<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the guardian of shining stars</h1>
"A flash of a shining crystal, the sky is full of small stars, hanging in the sky to put light, as if many small eyes flash a shining crystal, the sky is full of small stars" When I heard this song when I was a child, I felt warm and incomparable, as if I was telling endless love, and this love often accompanied us to sleep peacefully. Seeing the stars and thinking of the stars is the guardian of love and the source of love.
Before that, I thought that my parents and family were guarded by love, never mixed with a little impurity, all gentleness, all care was between the family, so the filling could be forgotten.
Recently, the hot search topic on the Internet, Zheng Shuang Zhang Heng's surrogacy and abandonment of the matter has been stirring up on the Internet, which has once again subverted our cognition. Although Zheng Shuang once posted an exposure and clarification, saying that it was related to the man's cheating and shirked responsibility. The woman repeatedly offered to give the child away. Although the child is very small, I don't know, what will this child's life be like? What regret and helplessness will be.
Dear child, who can save you?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > what exactly is the "star-chasing child" chasing? </h1>
In recent years, the influence of the "original family" theory has gradually entered our vision, the unhappiness of childhood, the influence of the original family into the field of vision, as if a reincarnation gradually affects us, we see the original different family, and even the theory of domestic violence began to awaken, we began to reflect on our different life milestones.
"The Child Who Chased the Stars" touched my heart, and also made me suddenly understand a different life and a different beauty, it turns out that the persistent pursuit in each child's heart is for the protection of the pure sky, and many things that we do not understand may be just to protect the pure love in our hearts.
"The Child Who Chased the Stars" tells the story of Aniya who was fostered with her brother in a house called Aunt Iuchuk after her mother's departure, and when she saw a star, she stubbornly thought that it was her mother, and could not be named at the same time, for the protection of this heart, so on Halloween, she took her brother and two foster Ben and Tevez to finally achieve their hearts after many hardships, and of course, finally touched us with warm love.
The author of this book is Angali Q. Lauf is a British social activist who has studied women's studies at the University of Wales, Yaboli University and Oxford University. She is committed to philanthropy in a number of countries and regions, having been shortlisted for the Emma Humphreys Award and her novels received several honors in 2019.
"The Child Who Chased the Stars" is Angary's second novel, nominated for the 2020 Carnegie Prize for Literature, shortlisted for the 2021 UKLA Book Award, the Bookseller Magazine BABB Reader Finalist Award, won the UK's "Diversity Book Award", Amazon 4.8 high praise, Water Master Bookstore, The Guardian, "Sunday Independent Guardian" moved the recommendation.
It can be seen that this is a super heavyweight book, and it is also very worth reading.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the pure land of the soul that mothers guard for their children</h1>
When I read this book, I was very moved, touched by the pure land that the mother guarded for her children.
In the process of describing the past with her mother, the protagonist in the book describes it this way, sometimes when her mother needs to move furniture, her mother will show us TV, that is, "The Lion King", and her mother will turn up the volume very much. Lock the door of the room, sometimes Dad will pound the door hard, and once Dad was very strong and alarmed the police.
When fleeing with the children, the mother hides them in a small hotel that does not look like it, telling the child that the child is playing a game with the father that the father cannot find. But who ever thought this game Mom never came back.
However, the mother left a beautiful fantasy for the child: "Even ordinary people, with a pure and good heart, can become the brightest star in the night sky— even more than the stars of the king and queen." 」 ”
Everyone in the world will have their own guardian star, and there will be stars in the sky that will always look at you.
So, she learned the bad news of her mother, so she had a belief, "Mother has become a star, guarding her!" "It's just that he doesn't know that Mom is the star, but love is always there."
So when she heard the news, she still had a kind heart, and her father loved them, and his father would definitely take her back. He even wanted to share this love with his two comrades-in-arms and give them a warm home.
This is the mother's best efforts to protect the child, but also a strong sense of love. Anyway, I'll hold up a clear sky for you.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > kids who chase the stars desperately</h1>
When she saw on TELEVISION that the star was to be named, he desperately decided that it was his mother, and the mother was guarding in the sky, so she had to guard it, and of course the children were the same. It turns out that every child believes that desperately helping is also the protection of their own hearts.
While resting on the road, she finally learned about the misfortunes of several other people, perhaps they had all encountered the same thing. Very sad.
So everyone chases and guards desperately, including things they think should not be done, people who should not be hurt, kind fosters.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > touched guardian</h1>
Originally, they desperately fled, thinking that they were all malicious, but they did not find that they were silently guarding. Passers-by had strange eyes and wanted to help, because the children had never known the truth, but everyone knew. Television and news broadcasts were out, and when they found out, the screen appeared: "Don't go to him when you". None of them knew.
But at that meeting, all the people tolerated him, and it turned out that Mrs. Iutchuku knew everything, so she tried to stop them from traveling, including finding out that they had run away, including the news, hoping to stop the children, afraid that they would encounter danger and violence, but they were completely unaware.
All the people at the observatory accepted them, even a steady stream of gifts of love, and finally they met a good family adoption and lived a happy life. Very happy ending.
But in reality, you may not be so lucky.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > how much domestic violence really hurts? </h1>
From the description of the novel, the protagonist's loss of voice, and the brother's bedwetting, there is such a description that he only wets the bed when he is afraid. You can imagine how much this hurts. If there is no treatment, it is estimated that such a shadow will accompany this lifetime.
The first time I met a friend, saying that I was beaten by my boyfriend in bed, the first time I knew what domestic violence was, but when I was chatting with my friend, she said to me: "Isn't it normal for men to beat women?" He just drank and woke him up like I apologized, not on purpose. "But it happened again and again until they had children, and the children grew up day by day. Later, as soon as the husband moved, the child desperately protected her and fought with her father, but although it was very strong, several children were not so happy in marriage.
Later, after listening to the healing class, I learned about the influence and psychological trauma of the original family, and I felt how much the past experience had hurt the child.
Maybe my life can be like this, but I want to give my children a happy life, the so-called mother is just. Seeing the reports in recent years, I am very emotional.
Everyone has a pure land to guard in their hearts, and it is also a desperate and persistent pursuit, but on this road of protection, no one can really save you, only you can save yourself. When you start chasing and saving yourself, you will find that fate is different.
Each of us is a "child chasing the stars", seeing the chase of others, please extend your warm hand to give a little love, let love give strength.
Sometimes, we must say no firmly, life is beautiful!
"The Child Who Chased the Stars" is not just a children's book, I think it is worth everyone's look.