The family has two children, the eldest is in the sixth grade, facing the beginning of the primary school. The elementary school has just entered the first grade, and is faced with the formation of learning habits and the nanny-style education that is separated from the teacher.
The eldest kid is now twelve years old and stands with me, taller than me (I'm 1.6m). Faced with the problem of her learning, it is not easy to solve it now when she was a child. When children are young, children will tell their parents about things, and when they are older, children will have their own little secrets. In the past, children used to be chattering at home, and now they are all staying in their rooms and reading books, and they will no longer surround their parents.
In the past, children did homework and wrote homework, did not do well, roared twice, and really could not hit twice. Now that the child is older, when you want to talk about her, she doesn't want to talk to you about that topic. Seeing that attitude, you don't know how to go on with her, really reason with her, I guess she understands, saying more may only be counterproductive.
Small children are now mainly learning habits, habits are formed, and they will be better in the later stage. But the difference in the personality of boys and girls is really quite large, and the previous methods of educating his daughter have no use in him.
Children are also slowly growing up on the way to being children and students. As a parent, I can only accompany them to slowly explore and grow up slowly.
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