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I don't know if you have such an experience, and their own peers of the same age, there are some children who grew up to be very outstanding, originally thought that they would develop well when they grew up, but then because of their looks, they were complained about, and embarked on the road of getting longer and uglier!
People who like to watch Japanese cartoons should know Tanihana as a child star. As early as 2008, there was an advertisement for Disney, so it attracted a lot of attention. Because of his sweet appearance and aura, he suddenly gained a lot of fans.
Gu Huayin has been a typical goose egg face since she was a child, with big watery eyes, very exquisite facial features, and her acting skills have also been recognized by everyone, and many people have the impulse to have a daughter when they see her. However, as Gu Huayin grew up, the goddess appearance of childhood has disappeared, replaced by a "big mother face" now! This makes netizens unable to accept that the little beauty who was once like a fairy has now experienced something and has become like this!
In China, there are also child stars with similar experiences, such as Lin Miaoke and Long Haoran, these child stars, when they were young, they were all little princesses and little princes in everyone's eyes, but with the increase of age, their appearance has changed too much, and they have slowly faded out of people's sight.
Why does a child's appearance change?
The skin is in a tender state
When the child is still young, the face is fleshy, the bone development is not complete, the muscles of the face are delicate and elastic, it looks very cute, and the facial features are slightly better-looking, it will look very good. Especially if the child is small, the skin problem has not been exposed, only there is no obvious facial problem, and the child will look very cute and beautiful.
However, with the growth of time, the child's face shape is slowly fixed, the two cheeks are slowly prominent, if the cheeks are relatively wide, it will appear that the face shape is more square, and the beauty will be discounted.
Changes in physical development
I don't know if you have such an experience, when you are in adolescence or when you have a long body, your body and face shape are easy to deform. As children get older, especially in puberty, and their bodies begin to develop, they are prone to obesity. Just as the so-called "one fat destroys everything", after getting fat, the child's face shape will naturally be affected. It's no longer as cute as before.
Another point is that the child's acquired living environment has changed, and the things around the body that are not good will affect the appearance of the child, coupled with the child's unhealthy work and rest habits, "long disability" is an easy thing to happen.
Parents beautify the image of their children in their own hearts
In the eyes of parents, children are good-looking, and no parent will feel that their children are not good-looking. In fact, some children grow up after the appearance, is the child's original appearance, but the child is more cute when they are small, in the parents' hearts has always been a cute look, until the child grows up slowly, the former spirit of the time is gone, the gap in the parents' hearts will be relatively large.
So, on the road of children's growth, in order to make the child's image look more intact, what problems should parents avoid?
Urge your child to eat properly
There is too much junk food on the market now, and children are deeply affected. In particular, many children like to eat fried foods, which are very detrimental to the health of children, and it is particularly easy to cause children to gain weight, and the figure will naturally become out of shape.
Parents must develop a healthy eating habit in their children's diet, and when their children ask for junk food for the first time, they should resolutely refuse.
Eliminate bad habits in children' lives
As the saying goes, standing like a pine, sitting like a bell, walking like the wind! It is to let the child exercise a good body shape. Whether the child is watching TV or doing homework, parents must correct the child's incorrect sitting posture in time, hunchback is a direct factor affecting the appearance of the child, the child's image will also be greatly reduced, parents usually have to supervise well!
There are also some children, in life like to do some small actions that are not conducive to the image, especially the action of squeezing the eyebrows and making the eyes, for a long time, the child frequently blinks his eyes, fiddles with the eyebrows, the facial features will change, when the child appears these small actions, parents must stop it in time. Tell the child the consequences of doing so, and let the child restrain himself as much as possible.
Regardless of the child's appearance, parents must be clear, give the child a correct aesthetic concept, if the child does not have a delicate and handsome appearance, but also let the child learn not to lose demeanor, temperament cultivation is very important.