Age restrictions for well-known enterprises
I thought that the people in 85 years were not older youths, just over 35. It is the golden time of the career, will not be eliminated by the enterprise, and even the job is easily changed, but it will soon be beaten by reality.
After 85, we have passed 35, and there is no time to toss around for a few years against the 40-year-old mark. And what is the reality? Look at the average age of various Internet technology companies, the average age is only 27-33 years old, those of us who are over 35 years old, can only go to see the gate, it is estimated that the door also has to weigh it.
Average age of Internet technology companies
Last year, there were many news reports that some well-known large enterprises were forced to eliminate people over the age of 35, preferring to pay money and drive people away. After squeezing out the most creative and youthful age stages, kicking people away, saying that the cloud of rigid thinking, lack of innovation, etc., is it the capitalist's set?
Looking at such a data, most people graduate from undergraduate 22 years old, and 35 years old is your ceiling, and the age to struggle is only 13 years, while the master's degree is only 10 years. These ten years, just enter the workplace need to exercise 3-5 years, the income will not be too high; then become a skilled hand, the income increases some, more than the upper and lower than the bottom; and then fight for 3-5 years to become a supervisor, the income can basically become a well-off no problem, you can boldly borrow money to buy a car and buy a house to get married; and then after 3 years to become a leader, the income is higher, there is no pressure to repay the loan, and at this time your age problem appears, it is 35 years old; if you are still an ordinary employee, you may be eliminated, if you are an executive, you can continue to stay in office, But the age gap with the members of the team is large, and management has become a problem, what will you face at this time?
35 years old is the ceiling?
The pressures faced by 35-year-olds
For most people, 35-year-olds are in the ascending or stable period of their careers, with houses, cars, wives and children, but what is the face? Soaring prices, house prices, basic living expenses; to repay mortgages, car loans and monthly living expenses; children to educate, the elderly to support; if you have 2 or three children, the wife can not go to work, a person struggles to support the whole family, the pressure itself is very large, basically and just entered the workplace when the moonlight family is almost the same; if at this time, the company wants to eliminate you, what will you face? With no source of income, but with daily expenses, would you go crazy?
The pressures we face
35-year-old people choose direction
Of course, whether you are 35 years old and you are eliminated by the company or want to change jobs, you don't necessarily have to starve people to death; there are many ways out, after all, there is work experience, there is work ability, it is not difficult to find a new job. But even if you find a job again, what will you face?
New enterprises, new environments, may be because of your qualifications and experience, directly parachuted in as a manager, but to manage a group of people much younger than you, how can you conquer them in new ways and methods? After all, you were not originally from this company, you can't talk about seniority and age, and you may not be able to stay for long and leave again.
The hurried footsteps did not stop
If you join a company, the leader is younger than you, the work experience is not as rich as you, but in this enterprise is definitely longer than your working experience, all day long to obey the order to be commanded, can your mentality adapt in time?
If you don't want to find a job and want to start your own business, it is also feasible; but starting a business may not be successful, and the pressure of family life has not allowed you to fail, do you dare to give it a go? Some people say, can't I do a small business? The cost is not high, 30,000-50,000, up to 100,000, what can such a cost do? Only set up a stall, do a business without rental costs, because the cost of rent is more than 100,000, can you do it? The cost is low, but the income is also small, and it is not necessarily a daily income. Is entrepreneurship really viable?
A lot of the pressure is only borne by yourself
Since the development of new media and the Internet, many people do not go to work, be a freelance writer, freelance writer, freelance photographer, free traveler, etc. There are many, do a good job may become a big V, become a celebrity or a celebrity, then get rich overnight. I can only say that you think too much, this industry also needs young people with capital and fresh play, can you do it? And there are thousands of practitioners in every field of this profession, will you be able to win? It's like a thousand troops crossing a single wooden bridge, you can break through and you win, but what is the success rate?
There are other ways out, but no matter what you want to do after the age of 35, as long as you want to do it, there must be a way out, but to make a real choice, I think it is still a little difficult. Why?
35-year-old mentality
Some people describe the post-80s people as old scalpers, hard work, as long as the work is stable, does not affect the income, willing to fight and scold; after 90 is to pay attention to personality, realize value, have a good working environment, how much money does not matter; and in the eyes of the post-00s, there is basically no good job, the pursuit of personality, hope to show themselves, but lazy, do not focus on what work, no fixed attitude, but do not worry about life pressure.
The mentality of the post-80s generation
Why do only post-80s people care more about income and can work hard and complain? It is not that there is no personality after 80, when the personality of the post-80s, it also set off a period of terrifying waves in the society, but with the increase of age, the growth of experience, more and more losses, more and more pressure in life, etc., I have to bow to the society, after all, the economic foundation determines the superstructure, there is no economic foundation, what qualifications can you have to pursue personality and show value?
People over the age of 35 are basically post-80s, what have they experienced? The state family planning can only have one child, many of them are only children, lack of playmates; junior high school, high school are a pot end, can not repeat the grade, can not go to college can only choose other ways; when graduating from college, the state regardless of the assignment, looking for a job; when looking for a job, graduates because of too much expansion, resulting in employment pressure; after finding a job, the golden period of national economic development has almost passed, house prices have risen; when marriage and children are born, the cost of education and parental support have come again The most important thing is that your age can't stand the toss anymore because you're 35 years old.
Think about what your state of mind is at this time? It's really like when I met the robbers who robbed the house in the past, I would say, I have an 80-year-old mother and a 3-year-old child, will you let me go? But in the real world, who can let you go? The robbers are not poor, they do not rob, society is not cruel, and you will not compromise with society in this way.
35-year-old people have become hard-working, diligent, self-consoling, not seeking no merit but seeking no fault, etc., and dare not lie down, and dare not make trouble, for work, how dare to easily leave the job? Anxious mentality, tea does not think about the aroma of rice; thinking about going, as long as you are not dismissed, you will work with a thick skin, and you will have a stable income.
When the pressure can no longer bear, when the last straw is pressed down, no matter who will have a mental breakdown, will have a mental breakdown, so there will be many people in tears on the crowded road, in the bustling city collapse crying, hanging their heads in the corner of no one, and even secretly committing suicide in sparsely populated places.
A 35-year-old's break
People live a lifetime, there are many twists and turns that need to be experienced, no one will be smooth sailing, it is normal to encounter setbacks, and it is normal to have a mental breakdown, which is not the most important, because everyone may face it. The important thing is how to solve the setbacks and how to break through yourself?
The retirement age stipulated by the state is 60 years old, and there are still 25 years between 35 years and 60 years old. Equivalent to the age of youth struggle, as long as you can do it, you must work hard, as long as you work hard, the pressure you face can be alleviated or eliminated.
We are still young
I heard a news story that a local toll booth should be banned, and the relevant staff should also be laid off, and one of the 30-year-old women did not agree to it, and wanted to make trouble with the company, saying that she would not do anything except charge, how to live in the future?
This story shows that for people who are not prepared for multiple majors or abilities, losing any job may make you more stressed and unable to live; but on the other hand, if you have enough ability and other talents or professional expertise, it should be no problem to find a new job.
I think the biggest problem of 35-year-old people is not that they have no ability, not that they do not have creativity, but that their mentality has changed too much, becoming restless, becoming cautious, becoming step by step, becoming calculating, becoming afraid of their heads and tails, etc., so that they lead to lack of fighting spirit, lack of direction, lack of passion, lack of courage, lack of openness, lack of vigor, etc., and finally let us face all the pressure will become not the original us, so that 35 years old has become a cut in the profession.
Ancient people cloud, life 70 years old rarity. 70 years old is a cut for life, 35 years old is a cut for career, as long as we are professional enough and have a good attitude, this cut believes that everyone can get through.
You are also 35 years old, let's cheer together!