When women reach middle age, men can't make you happy, you have to find fun on your own and make yourself happy. Indeed, the mood is their own, others do not care about not cherishing, but they can not help but feel sorry for themselves. Married for ten years, the married sister no longer pins her joys and sorrows on others, and it is true that women can afford to put it down and live by themselves. So why, after many years of marriage, many women will feel that their husbands are no longer as good as they were at the beginning, or even worse than a passerby, and even worse than other people's husbands?
Marriages become more and more trivial, and tenderness is replaced by toughness.
In fact, most men in real life, most of the wives will choose to like a gentle type of woman, people say that a woman before marriage is gentle, but I have to say that after they get married, they have experienced various life grinding, it is inevitable that the personality will change, and after more gentleness is tough, it is easy to make men tired. Sometimes some small things can make a gentle woman erupt, at this time, smart men will care about their wives, so that the husband and wife feelings are more harmonious.
Women before marriage have been loved, and then tired choice will be
Marriage was originally like a charming scenery, wait until after marriage, in the triviality of chai rice oil and salt, there are more and more contradictions between each other, and if it is not handled well, it will affect the feelings of husband and wife Most middle-aged women have chosen to be housewives after marriage, paying for children and families, taking their husbands as the focus of their lives, if they become strangers, it means that the woman's world will collapse. If two people cannot divorce for various reasons, the person who chooses to compromise must have unspeakable pain in his heart.
Husbands betray marriages, and women don't divorce for the sake of their children.
Why do some middle-aged women treat their husbands as strangers? Mostly because of the betrayal of her husband. Because the pain of infidelity and betrayal is like a wound in the heart that can never be healed, and the pain is deep in the heart. In the face of her husband's cheating, even if the woman chooses to forgive, it is also superficial, and the heart can no longer return to the original, but the face and heart are not in harmony with the life, and there is no warmth at all. Therefore, women are like strangers to him, saying that it is ugly, her husband is a roommate for her, and the relationship between husband and wife is also nominal.
After marriage, men no longer cherish it after getting it
For men, when in love, for the woman they like, they will dig their hearts and lungs, and try to get the beloved, but once they get it, with a certificate, the relationship between husband and wife has become a fact, and it will not be paid as it was in the beginning. For women, after marriage, the previous reservedness and beauty will gradually disappear, especially after having children. And with each other's familiarity and habits, they will expose their worst tempers to each other, as everyone knows, even if the relationship between husband and wife is intimate, it cannot withstand the bad temper of men and women again and again. Such a life is tiresome.