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A calm and wise woman, will not fight against the years, will not seek medical and aesthetic techniques, she will follow the footsteps of time, elegant and calmly grow old, such as Pan Hong.
Yi Shu, a writer who is good at describing the psychological characteristics of women, once praised Pan Hong's beauty: "She and Liu Xiaoqing appeared at the same time in the bright and green occasions, and Pan Hong's low profile and Sven won Liu Xiaoqing to the end. ”
The mainland actress of the 80s of the last century, Liu Xiaoqing's beauty, is full of brilliance, people remember her as the fateful tofu Xishi in "Furong Town", and also remember that she is the affectionate and desperate female emperor in "Wu Zetian"...
The beauty of He Saifei is like a red rose with thorns, people remember her "Five Daughters Worship Shou", and also remember that she is Yang Jiuhong, who is also strong and soft in "The Gate of the Big Mansion"...
Sichengaowa's beauty, the atmosphere is dignified, people remember her as the tiger girl in "Camel Xiangzi", and also remember that she is the empress dowager of Xiaozhuang in "Kangxi Dynasty";
Pan Hong's beauty, intellectual calm, many people compare her to an iceberg beauty, she is Li Tong in "The Last Nobleman", and also song Meiling, the first lady of the Republic of China in "Who Is the Lord"...
These three elderly actresses, in the 80s, they were once praised by the media as "three golden flowers in the film world".
Time flies, the waves are sandy, they are still standing in the film and television circle, as the three major female labor models in the mainland film industry, there are countless representative works, each with its own advantages.
However, why would Pan Hong, who is highly cold and intellectual, take refuge in Buddhism after divorce and carry out his singleness to the end?
Reminiscing is like a year of water, and the past is hard to look back on.
Pan Hong was born in Shanghai on November 4, 1954, and is now 67 years old.
Pan Hong's real name is Liu Ronghua, and her background is very complicated, and she is said to have Russian ancestry.
Her mother took her to remarry liu's stepfather, and she also had two more half-sisters.
When he was 10 years old, his stepfather committed suicide by taking medicine because of a sports campaign, and his mother changed her daughter's surname to her own Pan surname for the sake of Pan Hong's future.
That year, pan hong, in accordance with her mother's instructions, went home alone to take her stepfather's urn home, sat on the train, holding her stepfather's urn, three days and three nights of the journey, all that came to her mind was the stepfather's kindness to herself.
She remembered that her stepfather had taught her to read and read, and remembered his earnest teachings, such a good person had become a handful of ashes in her hand, and at that moment, she suddenly understood life and death, and it turned out that people lived for a lifetime, but it was just a process of sorrow and joy.
As the eldest daughter in the family, Pan Hong suddenly grew up during that three-day and three-night journey, and in those years, in addition to knowing how to take care of herself, she would also help her mother take care of her two younger sisters, because only by doing so would she feel that she would reduce the burden on her mother a little.
After the death of her father, her mother wanted to support a large family by herself, a heavy financial burden, so that her mother grew old quickly, and her white hair grew more and more, and the bitter days of stretching and stretching made Pan Hong secretly swear that she would definitely get ahead in the future and let the whole family live a happy life.
At that time, Pan Hong often helped her mother to do housework, and she also studied hard, and her mother liked to see her report card the most, and every time she got a good result, her mother smiled very happily.
So Pan Hong had to work harder, because it seemed that this was the only way she could see the rare smile on her mother's face.
Pan Hong later recalled the past, saying that perhaps because she had grown up too fast, she and her mother got along more like friends.
When Pan Hong went to school, the music teacher found that she was very musically talented and suggested that she learn the violin, but a violin cost a lot of money to buy, thinking that her mother's salary was less than 100 yuan per month, Pan Hong had to refuse the teacher's suggestion.
Originally thought that this matter was so calculated, but she did not expect that a few years later, Pan Hong received a gift from her mother from Shanghai, and opened it to see that it was a children's violin.
It turned out that although many years had passed, the mother was still grumpy about this matter and never forgot to compensate for her daughter's childhood regrets.
In 1973, at the age of 19, Pan Hong was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy and began her acting life.
In 1978, Pan Hong debuted at the peak and became the brightest new star in China by starring in the movie "Distressed Laughter".
Her melancholy and cold temperament makes her an iceberg beauty in the minds of a generation.
In 1981, Pan Hong's wonderful performance in the movie "Du Shiniang" once again set off a wave of movie watching, and she presented Du Shiniang's unstained temperament, infatuated and fierce character personality to the fullest.
With this work, Pan Hong won the Best Actress Award at the 4th Hundred Flowers Awards.
After this, Pan Hong's masterpieces continued, one tragic heroine after another, making her known as a tragic film queen by the media.
Perhaps, the tragedy is too much, Pan Hong's real life has also been affected, her life, there is no comedy, only a continuous tragic plot.
In 1978, at the age of 24, Pan Hong married Mijiashan, who was 7 years older than her.
At that time, everyone did not understand Pan Hong's choice, only Pan Hong knew that the elderly Mijiashan, for her, seemed to let her find the lack of childhood fatherly love.
This marriage, there is no passion, only a psychological compensation.
For the evaluation of the outside world, Mi Jiashan did not care, he asked Pan Hong what requirements he had for himself, Pan Hong only replied with four words: "I want to succeed." ”
In order to narrow the gap with Pan Hong, Mi Jiashan later went to Beiying to study directing professional courses.
After becoming a famous director, Pan Hong will also play roles in her husband's plays.
However, only the touching marriage was not long, and Pan Hong's years, because she was busy filming, really spent less than a year with Mijiashan.
This precarious marriage was finally ruined by an extramarital affair.
Pan Hong and director Yang Yanjin have mutual affection, the crew was originally a place with many eyes, and the eyebrows between the two people did not escape the fire eyes of the gossip masses.
Therefore, Director Yang's original wife Hong Rong made a big fuss about the crew, scolded Pan Hong with a dog bloody head, and the problem of life style at that time was a very serious topic, and the leaders of the Studio also made serious criticism of Pan Hong.
But Hong Rong was not satisfied with such a result, she spread Pan Hong's rumors everywhere, saying that she was quite unbearable, in the wind and rain of the city, Pan Hong could not withstand the ridicule and contempt pointed out by thousands of people, in order to calm things down, she took the initiative to find Hong Rong to confess to him.
And Xiang Hongrong and discussed his childhood experience, hoping that the other party could let go of himself out of pity for his own psychology.
But Hong Rong said that your past and the present are two different things, the man who stole someone else's family, and still want to argue and excuse, it is not so easy.
Pan Hong knew that she could not continue to stay in the Film Studio, carrying the insult of "Little Three", she had long been infamous, and in desperation, she had to leave the Film Studio with her husband Mijiashan.
This extramarital affair has caused indelible damage to both families.
Yang Yanjin was deeply dissatisfied with Hongrong's approach, felt that she had done too much to Pan Hong, and divorced Hongrong not long after.
Mi Jiashan also has a hard time forgetting his wife's betrayal, and after that, he rarely returns home, and Pan Hong's marriage is useless.
In 1986, Pan Hong's 8-year marriage with Mijiashan came to an end, and in the year of divorce, Pan Hong was only 32 years old.
At that time, there was no Internet, and if it was replaced by today's developed network, Pan Hong might be devastated.
Luckily, she was born in a good time.
After the divorce, Pan Hong, who knew shame and then bravely, single-mindedly engaged in her career, and never had the heart to fall in love again, because the only love that made her almost ruin her future and ruin her reputation.
After painfully thinking about it, Pan Hong counterattacked her life, turned the tables again, and finally achieved great success.
In 1992, the 38-year-old Pan Hong won the major awards in China by starring in the movie "Stock Madness", becoming a multi-material film queen in the film industry, which still makes it difficult for the younger generation to look back, and has also become the object of envy and hatred of all actresses that year.
Sure enough, the woman who no longer pestered her children and daughters, and started her career with her heart, so that everyone was impressed.
The so-called years have never defeated the beauty, but the artificial technology of medical beauty.
When Pan Hong reached middle age, the crow's feet at the corners of her eyes reminded her that she was no longer suitable for playing a young girl, so she did not force herself to play the role of a mother or mother-in-law in some film and television dramas.
In the costume drama, the empress who played that year also rose to a higher level, playing the emperor's mother, the empress dowager.
From the popular big flower Dan of that year, the transformation began to play a supporting role in green leaves, and Pan Hong's change also surprised the audience.
For a while, Pan Hong played the image of the evil mother-in-law, because the acting is too real, but also caused a lot of audience scolding, in the face of such ratings feedback, Pan Hong is not angry and happy, she is very happy to say that the big villain she played is quite real, if no one scolds, she will be unhappy, indicating that she acted too fake.
Life has adversity, there are also good times, look down on the storm, laugh at life, middle-aged Pan Hong, live more and more transparent, calm.
After Pan Hong's divorce, she has not remarried and has no children and no daughters in her life.
When people reach old age, they often like to reminisce about the past and summarize their lives, and Pan Hong, who is nearly ancient, wrote in her autobiography: "As a public figure, like a book that has been read countless times, I long to have a corner of my own, take off all the masks, and say the most true words to myself."
Regarding life and death, Pan Hong understands it like this: "The coming and going of life and death is not up to us, and it is not an easy thing for a person to live with dignity and die with dignity."
Pan Hong's motto is "Stay sober and keep going".
In fact, life is a process of self-cultivation, as long as you think it is worth it, you don't have to be too entangled.
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