Hello netizens! My name is Walker, 89 years, male, snake, still unmarried, 11 years out of school, came to the social family. So far, it's basically going to work—starting a business—going to work to survive. Remembering the experience of being vulnerable, the pantothenic acid in his eyes could not be stopped, and he had been infapted for a long time. I'm a loser, and it's ridiculous and ridiculous to think about, both in my marriage and career.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > fledgling and embarked on a job search</h1>
In the autumn of 2011, when I was confused, I embarked on the journey of north drift alone, came to Beijing Jiuxianqiao 798 Art District to seek a job, and my original self ran into walls everywhere because of my lack of work experience, and I was labeled by those bosses who were high above you as "you are too student" and "no relevant experience". I interviewed 35 companies, none of whom wanted me, and all of them were turned away. But I wasn't discouraged, so I adjusted myself, repositioned myself, and interviewed the last company to be an 8-person private company. Doing Taobao, I clearly remembered that at that time, the company was willing to take me in because of a lack of manpower, and accepted me because there were no high requirements, because the purpose of the first job was to seek to learn work experience, and the boss promised to give me a monthly salary of 1500 yuan during the probationary period, and reimburse me for a lunch of 6 yuan. I didn't have a good eye on this job, so I went to work on time the next day, when I first went in, in fact, let me start from miscellaneous work, the company cleaned up after work every day, handled goods in the warehouse, and packed some work that I did alone. To tell the truth, at that moment, my heart was broken, and I felt that my self-esteem was trampled under my feet. The only good thing is that good villains are also a job. Several deep struggles in the heart to convince yourself, don't complain about anyone or anything, believe in your own efforts others can see! In this way, I worked hard and complained, never lazy, and worked for 2 months.
Until one day, my colleague left and left, doing operational promotion. The boss called me to the office alone, at that time I thought that the work was not good enough to be criticized, but what I did not expect was that the boss entrusted me with a heavy responsibility, and the boss asked me: "Are you studying computer network technology?" I replied, "Yes!" Then the boss first praised me, saying that I was practical and diligent and willing to endure hardships. Let me not do it from now on. At that time, I didn't understand what it meant that the boss threw me such a smoke bomb, so I asked: "Boss, didn't you just say that I did a good job, why did you let me stop doing it?" The boss said: "After you have a new work arrangement, the company recently Xiao Li left, when handing over the work, let him take you to do it this week, and start learning things with him tomorrow." I thanked my boss for his trust in me, and I didn't forget his cultivation of me. Whenever I celebrate the New Year's Festival, I bring the specialties of my hometown to my boss. Because he was the first life teacher I entered the society, honed my fresh innocence and gave me job opportunities. It allowed me to learn knowledge and experience that I had never learned before. In this way, after a year and a half of work, I used my diligence to hand over a satisfactory answer sheet to the company.
When I was struggling with whether to have more space to seek development, the good dream was not long, the boss's son came back from abroad, the boss gave his son full authority to be responsible for the company's affairs, so one day recruited a female colleague, Guangxi girl, the long posture is also very high, this female colleague is also applying for an operation position. Very clever, every day is to consult me to learn, until one day, the boss's son called me to the office to talk, said that the company's financial expenditure is relatively tight, began to adjust the focus of business to offline distribution. There is not much need for operators online. You have a better platform for you, and it won't be used tomorrow, and the salary will be paid when the time comes. At that time, after listening to it, I felt that the sun was shining, and the boss's son fired me. This little blow for the little white that I came out of, I can't let go for a long time! Because of this matter, I closed the door and closed it for half a month before putting it down. It is also the foreshadowing buried in the future, for me who has been inferior since childhood, I have added a lingering shadow scar to my heart! At that time, this company did not sign an employment contract with me, and I also knew one of the labor laws, not the other.
< H1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > seek a second job</h1>
My second job was when I left Beijing, and I never set foot on an inch of Beijing since. I remember when I first arrived in Beijing, there was no place to stay, and I stayed in the Internet café for 5 days before I found a house built up in a color steel shed to rent. The monthly rent is 450 yuan. There was no bed, the landlord gave a few wooden planks to set up the bed, there was no heating in winter, the windows were high-rise to block the sun, a thin quilt in the middle of the night to cover the head and feet, cover the feet frozen head. Because it was too cold, I could only wear a cotton jacket to sleep. That winter was too long, and I waited hard until spring.
Whenever I leave work, I stand alone on the overpass and quietly look at the lights of the cars and horses in the distance. Emotions abound, dreams come to mind. The lights in the distance of Beijing city are dazzling, and since then, self-motivated, no matter how bitter and cruel life is, it will definitely get ahead in the future and break out of the sky!
Tossing and turning, I carried my bags alone to another strange city - Nanchang.
When I came to Nanchang, I found a place to live and work, and this company is also an e-commerce company with a scale of nearly 200 people. When I came to the company, I applied for the position of director of operation Tmall Taobao. At that time, the salary was 5000+ commission. This wage was quite ok for the consumption level of the third-tier cities at that time. That was it until the end of 2014. I was too far from home because I was from the North, so I decided to quit my job and go back to start my own business.
< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > embark on a journey of entrepreneurship</h1>
One day, I met a Guangzhou girl on the Internet, who also learned from me out of her experience in not opening a Taobao store. In the process of learning and communicating, the other party also confessed that the factory opened by her family can distribute her family's supply. In this way, the two talked about nothing, and under the warmth of the cold and cold, love sprouted. Because she was born in an ordinary family, she felt that she was not worthy of self-knowledge. The other party doesn't care where they come from. So I promised me five years to wait for her, and for five years I had been foolishly waiting for someone to meet me. Every time the other party promised to see me well, but every time it was an excuse to travel on business, work was busy, and there was no time. Until five years have passed, the other party has married and has a child with someone else. This made me suddenly realize that the other party did not really like me, but used me to do free operation promotion for her Taobao store under the guise of love. At the same time, the other party lured me away with my QQ password through love means, to check whether I found another girl as an excuse to check the post, but unexpectedly buried the potential nightmare has just begun, the other party to the boyfriend and girlfriend commensurate with me through my QQ secretly contacted my relatives, my friends inquired about the news and personal information. And let my relatives and friends add each other's QQ. This is also the preparation for the other party to threaten and intimidate my family later.
Because I was concerned about the safety of my family, it was also one of the reasons why the other relatives repeatedly succeeded in setting traps by "partnering" with me. Through the "partnership", the other party not only registered the company with joint business, pretending to transfer her Taobao store to deceive my personal identity information, because at that time I was not enough to transfer the store fee of 40,000 yuan, the other party's relatives took a screenshot of 80,000 yuan to transfer to her transfer record of cooperation with a factory (later learned that this money was the payment owed by the other party to a certain factory), and the other party's relatives claimed to help me advance 28,900 yuan to buy the investment money of the store. Again I was asked to draw up a contract, and I was asked to write an IOU to her relatives. The proposed agreement contract was sent to the relatives of the other party on QQ and said that there was no objection. Let me sign the IOU and take a picture of the other party first, and then let me sign the agreed contract together, press the fingerprint and the IOU, and send it to Guangzhou by courier to the other party.
Later, the other party also said that they received the contract and the IOU, and promised to send it back to me another day, just like that, after a month of not seeing the contract sent back, I had doubts, so I asked the other party's relatives to cooperate with the store transfer contract when to send it to me, the other party's relatives said, your contract I let her see, she said that you have a problem with the contract, once there is a problem, I will put the other party to death. It has been handed over to my lawyer for safekeeping. In this way, because of the stalemate of the contract, the other party's relatives later claimed that the partnership contract was of any use! The contract was revoked because the contract template was downloaded from Baidu, and the appeal points of the other party were written in combination with the actual situation, including the monthly settlement bill, the shipment bill, and the public account details that the other party regularly provided to me. It also explains that the two parties shall not participate in the non-compete business. I am responsible for store operation and promotion, planning, product drawings, making trademark logos and other matters. It also explains the settlement time, risks, etc.
In this way, led by the nose of the other party, the other party's relatives claimed that the factory would not carry out the monthly payment of the goods, so that they rented the warehouse to stock up. Because renting warehouses and hoarding goods require a lot of capital turnover, the other party and her relatives have offered advice to let loans in the transfer store, rent warehouses, hoard goods, express factories to find someone to hand over, capital expenditure, loans have always been manipulated by the other party! Later, because the other party did not give me a monthly checkout dispute, their local Shentong express financial staff also insulted me and blocked me. Because the other party to the bill also found a reason to transfer the "disaster" to my head, claiming that I ran away from the express delivery of the cooperation, refused to collect the mail, said that it was to let me die like this, how to repay the store loan? Another relative of hers who had overdue the delay in credit would sue me for the loss. During the period (the store that took over was registered with the ID card of another relative of the other party), the other party also changed the store, and the other party also refused to change it for various reasons. Later, the other party forced me to write down the 100,000 yuan loan guarantee letter, the content of which was to guarantee that there would be no more unreasonable trouble, and if there was any more trouble, it would not be possible to repay the loan and had nothing to do with the other party's relatives.
In this way, the other party's conspiracy succeeded, and I mentioned the bill again, and the other party grabbed the handle and hid the bill for three years. The 500,200,1000 small amounts that are usually transferred to me are transferred to me in the name of paying salaries and living expenses. It rotates for several months in a row, sometimes for more than half a year. I've never really reconciled with me. For a long-term career, I didn't think much of it.
Then what intensified later was that the other party used common debt and manufacturer complicity to discuss let me make hundreds of thousands of arrears. I didn't send an IOU to the manufacturer. The same factory owner insulted me at her. Later, the other party's relatives cried and said that the owner of pearl cotton was collecting money from her, and there was no quota in the store, so he asked me to find a way to advance the loan, because out of cooperation, I took out a little strength to get through the difficulties. So the other party asked me to borrow money from major online lending platforms. Before and after the transfer out of the principal 20,000 600. I also explained that the sales and shipment payments were recovered to repay my online loan on time. Online loans can not pay me will be miserable. The other party agreed, and vowed that it would not harm me.
Until the outbreak of the epidemic in early 2020, more than 300,000 stores were overdue for two months, because more than 80,000 yuan was repaid on the 28th of each month, the express delivery was also suspended, the major factories were closed, and the employees were unemployed at home, resulting in no cash flow repayment, so they negotiated with the official to redistribute the repayment plan. The authorities were also redistributed. The repayment pressure is reduced a lot. And the other party is unwilling, later, the other party found an excuse to cooperate with the store for many years, hoarded goods for their own business, and on the grounds of "all used to repay", let me take out 250,000 yuan of capital contribution to the company's account, during this period, the other party with the fraudulent IOU to me is again threatening and intimidating, but also extortion. Later, I found out that more than 300,000 other parties in the store swiped the difference in SLR amount to transfer to the account of the other party's relatives, and then sent it to the other party in WeChat to check, the other party denied it, and put on my hat of "slandering" her. Until June 2020, the other party also claimed that those debts were my losses on the grounds of "investment losses", and she did not owe me a penny, online loans, blocked me and disappeared for half a year, I realized that this was the other party's trap, the purpose of conspiring with local acquaintances and several of her relatives pulled me into the water, tied me to the "partnership" warship, the ultimate purpose was to seize the business results, with common debt to let me fund her again, in fact, the other party controlled the bills and sought unjust gains. At the same time, I was asked to contribute on the grounds of investment losses, and they shared the loot.
At the end of 2020, I telephoned the Guangzhou Municipal Government Market Administration, they also sent someone to investigate, feedback to me after the investigation, said: "The other party did not sign any agreement with me, and I have never had any business dealings, checked and did not have the person you talked about, this person is not an employee of this company nor has worked, the company 3-4 people, and what you said and one person cooperation for many years does not match, the actual situation has been explained to you, no longer accept future complaints, the occurrence of such disputes suggests that you deal with through the judiciary or the police, We will fully cooperate with the investigation in the follow-up." Then, I went to contact the previous factory, and the factory owner claimed that the money they owed to the factory was tens of thousands of dollars that could not be recovered, and the relevant personnel had not been found. When I found out about this and knew the truth, I searched for their store on Pinduoduo, and it has been open for 3 years, and the other party of this store has been hiding the truth from me. So I decided to gather evidence and call the police in the next day.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > back on the job search</h1>
Forced to pay for the other party to pay the pressure of online loan collection owed by deception, the other party played missing and did not give me money to pay back, I once again embarked on the road of job hunting, came to a strange city to seek a job, worked for more than two months, and encountered fraud on Momo, the other party lured me away nearly 6,000 yuan before and after in the name of finding a partner, and then now, all kinds of harassment by the collection company made me nervous, I was because of the cooperation with each other, my body became worse and worse, my heart became fragile, there was insufficient cerebral blood supply, fainting shock, Symptoms of blurred vision. In the process of work, the burden of thought is heavy, but also because of the nature of the work, 12 hours standing still, night shift, the body can not hold up, just in the courtyard where the night shift went out, that time, I fainted again, a faint is half an hour, when I woke up to see that the time has been half an hour late, so I and the leader took leave to explain the situation. At that time, the leader blamed me for not taking a leave of absence from him in advance.
On the second day after work, I went to the outpatient clinic to dispense some medicine, and the doctor also measured my blood pressure, looked at my eyes, and said that I had stayed up late for a long time and had a lot of psychological pressure, which had been caused by this symptom before. And comforted me that I can't stay up late, and I may not be able to stay up any longer. I was given a visit because I had fainted before and shock had occurred several times. Then I propped myself up to the day shift, where I was weak, my eyesight blurred at times, and sometimes I cried in pain. At that time, when I went to work, the master blamed me for not looking at the cutting line and causing the material to be scrapped, and when the shutdown, I looked for the real cause of the problem, it turned out that the slag fell and caused the jumper to scrap the whole material, I took a picture and threw it to the master to tell him the problem, the teacher Fu read it and said more attention after saying a word, I was dizzy at the time, did not say anything, and insisted on standing up until the end of work.
Before the second night shift, I could only take another leave, the leader asked me what was wrong, the leave was treated according to absenteeism, and 3 times the salary was deducted for three days of absenteeism. Combined with the New Year that did not give me a holiday, when the salary was paid, the holidays only gave me a day to calculate, some overtime they personnel punch card attendance also omitted to give me a calculation, I found the leader, the leader said that you take leave according to absenteeism, are not enough deduction, you still want wages? So I decided to leave my job, they looked for a reason to deduct the remaining half a month's salary, I took out my mobile phone in front of the personnel, found the labor bureau phone, shouted at them this phone I call or you called? One of their leaders stepped forward to reassure me that at the end of the month the salary would be paid to your card on time. It really responds to the sentence "The tiger fell in Pingyang and was bullied by the dog".
This is the path I have traveled over the years, and ordinary me has always backfired and is not satisfactory. A failed me struggled with fate for a long time! Although there is an unyielding heart, it is shallow, and it is hard to be trampled under the feet of reality.