Source l Reverse Liu (ID: yuanyuankaoshi)
What is your favorite season?
I received a handwritten letter of more than 2,000 words.
Punctured by one of the sentences.
The girl said:
Summer is all over the place for me.
I still like turtleneck sweaters and like to cover my neck with long hair, so I like winter the most.
Why?
Because she was a torticollis girl who grew up in the countryside, it was too late for her parents to find out and wanted to cure her, causing her eternal defects.
When taking pictures, it is ugly and distorted;
Unable to wear a suit, stand tall, and the young dream of becoming a host is completely shattered;
I didn't dare to take a step to participate in large and small activities to enrich myself, and I didn't know many friends.
In the crowd, like an outlier.
She is obviously very positive.
Insist on getting up early and maintain self-discipline;
Reading, watching movies, learning, grasping every minute and every second to improve yourself;
The eyes of others are different, and she comforts herself: simple life, simple learning, simple lover, if pain cannot be avoided, then it should be faced.
Good character, grateful, not complaining, she said:
I am grateful to my parents for giving me life and allowing me to come into this world and feel all the beauty I can touch.
For twenty-one years, life has been mostly happy.
Mom and Dad love me very much, My Mom gets a haircut in the countryside, My Dad works outside the home to provide me with college, and I have a cute sister, and my life is still tasteful.
But she would still be scared:
I don't know what I will do in the future, enter the society, how should I face the real problem?
Although it is said that looks are not very important, strength and ability can determine how far you go, in fact, whether in college or at work, personal image is in front of strength.
But no matter how I pack and dress up, my head is crooked.
In this way, how brave do I have to be, how strong is my heart, how firm I am in my eyes, how dare I stare into the eyes of others, dare not care about other people's opinions, and dare to walk out of my own steps?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="162" > God will leave windows for people</h1>
I cried at this letter.
However, its background color is very healing.
God closes the door to a man and opens the window.
She made a girl into a torticollis girl and was so bothered by it.
But she also handed out coping cards, such as love, such as mentality, such as education.
Buffett mentioned a word called the "ovarian dividend."
The gist is that before a person is born, his fate has already been decided by more than half.
What kind of genes, what kind of family was born, what kind of parents, what kind of country was born, and what kind of era were all determined early on.
In my opinion, you have an ovarian dividend.
Not torticollis, rural, unusual, is:
Your parents are good enough that they nourish your personality with love;
The country and society in which we live have done our best to guarantee the right of ordinary people to education;
Knowledge is the greatest noble person, and we have a great possibility to make our lives better by working hard.
So don't doubt it.
Your gratitude, your self-encouragement and self-healing, your library focus on grades, are all right.
Even if you feel that the process is a bit lonely.
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You're good.
It is the lack of a little "steadfastness".
If no one has ever told you firmly that torticollis is not a terrible flaw, you should not be treated with prejudice.
Then I'll come.
I feel from the bottom of my heart that it doesn't affect a girl's confidence and attractiveness.
Looks are nothing.
It is indeed a plus, but it is not a decision item.
You see Shen Teng, it used to be a school grass, how beautiful.
Now he is spat at by Lei Jiayin, "The longer it is, the more it is finished."
But this does not hinder at all, he is liked by many people.
When asked to "name three flaws in the body," he shook his head confidently and calmly: one did not!
You see Jia Ling, chubby.
When I was not very famous in the past, I always sacrificed my image on stage to play a clown and amusing people.
But I brushed vibrato last night and brushed up on fragments of her sketches.
Seeing that some people at the bottom said with true feelings, Jia Ling is a beautiful woman, and many people like this comment.
When I was in college, there was a girl in the same school, who was also very fat and had a little limp on her feet.
But she loves to wear beautiful Lolita dresses.
Occasionally in a class with her, I would see her, wearing makeup and a skirt, walking in slowly like a princess.
Accept the so-called defect, and it becomes very rare, very light.
Physical appearance can never define you or determine what kind of person you want to be.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="160" > life is really long, and it doesn't matter if you can't be self-consistent for the time being</h1>
If it was me before, it would be almost the same as the above.
But at the age of 30, I know "confidence" and "determination", not to say that there are words.
So I'd like to add something else.
The cerebral palsy poet Yu Xiuhua is very famous and has a lot of likes and recognition.
But she had such a conversation with Dong Qing.
Yu Xiuhua said that when she was in middle school, she was afraid of being watched by others eating.
"I don't look good when I eat, people always look at me, I'm scared, I wonder if I'm going to get my food on the ground."
Dong Qing asked her, when did she start to become less nervous and no longer afraid?
She said, I'm scared to this day.
But now that you've published a collection of poems and proven your talent, will you still be like this?
Yu Xiuhua answered:
Although these things can prove my talent, it only proves my talent, and it does not change many trivial things in my life.
It's still up to you to do it little by little, and the despair that arises in this process still exists.
Wow, I saw this, suddenly cheerful, feel so gentle.
Inferiority and fear have been rooted for so many years, you can't press people to say, pull out, and be confident.
After all, you are not a party.
You have not faced the little bits and pieces of despair that follow.
What qualifications are there to stand and talk without waist pain.
It's the same with you.
You're only 21 years old, and you've got a lot to go through.
Your studies have not been completed, your career has not yet been completed, and the so-called strength and ability still need time to precipitate.
You don't have enough confidence and courage to make big strides to be yourself for the time being, which is normal.
Life is long.
If you can't be completely self-consistent for a while, it doesn't matter.
Just keep you where you are.
With that little bit of frustration, fear, and even inferiority, go for an effort.
Let two little people coexist in your body, one standing in the light and one standing in the darkness, you pull me, I pull you.
Humans have a strong ability: we experience small stimuli and stress and recover, we become stronger.
No longer afraid of every "strange look".
Just treat them as inevitable "small stimuli and pressures", and train them as mobs.
You'll be defeated by those eyes once in a while, but you won't always be defeated.
Right?
Source of this article: public number @ against Liu, author Liu Yuanyuan.
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