"Lover" is your name for the other half, is your stormy boat, is the person you have loved with your heart, but some "lover" is not the favorite of your life, perhaps when you are young, you do not understand the true meaning of love, when you enter the siege of marriage, but you have to go for responsibility, to maintain your long-term love of marriage. Today's middle-aged people, presumably most of the family is only family affection, love has long disappeared, some are just habits. Today's society is a society in which men have lovers, because the home has no longer the warmth of love, to seek the temperature of love, on the one hand, they are not willing to give up marriage without love, on the other hand, they are not willing to be lonely. In old China, men can have three wives and four concubines, and today's society does not allow it, it can only be monogamous, so men with a little social status begin to look around for their lovers, which can really be described as "the red flag at home does not fall, and the flag flutters outside the home."
From this point of view, the "lover" has lost its original intention, and it is just a vain name. Every middle-aged person with a certain cultural level and a certain status, just think about how many elements of love there are in your marriage, how many love responsibilities you have to bear the siege of your home, I think it is very clear in your heart. Ask yourself, do you love your "lover"? Would you still choose him if there was an afterlife? If you say, "Still." That shows that your current "lover" is your favorite, otherwise he is not the favorite in your heart, maybe some people have not met his favorite in their lives, love is compared, perhaps as many men say, people can love many times in their lives, but the most loved can only be once, such love can be called "lover", is worthy of the name.
The word "lover", I don't know since when, I think it is also in recent years, call their own man "husband", as far as I am concerned, I really dare not compliment such a title. "Lover" and "husband" are like, one is elegant music, the other is vulgar music, a cultural level of difference. The word "lover", hopefully the true "lover" in every marriage, is worthy of such a title. May all those in the city of marriage still have the light and passion of love, "holding the hand of the son, and carrying the old with the son." We can all truly appreciate the true meaning of "lover".
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