Mou, he sometimes did not answer, even if he answered, he always used the excuse of busy work to push off the meeting. If once or twice is okay, after all, they are people with jobs, the number of times, Xiaohan feels that her boyfriend's performance is very abnormal, she feels that things are definitely not so simple, so she simply went to the door, she wanted to know what was happening.
Li is also a very straightforward person, soon know the ins and outs of the matter, it turned out that last week, when Li and his friends gathered, he took out a photo of his girlfriend to show off to everyone, but one of the friends was a friend of Xiao Han's classmates, Xiao Han's ex was a white person, he heard his friend say, and roughly understood the situation of Xiao Han's ex, so he said slightly sarcastically, and you just treat her as a treasure. Xiaohan university is in the United States, her boyfriends are all foreigners, black and white people eat it.
After saying that, the friend also smiled meaningfully. It is such a smile, let Li mou very uncomfortable, after returning, Li more and more want to be more uncomfortable, originally like glue like paint feelings, suddenly feel that their feelings are not fragrant, and have a feeling of being deceived. This is also the reason why Li mou recently excused not to see Xiaohan.
Xiao Han heard her boyfriend say this, instantly speechless, her past love history, has passed and now there is no contact, who has not yet a past, now the boyfriend is making a scene.
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Xiao Han couldn't help but ask her boyfriend, what are you going to do?
Li mou directly said, "Your ex is either black or white, I can't accept it."
Xiao Han's temper came up, and he directly brushed his sleeves and left, and he didn't pay attention to his boyfriend for several days. Xiao Han also figured out at this time, if she deliberately concealed her past, the love she got would also erupt at any time like a time bomb, and it was at that time that she decided not to hide herself. But so far, Xiaohan is still single. After Separating from him, Li re-met a marriage partner.
In fact, What Li cares about is not that Xiao Han has an ex, but that he cares about the identity of the ex, because the ex is a nationality and other reasons, it is a big machismo, and this kind of machismo plot has it in most Chinese. And Xiaohan, in order to achieve the purpose of getting his green card, is willing to sell his marriage, but in the end, even if he gets a green card, he is not necessarily superior, but with the enhancement of China's national strength, the status of foreigners has not been as good as before. Li has this kind of thinking, it is estimated that many people have, but some people are good at handling this emotion, distinguishing whether they care about each other's past or care more about this relationship.
In fact, feelings and objects are the same, she is now her own, in the past it may belong to others, so it may have been touched, seen, and possessed by others, saying that it is impossible not to care, but people are sensory animals, and the final decision is often to follow their own hearts and follow their feelings.
Finally, as a modern person, you should have an open and inclusive mind, an independent view of love, and no matter how well others say it, life is your own. Whether it is a woman or a man, if you want to love, you should love deeply, listen to your own heart, rather than listen to the provocation of others.
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