A couple will always have contradictions after a long time together, and many times there will be cold wars, but often it is the bedside quarrel and the end of the bed, such a couple has the best feelings, and there is no need to be afraid of going to the point of divorce.
But often some couples, after living with their other half for a long time, begin to dislike their other half, feel that the other half is not good at all, and even have the idea that the other half is not worthy of themselves. So after a long time, these people will choose to cheat, and even if they cheat, they still feel very reasonable.
But in fact, cheating is unfaithful to marriage, but also irresponsible to the other half, a responsible person will never choose to cheat, while enjoying the good of two people. Those who cheat on the rightful people often have problems in their thinking, and without giving them a certain lesson, they have no way to realize their mistakes.
Today we come to share the story of a netizen Xin Rui to see what she has experienced.
Xin Rui and Zhang Wenlong have been married for two years, and the two people can also understand each other, and in the two years of marriage, there has never been a contradiction, and the relationship has always been very stable. I thought they would be so happy, but I didn't expect that the newly moved male neighbors would destroy their harmonious family.
Cheating on male neighbors
On this day, Xin Rui moved in next door to their house with a young couple. But their feelings don't seem to be very harmonious. Xin Rui was also out of curiosity, so she took a look. But unexpectedly, he and the male neighbor inadvertently looked at each other.
Xin Rui found that the male neighbor was very handsome and very gentlemanly.
As the days passed, Xin Rui also knew the basic situation of the family next door. It turned out that this male neighbor was in the female neighbor's house, and the female neighbor's family was very rich. But the male neighbor has to come from the countryside, and the work is arranged for him by the female neighbor, and the life is very leisurely. But the female neighbor is different, the female neighbor is an executive of a company, the work is very busy, and often does not come home at night.
On this day, Zhang Wenlong, because of the sudden arrangement of work for him by his boss, had to work temporarily overtime, called Xin Rui, and after saying this, he concentrated on work. Xin Rui also sat on the sofa, waiting for her husband to return.
But unexpectedly, there was a knock on the door next, and Xin Rui saw from the cat's eye that it was the male neighbor next door. Xin Rui opened the door, and after opening the door, Xin Rui understood that the male neighbor originally had no vinegar at home, and the big night, he was too lazy to go out to buy. So I wanted to borrow Xin Rui's family.
Xin Rui quickly took it to the male neighbor, who said to Xin Rui, "Thank you!" Didn't your husband come back either? I just made dumplings, let's eat a little together. A person in the province is waiting for boredom. ”
Xin Rui originally wanted to refuse, but her stomach was also a little hungry, and the male neighbor's attitude was very sincere, so Xin Rui went to the male neighbor's house.
After arriving, Xin Rui found that the home was clean, and Xin Rui was very shocked at this time, because she had never thought that a man could clean up the house so clean. But after tasting the dumplings, Xin Rui did not feel so strange, the dumplings were very delicious.
The male neighbor told Xin Rui that his life had been very hard since he was a child, so he would do anything. It is still a good job, but it is useless, or nothing can be achieved, only to do some idle things at home, even if the work is because of the wife's relationship.
Xin Rui looked at the unhappy male neighbor at this time, comforted a few words and returned to his home.
After that, Xin Rui became acquainted with the male neighbors, and when Zhang Wenlong and the female neighbors worked overtime, Xin Rui and the male neighbors would always sit together to spend time.
Slowly, Xin Rui developed feelings with the male neighbor and quickly did something to apologize to Zhang Wenlong.
Argue with your husband
On this day, Zhang Wenlong worked overtime as always, giving Xin Rui and the male neighbor the opportunity to be alone. But Zhang Wenlong's workload today is not large, so he quickly returned home. But after returning home, there was no sign of Xin Rui.
At this moment, hearing his wife's laughter, Zhang Wenlong opened the door and looked at it, and it turned out that his wife was talking to the male neighbor. Zhang Wenlong was trying to come forward to say hello, but she did not expect Xin Rui and the male neighbor to kiss passionately.
Zhang Wenlong was completely shocked, and did not expect that Xin Rui had done something sorry for himself with the male neighbor, Zhang Wenlong was very angry, and went forward to pull his wife back home.
Zhang Wenlong asked Xin Rui, "What are you two doing?"
Xin Rui said with a straight face at this time, "Didn't you all see it?" Knowingly asking what? ”
Zhang Wenlong said to Xin Rui, "Are you worthy of me for doing this?" I'm working hard to earn money out there to support my family, and you're messing around with other men. ”
Xin Rui said to Zhang Wenlong: "Who let you not have time to accompany me, there is just a person who is willing to spend time with me, and he is also very fond of me, and even cooks for me to eat." You think about it after all the years we've been married, have you ever cooked a meal? Have you ever forgiven my hardships? Just say you work hard, then I'm not hard at home? ”
Zhang Wenlong said to Xin Rui: "It is true that I ignored your feelings and did not take time to accompany you." But you can't cheat, don't you think about how much this thing hurts me? ”
Xin Rui said to Zhang Wenlong, "I think I did the right thing!" After all, people are more handsome than you, gentle and considerate, and will take care of people, and don't have to worry about not having time to accompany me. Now you can go to work with peace of mind. ”
Zhang Wenlong said to Xin Rui: "You are so shameless, since he is so good, why don't you divorce me and live with him?" Since you look down on me so much and complain so much about me, why should you put up with it? ”
Xin Rui said with a straight face, "You think I don't want to, if he hadn't said he couldn't get a divorce, I would have gone away with him a long time ago."
Zhang Wenlong sighed helplessly at this time and returned to the bedroom.
Since that day, Zhang Wenlong has not said a word to Xin Rui, and Xin Rui has not paid attention to Zhang Wenlong at all, but continues to talk to the male neighbor you and me.
Wanting to return to the family was rejected
In this way, Xin Rui has been cheating with a male neighbor for eight years. However, the male neighbor suddenly broke up with Xin Rui and also moved, and Xin Rui could not contact the male girlfriend.
After another two years, Xin Rui finally felt tired and wanted to live a good life with Zhang Wenlong, and also wanted to apologize to Zhang Wenlong.
But unexpectedly, Xin Ruigang said that she wanted to live a good life with Zhang Wenlong. Zhang Wenlong said to Xin Rui, "I'm with his wife."
Xin Rui couldn't stand it at this time, and scolded Zhang Wenlong: "Do you want to face, how can you do this to me?" I know it's wrong, why are you with her? ”
Zhang Wenlong said to Xin Rui: "How you cheat is to pursue true love, it is a matter of course, and I just don't want my face." Don't you think it's a bit too double-standard? You want to go back to family now, I tell you, I disagree. I'm sure I'll give you a taste of how I felt. ”
After Zhang Wenlong finished speaking, she turned her head and went to the company, Xin Rui was very sad, and finally realized how Zhang Wenlong felt when she cheated on her. Xin Rui tried her best to save the marriage, but it was too late. Zhang Wenlong did not give Xin Rui a chance at all, and always did not go home, Xin Rui finally could not stand it and chose to divorce.
The matter of cheating is something that everyone can't stand, because it's not just a thing, but it represents the attitude of the other party, once the other party cheats, it means that the other party has completely denied himself as a person, and he has no idea of thinking about himself, so for the sake of family harmony or the child's choice to continue this one-eyed person, it is also a helpless move, but in the end the family has been broken, and it is impossible to go back to the past.
Xin Rui slowly developed feelings with her male neighbor because she was dissatisfied with her husband's busyness, and after Zhang Wenlong found out, she did not recognize her mistakes, but felt that she was right. In the end, after being dumped by the male neighbor, he wanted to return to the family, but was rejected by Zhang Wenlong. In the end, it was still unbearable, Xin Rui chose to divorce, Xin Rui's divorce was caused by her own hands, and she could not blame others.
So the girl must understand that the matter of cheating is something that can never be touched, once touched, we must be mentally prepared to lose the marriage, even if in the end we know that we are wrong, we can not make up for the harm to the other party, so this is not a small thing, we must stick to their original intentions, but also can withstand temptation.
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Have you ever met someone like Xin Rui?
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