Who would have thought that a most inconspicuous guest would become a celebrity in the fifth season of "Longing for Life" and attract a lot of fans with this show. This guest is Liu Xiaoyi, a low-key but charismatic man.
His charm is reflected in the "all-rounder", as if everything can be, after coming to the mushroom house, the work can not stop.
He will set up a tent and repair the pavilion that has been placed in the mushroom house for a long time by himself, solving the difficulty of eating without a pavilion.
He will use a variety of tools to make a variety of wood products, and it is no problem to grab it.
Can dance, graduated from the Beijing Dance Academy, all dance moves come and go, and he is a dashing and free person.
As a young director and actor of the National Drama Theatre, his performances have won many praises from professionals.
Will grill and cook, so that everyone in the mushroom house can eat delicious barbecue.
What the audience likes more is his gentleness, he will take his sister to shovel moss, will gently and patiently explain the story of moss, and will also tell his sister about his previous experience of playing landscapes.
The two people are like a father and daughter, the father takes his daughter out on an adventure, warm and loving.
Just such a man who is not red, but can go up to the hall and get down to the kitchen, let the audience remember deeply. This "three good men" exude charm and feel more secure.
Liu Xiaoyi in the program loves life and knows how to live, and he can see a lot of energy in him.
But in fact, such a man who loves life has also climbed out of the "ruins" and gritted his teeth all the way to achieve today's achievements.
When Huang Lei introduced him, he said that he had a past experience of selling barbecues in order to survive. In fact, this is not an exaggeration, and the reality is far more bitter than this.
Liu Xiaoyi, who graduated from dance school, stayed in Beijing to live, and he also insisted on acting in stage plays, but in 10 or 11 years, there were not many stage plays.
In order to live in the great City of Beijing, he chose to set up a barbecue stall at the entrance of the rented community and support himself by selling barbecues.
From leaving the stall at seven o'clock in the evening to closing the stall at twelve o'clock at night, these five hours can earn two hundred yuan. The income is quite high for Liu Xiaoyi, who also said in an interview that selling barbecue is very profitable.
It can be seen how short Liu Xiaoyi was at that time and how much he hoped to survive in Beijing.
Ben is a graduate of a prestigious school, has a passion for acting, but there is no market but not willing to leave Beijing, he has to find a way to support himself, even if he earns two hundred yuan a night is quite satisfied.
So, who has life spared? If you want to succeed, you have to bow to life first.
Selling barbecue in order to support himself, in order to survive in Beijing, acting is his "life". Therefore, whenever a play comes to the door and has the opportunity to go on the stage, he will not hesitate to rush over.
This kind of life lasted for a long time, and Liu Xiaoyi has been floating in Beijing.
At other times, Liu Xiaoyi will also perform on the street with actor Ding Yiteng, singing and performing anytime and anywhere. While this kind of public space performance didn't go viral, it was crazy enough.
Later, Liu Xiaoyi began to set up a small company with friends who loved to perform, and would perform stage plays in various places.
I wanted to make a big show, but the company did not last long because it could not pay wages and went out of business, and finally it had to be dissolved.
The company was dissolved, the dream in his heart was never extinguished, Liu Xiaoyi once again decided to reorganize the team, but the team had encountered an epidemic shortly after its establishment. This made them, who were not rich, once again worse, and almost did not survive.
In order to make the team more vigorous, in order to save the company some money, Liu Xiaoyi and his friends moved from the North Fifth Ring Road to Yanqing and used the nearly deserted ruined compound as a studio. The team members eat and drink here, and Liu Xiaoyi uses this place as an incubator for works.
In fact, doing drama does not make money, rehearsals are only two hundred yuan a day, and the workers who install the stage are three hundred yuan a day, to put it bluntly, it is not as good as a worker. Even more ironically, actresses make more time on the bathroom than they do in a year.
What do you mean by that?
In the crew, some people have calculated that there are many actresses who do not want to go to the toilet on the shooting floor and must return to the hotel. It takes an hour to go to a hotel and an hour to come back, and according to the contract, these two hours are also counted in the day's work time, that is, they go to the toilet with pay.
Just two hours on the toilet, the money earned is already the salary of a theater actor for one year.
The sky-high salaries of the actors are ironic and bitter compared to the wages of the theater actors who are not even as good as the workers.
Since he didn't make money, why did Liu Xiaoyi insist on doing it so much?
He once said in the show that he was moved by the audience when performing in third- and fourth-tier cities. The audience cried and told him that there was no chance to see the performance in such a small city, and in order for the children to see the performance, the family would spend money to go to the province every month to see it.
In that instant, Liu Xiaoyi was touched and felt his own value, and he once again made up his mind to do drama.
With the presentation of one excellent work and performance after another, Liu Xiaoyi slowly became famous, was also invited to participate in the show, and had more exposure opportunities. Therefore, the audience can see him and understand him in "Longing for Life".
However, it is hard to stick to this road, and no one can imagine that he loved life so much in "Yearning for 5" and once thought of suicide.
At the end of 2018, Liu Xiaoyi suffered from depression and lasted for half a year, during which time he thought about suicide many times and thought about cutting himself off. When I think of frustration, I will suddenly cry, and when I talk about various things in the past, I will also moisten my eyes.
Depressed, thinking about yourself, life fell into the lowest trough. He often hid in his room, only able to support himself by communicating with his wife and friends, so fragile that his palms sweated when he saw a living person.
According to the data of the "Positive negative emotional scale" and the "Perceptual Stress Scale" that measure emotional state and psychological stress state in the psychological community, after only one leisure scuba dive of about 30 minutes, the positive emotions of most divers increased significantly, the negative emotions were significantly reduced, and the level of psychological stress was also significantly reduced.
In other words, recreational diving has the effect of improving mood and relieving psychological stress, and the sea has a healing effect.
So, during that dark time, Liu Xiaoyi was obsessed with diving, quiet, open, beautiful, and the underwater world let him release the pressure.
Swimming, Liu Xiaoyi not only walked out of the trough of life, but also turned from recreational diving to technical diving, becoming a professional diver, and the deepest diving record was 42 meters under the sea.
After falling in love with diving, he went to release the stress every year.
Today's Liu Xiaoyi is so sunny and positive, it is difficult to think that he has lived so bitterly, and from him can also learn a truth: there is no obstacle that cannot be crossed, there is no mountain that cannot be turned over, gritting his teeth and insisting, he will always see that rainbow.
In the adult world, there is no word "easy", and sometimes, only by surviving can you discover the beauty of life.
What is valuable is that Liu Xiaoyi has never felt bitter, but has always felt that he has lived a very strong life.
This mentality is worth learning.
Liu Xiaoyi has many identities, is a young director, is a choreographer, is an actor... In his words, it is a "miscellaneous family", who loves to play and study.
Picture note: Liu Xiaoyi in the headline encyclopedia data
In addition, he also has many hobbies, like to paint, can live in the studio when there is nothing to do; like to run, a run is more than an hour; like to carve, become a professional props in the eyes of others; like to cook, become a friend's "breeder".
Such a man who loves life is full of charm, and it is no wonder that he can be liked by so many audiences.