Is it that with the second child, the love for the boss will change, because the second brother has beaten the boss
I gave birth to the first child in February 2018, from the day my daughter was born, she is my life, the most precious person in my heart, from birth is me and my mother, we 2 people with children, to the child will eat complementary food, I carefully do every meal, any complementary food, clothes, eating and wearing is not the best, but also within my ability to bear, the child slowly grew up, there was a headache and brain fever, I was heartbroken, from childhood don't say hit her, fingers I have not touched, but Duoduo's happy life only lasted for 3 years, because in 2021 this year I was pregnant again, in April 2021 the second child came Before the second eldest was born, I was telling my husband that after the second was born, I must be better to the boss, and I can't let the boss have the feeling that my mother doesn't love me. But things always backfire, after the operation with the second out of the hospital home, see duo duo really miss her, but go home to give the second old to breastfeed, duo duo after seeing the special rejection, do not let her eat the mother's milk, because this is her own, do not let the mother hug, and even start to beat the sister, the result of my husband hit the boss, the child cried particularly sad, the first few days of this month I was sad almost every day, I don't want duo to cry, but also can not ignore the second, as the child grows up, she also gradually accepted the sister But her temper has become more and more grumpy, the former Duoduo was timid and gentle, and now she is irritable and irritable, and once she is unhappy, she will start to beat people. Crying, making trouble to solve the problem, me and her father will be patient at the beginning to coax, but the more coaxed she howls more outrageous, and then will start to beat her, I understand that the child's heart must be unbalanced, and we have never had the second does not like the boss's parents, on the contrary, my door to the boss is better than before, but this good will also be shared with the second, I now every time I finish beating her I especially regret, especially self-blame, I think every day how my baby who was so obedient and well-behaved when I was a child became like this, Always look at the mobile phone, cry without giving her, want to eat snacks, beat people if you don't give, cry when you get up, don't like to eat, talk back, hit people, disobey, is it really that she became like this after the birth of the second child, or three and a half years old children are like this