In life, we often encounter such children. They don't know how to be polite, they are short-tempered, and they have to do everything as they wish. The slightest disagreement with his own wishes began to roll and roll, making his parents helpless.
Many people will say that such children are too uneducated and bad children. But the truth is that such a child lacks love from an early age. Her parents did not care to accompany her growing up, stayed away all day in order to work, and often flew all over the world.
When children need them, they only blindly use material conditions to meet children, so children will become more and more arrogant, more and more blind, and do not think about others.
In the movie "Nightingale", there is a child who grew up in such a family atmosphere. The little girl's name is Ren Xing, and the harmonic sound means "willful". This movie tells the story of Ren Xing and his grandfather, who has not been seen for four years, under a coincidence, they traveled thousands of miles back to their hometown in Yangshuo to visit their relatives, and the twists and turns on the way were constant, because of a thrush, and finally healed each other.
The countryside away from the hustle and bustle of the city is clean and beautiful, the people in the mountains are simple and enthusiastic, the news along the way is new and interesting, and everything that happens on the road heals the two grandchildren, they from the beginning of the sword to the later intimate embrace, reach a reconciliation, every person who lacks love in their hearts, after watching this movie, has been cured.
1. Grandpa and granddaughter heal each other
At the beginning of the movie, I was really angry with this wayward little girl. Fight against Grandpa everywhere, and sleep in a bed and grab it for Grandpa. Deliberately not eating during the day, shouting that he was hungry at night; pretending to be upset, deliberately waking grandpa to go to the bathroom, only to block grandpa out of the door and make a grimace in front of the mirror; and quietly throwing grandpa's shoes into the washroom at night.
On the way back to the hometown, because Ren Xing secretly went to buy water to drink, when Grandpa was anxious to find her back, because he was anxious to take the wrong car, fortunately, there were well-wishers who passed by using tricycles to take them home for a temporary stay. At night, Ren Xing was woken up by mosquitoes in the countryside, she did not stop, and then she woke up her grandfather, slept by herself, and asked her grandfather to help her catch mosquitoes.
The next day, because the road was temporarily renovated, they were told that they could find a way back to Yangshuo through a forest. In this way, they were lost in this forest and spent the night in a cave. This night, Grandpa told Ren Xing the story of her grandmother who had left, and the relationship between the grandfather and grandson was close for the first time.
On the third day, at a lake, Grandpa's foot sprained, but fortunately he met a kind person who took them across the river. They came to a village and had a wonderful time. Ren Xing made many good friends, and climbed an immortal tree, and in the process of playing with her friends, a smile belonging to her age filled her face for the first time.
When he learned that his grandfather was going to send him back to Beijing in advance, Ren Xing hid. This time, Ren Xing and Grandpa sat on a bench for the first time and made a thorough heart-to-heart relationship.
"From the few days I left my parents, I was like a little bird, closed my cage open, I flew out at once, I was very happy, although I was happy, but I still had to fly back, because I loved my father and mother..."
Ren Xing told Grandpa what she really thought in her heart, and she wanted to fly again with her little wings. Grandpa agreed. Later, Grandpa finally took Ren Xing back to his hometown and saw the house where he used to live. Grandpa told Ren Xing a little secret: if he could spend his old age in this old house, it would be the most beautiful thing in the world.
All this, Xiao Renxing quietly remembered in his heart. One morning up, grandpa has been with the thrush around the old, Xiao Renxing thought that grandpa also wanted to take the thrush to Grandma's grave to make a wish, she endured the pain of cutting love, with her latest iPad in exchange for a melodious song similar to the thrush, Grandpa did not doubt, came to Grandma's grave to release this bird, fulfilled Grandma's wish before death.
Since then, the feelings of the grandfather and grandson have become deeper and deeper, and they have remembered each other. In particular, Xiao Renxing, who has changed the most, from arrogant temper to thinking about others everywhere, this transformation is incomparably heart-warming and healing.
2. The son and the father untie the knot
Because four years ago, the father (the grandfather mentioned earlier) took his daughter (Ren Xing) to the flower and bird market and almost lost his daughter, Chongyi (Ren Xing's father) had a heart knot with his father. This time, his father took Ren Xing out of the far door alone, and Chongyi was in a hurry after knowing it, and rushed to Yangshuo without stopping.
This time, the father and son did not quarrel, but sat down to talk and talk. It turned out that Chongyi had always been unable to let go of his father in his heart. He always kept the whistle that his father had given him when he was a child, and when he was stressed, he would blow it, as if his father had always been by his side.
I thought the twist here was a little quicker, as if their previous conflict had been resolved too easily. But maybe this time the daughter and her father had a happy time. As soon as Ren Xing saw his father, he ran to him and couldn't wait to tell him about the adventures of the past few days.
"I've had a very interesting few days. I played in the water under the waterfall, spent the night in a cave, I was bitten by mosquitoes, I touched a big buffalo, I took a boat, I sang songs, I saw many small fish, I saw a very large spider, and I collected rice with the children..."
Chongyi looked at his father tenderly, and at that moment, it was estimated that he forgave his father at once. Later, Chongyi handed over the real estate certificate of the old house to his father, saying that Ren Xing could not keep the secret, and his father must have been surrounded by full happiness at that moment. The son and father were able to reconcile so quickly, and Ren Xing played a role that could not be ignored.
3. Husband and wife reconcile as before
When Chongyi knew that his wife had secretly let Ren Xing and his grandfather return to their hometown, the anger that Chongyi had been suppressing in his heart broke out, and he immediately called his wife and said that he wanted a divorce. The marriage was in crisis.
Later, after Ren Xing returned from her hometown in Yangshuo, she bought a nightingale that could not sing and put it at home, and she called her father back, who often did not come home, and said that she would let her father train this nightingale until he could sing. It could take days, weeks, months, or even years, and Chongyi agreed without hesitation.
Because after reconciling with his father, his heart suddenly softened, and he repented that if he had talked openly and honestly with his wife earlier, it was estimated that he would not have made this step. And Ren Xing's move just gave Chongyi a step down, and the family snuggled tightly together, and this small family began to become warm and humane.
Returning to the family's parents, the married life is more harmonious, not to mention Xiao Renxing, surrounded by the love of her parents, she must now be the happiest little girl in the whole world.
At the end of the film, the nightingale who can't sing actually sang, and the grandfather who was ready to move back to Yangshuo was sincerely retained by his granddaughter, everything was so warm and beautiful. Not only the characters in the film, but even the people outside the picture are silently healed.
Children's growth needs love and companionship, if you also have children, please never be absent from your child's growth.