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Author: More more, original author of the emotional essay
Marriage is a very important and very cautious thing, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.
Marriage should be a matter for both parents and families to discuss and complete, if the negotiation is not close, the discussion is not good, there will be many other barriers in the future.
Nowadays, many men and women have a very open attitude towards marriage, and not getting married does not affect anyone, and a person who does not marry is also very free.
This kind of is a few active do not want to marry, but there is a kind of women who want to marry but can't marry out, they are often not bad, the conditions are even very good, but they often wonder why they can't marry out?
I personally think that there is a reason why this part of the women can't get married, or it is that they have a strong sense of enterprise, focus on their careers, make money, and have no time to fall in love, and put the focus and time on work.
Either you don't have the idea of getting married, and when it comes time to get married, it's hard to find. Or it is too picky, too idealistic, can not find their own positioning, for a long time, naturally can not marry.
I think marriage is to find out their own positioning, sometimes what you are like you can only be worthy of what kind of man, your conditions are there, you have to figure out your own position, some women have their own conditions, but also delusional to find a diamond king old five.
I want to say something ugly, that diamond king old five eyes are not blind, people also have their own conditions for choosing a mate, why should they choose you?
Some women boil themselves into leftover women, there are really reasons, most of them are because they are too delusional.
Some women can be said to be wrong-minded, delusional to find a man who is rich, will make money, and cares for the family, but this kind of man is obviously very good, their choice range is also very wide, they can't notice you.
You're just a bland girl with a few thousand dollars a month, so why do you have that Prince Charming dream?
Of course, I am not saying here that this kind of girl does not deserve love, of course, love deserves everyone, and every girl deserves the best love.
But good love has a premise, that is, you have to recognize yourself, find out the reality, and on the basis of these, you can have a good love.
Linlin is very beautiful, the figure is also very good, she is the kind of look that can be remembered at a glance in the crowd, from childhood to adulthood, she has a lot of boys to pursue, but her family is very ordinary, and the education, work and so on are naïve and ordinary.
But she has a big heart, she feels that she has good conditions, must have a man with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands of dollars, and the bride price must be given to 350,000 people, and must be very tall and handsome, so that she will marry.
Just because of such a request, it can be said that it is an unrealistic request, so that she missed out on several good men, and now she is 35 years old or not married.
Linlin, who was in her 20s, was good-looking so there were many suitors around her, but at that time, no man could get into her eyes, and she couldn't look at any of them.
In fact, Linlin is very eager for love, she very much hopes that she can have a man to care for, to love, but she is very entangled in herself must marry well, she told her girlfriend: "If I can't marry a rich man in this life, I would rather not marry someone, and I don't want to be with a man without money." ”
When you have such a thought, in fact, it is difficult for you to meet a beautiful love, God will not give you such a perfect man, nor will you let you achieve your wish so smoothly.
She put all her time and energy into how to marry a rich man, but in the end she did not succeed, and she survived to the embarrassing age of 35.
Over the past few years, she felt very lonely, she seemed to have been walking alone for a while, some people were very happy, some people parted ways, she saw a lot of people's joys and sorrows, but she was always alone.
Several of the men around her who had pursued her also got married and had children and lived happily.
She began to worry, why could they be so happy with other women? Can't you talk to yourself? She even felt now that if there was a man to pursue her, she could even lower her requirements, but after waiting for a long time no such man appeared.
She waited for a long time and decided that she should take the initiative, and taking the initiative might have unexpected effects, although the female chasing the man was a very shameful thing for her before.
But now she also had to put down her body and take the initiative to pursue a man. Because she found wrinkles crawling up her face, the figure was not as tight as before.
A year later she liked a man who was three years younger than her, and she began to chase after the man, but it didn't go well at first, because the man didn't like the sister type that was older than him, but Linlin was stalking every day, and the man agreed to be with her.
When getting engaged, Linlin said to the man: "In fact, it is very easy to get married, it is also very simple to marry me, the house lives in your current house, you also have the car, I also have it, I don't care, but the bride price must be given enough, this is a guarantee for me, but also a respect for my parents." ”
The man asked her, "Then how much is your bride price?" ”
Lin Lin said: "At least three hundred thousand, can not be less." ”
Linlin felt that these three hundred thousand must be a very easy thing for men, but she did not expect that the man listened, sneered, and told her without leaving any affection: "You are really confused, you are 35 years old, I am willing to marry you is already very good for you, you actually want a dowry of three hundred thousand, I am marrying a wife, not buying a wife, your asking price is too high, I can't afford it." ”
Linlin was so angry that although she tried to keep it, the man still proposed to break up.
Linlin's behavior has already lost in this relationship, and she has made herself so humble from the appearance of being on the top, in fact, it is because she has panicked and is eager to succeed and wants to marry herself.
Since then, she has become more inferior, more confident in herself, and she feels as if she does not deserve love at all, and it is impossible to marry a man who meets her requirements.
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In fact, I think Linlin's problem is that she doesn't love herself enough, and she can't figure out what kind of man she is suitable for.
You want a rich and excellent man, first of all you have to make yourself very good, you have to make yourself better, if you are not enough, why should others come to you?
Sometimes, people have to learn to love themselves first, first figure out what they deserve and what they deserve, so that someone can love you.
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