People's Daily Beijing, October 20 (Reporter Sun Jing) Pick up the wall and climb the window to listen? A few days ago, the class scene of a class at Wuhan University caused concern on the Internet. In the picture, many students tiptoe outside the classroom and lie down at the window to listen carefully.
The reporter learned from Wuhan University today that this class is "The Psychology of Love" by Yu Feng, professor, head of the Department of Psychology and doctoral supervisor of the School of Philosophy of Wuhan University. On that day, the classroom was full, the back row was full of people, and the students who could not squeeze in were listening outside the classroom.
"I hope everyone can talk about a healthy relationship, start and maintain a positive relationship", this is the original intention of Yu Feng's lecture. Yu Feng was pleasantly surprised by the unexpected enthusiasm of the students, "This is the desire for love, the thirst for psychological knowledge, and of course, the encouragement to me personally."
In the classroom, Yu Feng mainly based on the basic theory of love psychology, combined with the process of falling in love - looking for an object, starting, ending or maintaining, etc., answered the questions that students were concerned about layer by layer, and unveiled the mystery of "love" layer by layer.
What exactly is healthy love? Yu Feng said that a healthy romantic relationship is that both people can take care of each other instead of selfishness, both consider the dual relationship between themselves and each other, have a feeling of intimacy and mutual commitment, and can always maintain the original feeling.
"It shouldn't be cognitive dissonance after impulsive choices based on cheap feelings." To some extent, love is also mutual adaptation, mutual accommodation, mutual compromise, it is mutual fulfillment rather than blind giving or receiving." Yu Feng's lecture sparked bursts of applause.
"The Art of White Flaws", "The Four Horsemen of the End of Relationships", "Love Map"... With an endless stream of fresh nouns paired with funny and playful images, humorous and humorous style supplemented by scientifically based knowledge, Yu Feng ignited the enthusiasm of students with a clever mix of various elements.
The reporter learned that at present, many colleges and universities in China have opened relevant courses in love psychology and have become "hot courses" in schools. As early as 2013, East China Normal University opened an elective course called "Marriage and Love", and the number of applicants far exceeded the size of the class; in 2014, Nanjing University held the "First Campus Love Open Class", including 5 lectures; in March 2016, Tianjin University officially opened a love course called "Love Theory and Practice". Many experts said that the opening of love courses in colleges and universities can help college students establish a correct concept of love, guide college students to solve some problems and troubles in love, and better deal with academics and love.
Source: People's Daily - Education Channel