The most important question to ask yourself is not "Who is responsible for my suffering?" It's "What should I do with the pain?" "There are some environmental factors that are out of your control, such as weather, accidents or other people's behavior, but many more factors that you can influence and determine your feelings.
"Our Song", I saw Hu Xia, the optimistic attitude that a person should have.

Let's look at his attitude. Hu Xia and Yang Qianwei collaborated on "Sound and Sound", when the air duet, this time he happily pressed the Y button, full of hope, very confident waiting for Yang Qianwei's approval, eager to be able to cooperate for the second time, but Yang Qianwei denied him. Hu Xia explained that the seniors wanted to look again, and sat on the small chair behind Yang Qianwei. This is embarrassing.
Then Xue Zhiqian came on the field, and hammered The Lisa raided. According to the rules, Xue Zhiqian asked: Then can I also choose Hu Xia? Hu Xia asked: If you can, will you choose me? Xue Zhiqian seconds back: No.
At this moment, is Hu Xia embarrassed?
Hu Xia was again selected by Yang Qianwei, and Hu Xia told his own situation: sitting there once is already very embarrassing, and let me go back to continue to be embarrassed? But between Hu Xia and Zhou Xingzhe, Yang Qianwei ruled out that Hu Xia chose Zhou Xingzhe, and Yang Qianwei explained that she was more willing to try without cooperation. How embarrassing to be, Hu Xia waved his hand and prepared to go, Xue Zhiqian said: Hey, a bit dramatic.
Only Lin Zixiang's old predecessor, Hu Xia repeatedly lost battles, and continued to fight: "I don't know much, I am very bad at Cantonese, but I also try to learn, I saw a teacher's song some time ago, well, related to numbers, I sing a short paragraph." ”
Xue Zhiqian continued to arch the atmosphere: This time you sing carefully, you have no hope, you have to go to Group B, Group C, Lighting Group Photography Group or something, you have to go.
You made me nervous, I'm going to sing a, hard song... Spelling, Hu Xia sang, and then sang with Lin Zixiang.
Finally someone wanted, Lin Zixiang originally intended to look for male voices, joke Hu Xia wore beautiful on the choice, can you still change? How much compassion does a person have at this time if he refuses to seek, sits there complaining, and wants others to meet his requirements and take care of him? Thrilling.
He was ridiculed by the host Wangfu Shi and was ridiculed by Zhang Bichen in the background. "Saion lost his horse, is it a blessing to know?" Hu Xia, who was rejected by Yang Qianwei, sang the whole audience because of this, and Hu Xia was seen by more people, not only with singing, but also with emotional intelligence.