What kind of behavior will a boy make a girl think you are instigating? A few days ago I received a private message, some boys always complain that they are single or in love for a long time, in fact, the real reason is because you are more instigated. And girls are very annoying to the boys, instigation means that there is no responsibility and no ability, will make girls think that you are very bad, the most important thing is that these boys are actually not aware of their own behavior, attributing their behavior to other reasons. Then it will continue to get darker and darker on the road of encouragement. So what kind of behavior does a boy make a girl think you are instigating? Next, I will tell you about it in three points.
1. Understand the girl's intentions but dare not open her mouth
Some boys usually look very cheerful and lively, but they dare not respond to girls when they know their intentions. You said that when you first came into contact with girls, it is normal for you to be a little restrained and uncomfortable, and most boys will be more open after a period of time together, and will start to pursue girls. And these boys are not like this, they will be very provocative. The girl has hinted that she is interested in you, and your friends around you have seen it, but you still hesitate to open your mouth to the girl. For example, you often play with girls, people around you feel that your relationship is not ordinary, but you dare not show the girl that you like each other, every time you want to express yourself, you can't open your mouth in front of the girl, and even the girls ask you "Are you going to say anything to me", but you swallowed the words on your lips and said "Nothing is okay...", and this kind of behavior will make the girl feel that you are very intimidated, and you don't even have the courage to express your inner thoughts to her. Over time, even if the girl originally had a good feeling for you, this good feeling will slowly fade because of your encouragement, until the disappointment leaves.
2. When it sounds good, it is instigated
Some boys like to say something in front of girls that I will protect you, that I will be good to you, and that I will do something. But when something really happens, for example, I usually give girls a boast about Haikou, saying that you can rest assured, wrapped up in me; you can rest assured, I will be able to do it. But you can't let the girls see your results. This kind of behavior will make girls hate, and girls will think that you are a fake handle that you just talk about and don't practice. So boys should pay attention to the fact that before talking to girls, you must make sure that you can do it, don't do it and say in front of the girl, since you have made a promise, you must fulfill your promise.
3. Like to hide behind girls
Some boys who like to hide behind girls will think that it is because they are introverted and shy, but in fact, the reason why you will do this is that you instigate it. For example, if you go out to dinner with a girl, the dish will not come up after ordering, and the normal boys will greet the waiter to urge the dish, which is a very normal behavior. But these boys did not even dare to say a word, and even asked the girls to ask the waiter to urge the dish. And another problem with these boys is that they have no subjective judgment on things, people say good, people say good, people say bad is not good. Such a boy will make the girl think that you are very instigated, and the girl will feel that "you are a big man who shouts a waiter and does not dare to instigate the bag."
In general, boys with the above three behaviors should no longer find reasons to make excuses, you are instigating. But it's good that you can understand it now, and overcome these behaviors in time to avoid them. In this way, girls will not feel that you are instigated, there are problems that are not terrible, the key is to see if you can change these problems. If you don't know what to do, you can send me a private message. Well, then we will talk about this today, I am Xiaobai, you have any confusion about emotions can give me a private message, remember to like and comment Oh.