#你们身边有没有一夜之间性格大变的人 #
It's me, and it's not just a change, it's always changing. Now one for juniors.
Interpersonal aspects
When I was a child, I was a child who was lonely in front of other people, talked a lot in front of his family, was very warm and romantic, and even lost control of his emotions. But because I was not sociable and was stimulated by some stimulation, my first change (kindergarten) came and I became somewhat sensitive and inferior. I studied hard to gain recognition, but I found that I was still unpopular. I realized that it was my poor communication skills that caused me not to be accepted by my classmates, and I overcame my psychological fears and began to deliberately behave very lively and joke with everyone. But I don't grasp the scale well, and I often joke too much. This was my second transformation (fourth grade) and I became an extrovert to a jumper, but the inner sensitivity was still there and didn't go away. I can feel that I'm overstating my jokes or acting uncomfortable, feeling lost and afraid. Later, I realized that I had to change the way I overtook myself, overcome my emotional loss of control, stop making excessive jokes, and began to learn to analyze problems rationally. Everything is analyzed from the perspective of a bystander and remains calm. Then the problem came again, I still couldn't grasp the degree, I was too fond of telling the truth. Although it is all true, it is often what others do not want to hear. Classmates are prone to friction between them. This is the third transformation (freshman to sophomore year of high school), I became a hedgehog who always stabbed others with the truth, I used my own requirements to ask others, and imposed my own principles on others. I can accept that others tell me hurtful truths, and I can tell uncomfortable truths to others, so that others can be as calm and rational as I am. This time the transition took a long time, because high school students can hide their emotions and avoid conflicts, and I am not so eager to change. Then there's the fact that high school is too busy to have time to think about it. Recently in the fourth transformation (junior year -?) I began to become tolerant, not to constrain others with what I asked of myself, and to accept that others had different views and styles of conduct. Unlike before, I was angry when I encountered different points of view, and although it was still a little uncomfortable, I quickly self-relieved.
Studying the aspect of work (or outlook on life)
From elementary school to junior high school, I was a very strong person who vowed not to give up until I reached my goal. But I set myself high goals, which caused me to always be anxious and miserable because I was a little bit worse than my goal. He even questioned himself, thinking that he was incompetent, and wanted to escape everything by dying. Sure enough, the results of the middle school entrance examination were not satisfactory, so I was very miserable, but when I came to high school, I found that the current school seemed to be more suitable for my development. I have a transformation, and since I can't grasp my fate, I might as well accept it. I began to learn to reconcile with myself, this stage is very long, a little bit of accumulation, try. By the first year, I could accept that I was an ordinary person, not perfect, and would not use too high requirements to force myself, but I just tried my best.
Worldview aspect
When I was young, my parents and sister were very pragmatic and taught me to use money as a sign of success. But as I grew older, I had my own thoughts, and I didn't think that money was the most important thing. Human greed is endless, and blindly pursuing money and power will become a thoughtless ant, driven by money to move forward, and painfully live a lifetime. To be content and happy, on the basis of ensuring a certain material standard of living, we should pursue more ideals and fun.