Beautiful women are too advantageous in this era of beauty economy, the industries where beauty is concentrated are the best industries in this society, all high-quality capital, source positions are inclined towards beautiful women, and all the struggles of men revolve around women and wives. Naturally, the beauties of this era are extremely confident and inflated, fluttering in the pursuit of suitors, losing themselves.
"Ladies and gentlemen", men often prefer good-looking women. However, under careful observation, I found that most of the good-looking women around them did not have a smooth emotional path; on the contrary, those women with ordinary looks had very stable and happy feelings. So why is there such a contrast?
In fact, the fundamental reason lies in the problem of choice. Women with average looks understand their appearance very well, and have accepted the fact that they are very ordinary and ordinary since childhood, and such women cherish love extra much. They know that this call may be the only one in their lives, and missing it is a lifetime. Usually, everything is backed down, and the woman who is only promised will often be extremely brave at this time, and she wants to grasp the madness and initiative like a life-saving straw, and she is often less critical of the appearance and material conditions of the other half.
On the contrary, those long and beautiful beauties, as dazzling as the jewels in the crown, have been praised and envied from birth, so they are born with their own aura and aura. But marriage is a choice that considers personal vision more than entrepreneurship, and the fault tolerance rate is extremely low, that is to say, as long as it is wrong once, it may delay for life, so looking beautiful is just the icing on the cake, and women if they do not have core competitiveness, look beautiful, sometimes can only be counterforce.
And now women love to dream, three points of looks and seven points of dress, very beautiful, look at the screen, wow, how do I look so good, and then start to float up, with a monthly salary of 5,000, the standard of mate selection in the heart is the annual salary of millions of rich handsome. But the rich will not only stare at a person's appearance, so it is almost impossible for a beautiful woman with only looks to marry into the rich, and when the resources of this beautiful woman are exhausted and she has been wandering in society for a few years, he wants to be quiet and wants to find an honest person to marry. And because of her previous experiences, it is difficult for beautiful women to have love with honest people, and even, they will dislike this honest person, so most of their marriages are unhappy. What to do must pay attention to the door, the prince fell in love with Cinderella, that is a fairy tale, the ideal is very full, the reality is very bone, how big the foot is, how big the shoes are, otherwise it can only be married to the years.
Falling in love or even getting married is not determined solely by appearance, perhaps at the beginning, a beautiful woman relies on her own face, which will make many men fall in love with her. However, after spending a long time together, the freshness provided by the appearance alone will slowly fade. The women men like are all the same, but the women men hate are surprisingly the same.
1. Women who are insincere about their feelings
Compared with foreign men, Chinese men are actually a more traditional, attach great importance to feelings, and women who just hold a playful attitude towards love will not be cherished by men. What kind of people attract what kind of people, this attitude can only suffer from women, after all, the older a woman is, the more difficult it is to find a good belonging.
Men know men best, and there are many good-looking women around me, but most of them are not smooth emotionally, and few of them can last a long time in a relationship, which is also related to their attitude towards feelings. At least for me, I feel that this kind of woman, no matter how beautiful, will not be cherished by men, and so are many of the examples I have seen.
2. A woman who is too clingy in her feelings
I used to have a girlfriend who was really beautiful, and I did pursue her because she was good looking. She was lukewarm to me at first, and it took me a lot of effort to catch her.
After that, her attitude changed a lot, she became more and more enthusiastic, more and more clingy. At first I thought it was good, after all, a good-looking and caring girlfriend, which man doesn't want it?
However, the more I arrived, the more I felt bored, I felt that there was no freshness in getting along, she almost put all the focus of her life on me, I felt a lot of pressure and did not feel like I was in love before.
Sometimes, I think I like the way she used to be cold and indifferent to me more than the way she looked later.
3. A woman without an ego, suspicious of god and ghost
A friend was divorced once, but his ex-wife was a very beautiful woman, and I was puzzled by this, and I also asked him: "Your wife is so good-looking, you are not satisfied, and you still want to divorce?" ”
At that time, he replied to me with a smile: "Beautiful is beautiful, but it can't be eaten as a meal!" ”
He said that his ex-wife had no job after getting married, but his ex-wife's sisters were all at work, and most of the time the ex-wife went out shopping alone and so on. Over time, it becomes suspicious.
At first, he secretly looked at his mobile phone, and then even ran to his company to see if there were any good-looking little girls around him.
He felt that such a life was very tired, busy in the company every day, after work to face his wife's various doubts, even if the ex-wife is beautiful, he can't stand it, so he simply divorced.
Conclusion:
The facial features are a weapon to attract men to understand women, but the three views are an important reason for men to cherish women.