In the relationship between men and women, women may be particularly puzzled, do men need to build self-confidence?
In fact, the reason why many men have become what you think is unbearable in life is because of their inner inferiority.
Such inferiority will produce a series of negative problems.
For example, when a man argues with you, he slams the door and leaves! And in getting along, often looking ahead and looking back, you need to come up with ideas! These are all manifestations of a man's inferiority complex.
Because there is no ability to deal with things, it will selectively retreat and escape.
If a man has such a situation, he needs to build self-confidence in the other party.
If you just blindly hit him, or dislike him, it will make the other party more and more unable to raise his head, and the more he lives, the less man-like he is.
So, in real life, what behaviors will men have when they have inferiority?
Don't make it worse to defeat a man, destroy a man at the same time, but also destroy yourself, ruin the happiness of the whole family.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > first: obedience</h1>
In the relationship between men and women, if a man is obedient to you and seems to love you and spoil you, it is actually psychological inferiority and does not dare to confront you tit-for-tat.
True love and affection is absolutely generous and pleasant.
But some men, for your requirements, is against the will and will, sometimes know that it is your fault, prefer to listen to your words, one mistake after another, do not have their own opinions and consciousness.
This is a precursor to a man's inferiority, and as a woman who wants to spend the rest of her life with this man, she must accompany him through this difficult time.
For example, in daily interactions, is it that women are too strong, causing men to feel inferior in psychology, so that men feel that they can't do anything well.
Or men are inherently introverted and have no self-confidence. In short, men are too obedient, not a good thing.
Because once there is a difficulty, you can't count on it at all, and you even need to take him all the way.
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In the relationship between men and women, we all know that women are particularly sensitive and vulnerable inside.
But some men will also show a sensitive and fragile side in getting along, for example, you are originally saying that other people's problems are bad, other people's problems, but he is sensitive enough to think that he is talking about himself.
This psychological self-direction, self-guidance, is a manifestation of sensitivity, the same psychological inferiority caused.
Therefore, in the face of such a man, we must establish a strong self-confidence of men, praise men more, and let men understand that they have many excellent places and places worthy of appreciation by others.
Men, only by constantly establishing the belief of self-confidence, will become excellent little by little.
Just like we teach children, if we blindly criticize children and say bad things about children, then this child will think that he is like this, and even break the jar.
For women, it is important to understand the positive significance of praise for a man who has low self-esteem in his heart.
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In real life, if you're with a man, men often ask you what to do.
Well, such a man is very inferior in his heart and not firm enough. This kind of expression of not having an idea, asking others for everything, and asking others to take ideas is the embodiment of inner self-confidence.
Because in such a man's heart, there is no certainty about anything.
To put it more bluntly, it is not enough to believe in yourself, there is no spirit of adventure.
In fact, in the face of such a type of man, it is difficult for the other party to expand the territory and play a piece of the sky.
Therefore, for women, in the face of such a situation as a man, it is necessary to help the man correct it in time as soon as possible, even if some of the judgments made by the man are wrong, we must encourage him more.
Let him understand that mistakes are not terrible, and mistakes can be corrected and started. Without the spirit of adventure, without the confidence and mind to rush forward, that is the most terrible thing.