As parents, in addition to caring for our children's health, we also have to worry about their studies. Many parents blindly help their children make up lessons, but eventually let them regress more and more, this is because parents do not know that the child's intelligence level has been formed in the fetal period, which is determined by genes.
Every child is unique, and if parents can find their strengths and weaknesses in their daily lives, and use their strengths to avoid weaknesses, they can help their children move towards a broader future. Some people will ask how to judge iq, which is not substantive? In fact, the child's words and deeds, as well as many characteristics of the body, can give us tips.
For example, the length of their fingers, we have five fingers in each hand, except for the middle finger, thumb and little finger length fixed, the length of the ring finger and index finger is not fixed. And it is this simple distinction that can hint at the child's personality, hobbies, and intellectual disparities.
If parents can find the rules and be good at guiding their children, it will certainly help them improve their academic performance, let's take a look at it together.
After statistical comparison, children with an unsung finger have a higher level of intelligence than children with a longer index finger
The level of intelligence can be expressed in many ways, the most important of which is the desire to learn, learning habits and self-discipline, because only children with these three points can eventually become a "genius". Children with longer ring fingers tend to have the following advantages over children with longer index fingers.
First: Study harder and be single-minded
Curiosity is in the nature of children, but why do some people succeed and others do nothing? In fact, the difference lies in whether you can continue your curiosity and understand things in depth. Those children with longer ring fingers are more dedicated and do not like to give up halfway, while those with long index fingers prefer to do things more like "three days of fishing, two days of drying nets".
Hua Luogeng once said: "Genius lies in accumulation, and cleverness lies in diligence." These children with high IQs can recognize the importance of studying hard and acquiring knowledge from an early age. With a clear purpose and a single-mindedness, with this spirit, it is difficult for them not to make a difference. And although a child is not stupid in his head, he has no perseverance or perseverance in doing things, and it is difficult to climb the peak.
Second: the ability to think rationally is stronger
People's thinking can be divided into rational thinking and emotional thinking, and children with strong rational thinking ability will naturally have high grades because they can calmly analyze problems. Children with strong perceptual thinking ability may have stronger empathy ability, but if they do some problems that require turning, they will be trapped, such as physical chemistry and even English reading comprehension.
Rational thinking plays a decisive role in a child's academic career, although some parents will say that if their child's science is not good, they can choose the subject of political history. But rational thinking is not equal to science, when a child's rational thinking is strong, any subject will have an advantage.
Some parents disagree with this because these conclusions seem to have no scientific basis, but in fact, we can fully explain why children with ring fingers are smarter from a scientific point of view.
According to medical theory, first of all, children with ring finger length, the heart and brain are more developed, the level of resistance is high, and the speed of synapses is established quickly, so the learning ability is particularly strong.
Second, the length of the ring finger is affected by androgens, that is, the more vigorous the androgen secretion, the more the ring finger has a growth advantage. Compared with estrogen, androgens represent perseverance, sunshine, activeness, and active thinking. Therefore, babies with ring finger lengths are smarter.
However, the elderly also often say that "three points are destined, seven points rely on hard work", when our children have long index fingers, it does not mean that they must lag behind children with long ring fingers. As long as parents master the methods of education, discover their advantages, and fully stimulate their potential, I believe that these children must also be excellent.
First of all, we need to help children develop good study habits
Good habits benefit people for life. Although many children are very smart, but when learning, do not know humility, careful, so that each test score is not ideal, this time parents should not blindly criticize them, but learn to change their thinking, cultivate their learning habits, such as, concentration and planning.
Second, we need to always encourage our children, not criticize and deny them
Encouraging children can cultivate their self-confidence and give them more courage to face difficulties and challenges. Many children usually have good grades, and when it comes to the exam, they will always be unable to exert their normal strength because of nervousness, which is closely related to the pressure exerted by their parents. The more we want our children to get good grades, the more likely they are to make mistakes.
There are even many children who have a shadow over their studies and exams because of the strictness of their parents. In order to solve this phenomenon, we should be more tolerant of children and learn to think differently. When things come in, they are more encouraged, less degraded, and eventually they will give us satisfactory answers.
Being a parent is not a simple thing, children are growing, and we are constantly changing. No one is perfect, let's work together in the best direction.
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