In fact, there is always a time in life that is like that, just like the bai weather has a cloudy day. Sunny days and rainy days, people can't stop it, instead of thinking about what has been lost, it is better to be optimistic and think more about happy things. Find something you like to do, or go to a place you want to go, forget your past troubles, start your life from scratch, enrich yourself, and wish you happiness!
What to do when you feel lost because you don't have a clear purpose in life?
The biggest difference between humans and animals is that people live consciously, so they need to set a goal for their own life. Without a clear purpose in life, people will feel like they are lost, confused, confused and uneasy. Clarifying one's life goals is an important part of the development of college students' self-awareness.
Method 1: Social Practice Law. The goal of life is not a utopia, but on the basis of sufficient life experience and full understanding of society, combined with their own interests, hobbies, strengths, motivations and objective conditions, etc., through continuous thinking and choice, they are gradually established. Many college students do not have clear life goals, which is precisely due to insufficient life experience and insufficient understanding of society, so walking out of the closed wall of the campus and fully understanding society, experiencing life and increasing experience through various ways is the only way to establish life goals. The more confused individual students are, the more they close themselves off and are unwilling to make positive life attempts, which is not conducive to mental health.
Option two: the phase objective method. If you don't understand the long-term goal, set yourself a short-term goal (one year, two years, or five years) based on what you think you should do or want to do right now. The realization of the stage goals will greatly promote the formation of long-term goals. Don't mess around because the goal is not clear, get by and get by.
What do you do when you feel inferior because you don't have a specialty?
The desire for excellence is a normal psychological motivation, and everyone should constantly pursue excellence. However, if you stubbornly hope that you are good in all aspects and feel inferior to not being able to achieve this goal, you become a perfectionist. This tendency is detrimental to personal development. Your troubles may have something to do with this, because there is no such thing as a person who has no strengths at all.
Method 1: Merits Investigation Method. As the saying goes, "bystanders are clear", to the people around you "what are my strengths or strengths" questionnaire, through the eyes of others, you will definitely find that your strengths and strengths are actually a lot.
Method two: Study the Fa in a timely manner. No one's strengths are innate, but are consciously or unconsciously acquired through learning and exercise. Therefore, there is no need to be inferior, you want to have some strengths, just act immediately and learn to exercise purposefully. You will find that the specialty that is not currently available will be available in a few years.