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I gave you my trust, and you lost it.
Today I would like to share with you about a movie called "Wolf Hunt United" aka "Trust".
The girl in the film, Annie, has a happy family, but after meeting a netizen and being sexually assaulted at the age of 14, everything took a turn. Violated by her, her vengeful father, a helpless and sad soul is redeeming herself, but the seeming redemption is only a self-consolation of the soul to make up for the late respect.
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As a viewer, we will all be touched by the actions of a father, it is undeniable that the father's love for his daughter, but behind the brewing "mistake" is that it should be full of warmth - family. Anne gave her trust to her closest family, but she was faced with only her father, who worked all day and did not have time to take care of her, and her mother, who did not support her every move.
What seemed like a perfect family was not the case for her. She had low self-esteem and was lonely. As an adolescent, she has too many doubts and troubles, and the mother is the child's friendliest confidant, but her absence in the film makes the girl begin to indulge in the warmth of strangers. Because across the cold screen, the unknown him gave the trust and support that his parents had never given.
I gave you my trust, is it okay? But why do I feel lonely and helpless?
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Anne used to like to be tired of being next to her parents, chattering about troubles, but gradually when she gave trust, in exchange for indifference, she felt lonely and helpless. She once mentioned to her father that the other party is a netizen with deep friendship, but she has not been well guided, she once expressed the doubts of adolescence about sex in front of her mother, but her mother is difficult to talk about
In the family, we are all independent individuals, and a good family education will accompany the growth of each individual, communicate with each other, trust each other, but give each other space. Trust is mutual, not in exchange for questioning and disagreement. Because the trust between individuals begins by trusting a relationship, trusting the most intimate relationship will choose to tell everything without reservation, but if it is exchanged for questioning, then invisibly, trust has long been strangled in the hands.
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The charm of the film is that what seems to be an ordinary and unreal event reflects a crisis of trust. It is also a group of souls who howl in pain because of their own mistakes.
The same is true of literature, where we have all heard a story about a "paradise" where there is only a hell in the depths of the soul, where children are chained to chains, and the driving force behind this is their most trusted parents.
In the era of information dissemination, you can always see the tears of "Fang Siqi", have you ever thought that the trust given by children is good? Where was it placed? Too many "parents and fathers" choose to ignore, leaving the blame to their children at the moment of the accident and paralyzing themselves with "comfort". Everything that was done pushed the child into the abyss of hell.
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I began to learn to protect myself, to take back my trust, to stop opening my heart, and you got angry.
Silence is sometimes a kind of protection belonging to the soul, giving up talking, learning to hide everything silently, learning to heal oneself. Silence is only destroyed by the trust it has given, abandoned, in exchange for questioning, confrontation, blame.
Even the closest relationship cannot be trusted, so there is no need to blame the family's negligence in the face of tragedy, because at this time it is standing on the moral high ground, hiding the negligence, giving self-comfort.
In fact, in the operation of the family, each individual must respect every trust, choose guidance and understanding, choose tolerance and inclusion. The seven emotions and six desires are the most vivid embodiment of the individual, the factors that trust and guide emotions, and the navigation that sweeps away confusion. Tolerance and inclusion are the most selfless embodiment of the individual, tolerance and inclusion allow each other to understand each other and communicate with each other. And this all stems from the fact that trust is taken care of, trusting a person, will choose to tell without reservation, but also hope to exchange mutual trust. Trusting a person will choose the inclusion and respect of efforts, and it is even more hoped that mutual equality and respect will be returned.
I have given you the most precious trust, is to open the softest place of my heart to you, your doubts, incomprehension, are a sharp knife cut through, leaving a scarred heart, and a precarious relationship!
I gave you my trust, is it okay?