[What is shared here is only the editor's personal emotional business experience, please treat it rationally]
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > five years of long-distance running, there is no shortcut to business feelings</h1>
"In the way of handling contradictions and each quarrel, it lays the foundation for the emotional state of the two people in the future."
I always think that there is no shortcut to the management of feelings, and it makes sense for two people with their hearts to come together and run in both directions. Every couple in love will more or less have contradictions and quarrels in the process of getting along. Even if they have been together for five years, there will still be a lot of quarrels and conflicts.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > the management of feelings in life</h1>
"Finding a balance between two people in life together"
In the process of getting along, I think that a relatively balanced decomposition of things in life is a way to promote feelings.
For example, I am responsible for: washing clothes and drying clothes regularly, mopping the floor to clean, washing dishes after meals, walking the dog together...
She will be responsible: tidying up the pillow quilt, storing clothes and pants, buying vegetables and cooking, walking the dog together...
(Here's a special note: girls have a few days of discomfort, these days boys should bear more points.) ）
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="18" > face contradictions and quarrels together</h1>
"To be clear about the problems together can avoid the next quarrel over the same thing."
In the face of contradictions and quarrels, it is not advisable to blindly tolerate and ignore the problem in order to avoid quarrels.
In fact, in every quarrel, I believe that most people will subconsciously argue out the uncomfortable things that they are not accustomed to in their hearts; when they encounter contradictions and disagreements, quarrels mean that there are problems with each other, and it is not advisable to choose to ignore the problem of this quarrel in order to save feelings after the quarrel and avoid quarreling again. This will only plant a bomb on the feelings, and it will break out again the next time the same thing happens.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > life needs small surprises</h1>
"Routines are learned, like you and I am attentive"
Boring and tedious life, day after day, year after year, always need to create some small surprises to color the feelings.
"Love the right person, Valentine's Day goes by every day"
No matter where you see the romantic plot, as long as you can apply it with your heart, even if it is to send flowers, she can be very happy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" > generous for feelings</h1>
"Dare to give a result to feelings, is an affirmation of the other party"
Not hiding it in front of friends is a basis for mutual trust.
After making psychological preparations, after reaching certain conditions, it is necessary to see your parents. Then be generous, be prepared in advance and summon up the courage to go, do not temporarily retreat, do not dare to face. Because this is the original family of the person you like, if the heart is determined, then this is always to be faced.
This article only represents the editor's personal view of love, and friends who have more love experience to share can discuss in the comment area.