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No matter who falls in love with whom, whether they can become a husband and wife, as long as it is true love, they are worthy of respect.
In this life, it is even more difficult to meet a person who you like and like you very much. Even if it is late to meet and hate, they still meet. Although there are regrets, but serious recall, regret is also a kind of beauty.
The story of love, happens to yourself, as long as you know how to let go, let go or hold hands, will make life become sunny.
The writer Yi Shu said: "Life is always bad, and occasionally there is a happy thing, you should enlarge it to do it, don't live with yourself." ”
To treat love as a painful thing is to embarrass oneself; to try to amplify happiness is to be right.
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In "The Surprise of the Second Moment Shooting", there is a bizarre love story.
During the Jiajing period, merchants were very popular in the Huizhou area. Businessmen make money, and they have more face than those who read books and obtain meritorious names.
There was a young man named Cheng Zai who went to Liaoyang with his brother Cheng Yu to do business, selling ginseng, mink and other things. After several years of hard work, not only did not make money, but lost all the money. They had no face to face their fathers and fellow villagers, so they decided to settle down in Liaoyang first, and then return to their hometown after the comeback.
The two brothers, working as buddies in a shop in Liaoyang, lived in a rental house at night.
When winter comes, the cold wind in the rental house whistles through, and even the thick quilt does not work. Cheng Zai tossed and turned, unable to sleep. Suddenly, his eyes lit up and he found three women entering the room. At the same time, the rooms became palatial, with fine wine and food.
One of the women, drinking and chatting with him, was willing to give his life.
Later, Cheng Zai was able to meet the woman every night. In the early hours of the morning, the woman quietly left.
Cheng Zai said to the woman, "I was originally from Huizhou, but because I lost money in business, I had to live here temporarily." I really miss my hometown. ”
The woman said, "I can help you and make you a lot of money." ”
The first time, the woman asked Cheng Zai to buy some cheap medicinal herbs and then sell them to sick people at a high price; the second time, Cheng Zai bought some cloth that was wet with rain and sold it to soldiers as flags; and the third time, he bought some cheap white cloth, which was used as a filial piety for Emperor Wuzong when he died. After several tosses, he made a lot of money.
Cheng Zai had money and planned to return to his hometown. The woman said, "I am the sea god of Penglai, and if you return to your hometown, our fate will be broken." Even so, I can still know your whereabouts. After you return to your hometown, there will be three disasters, and you can do as I suggest, so that you can avoid them. ”
In that year, the war was continuous, and Cheng Zai, with the help of women, escaped three serious wars. With his family, he went to live in the Gaoyou area of Huai'an.
On the way to migration, the woman turned into a cloud and reluctantly bid farewell to Cheng Zai. They never saw each other again.
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The ancients said, "It is better to know the reason for love, and to talk about it makes people want to break their intestines." ”
Although the story in the book is incredible, this feeling, sincere and beautiful, leads to positive energy. Just like the story of Dong Yong and the Seven Fairies, Cowherd and Weaver Girl, it has a long history.
A woman, knowing that the person she loves, cannot be together for a lifetime, but still help each other, cherish the fate of meeting, and keep the good time of love.
For the sake of love, she did the following things, not to seek the sky and the earth, but to have it.
First, the person who truly loves you will accompany you through your hardships.
As the saying goes: "See the truth in the midst of suffering, and see the hearts of the people between life and death." ”
Whether it is a husband and wife, or a lover, they often part ways when they are down. Some people, when they go on a blind date, hear that the other party is very poor, and immediately turn away, worshiping money, at a glance.
When a person is poor, he can still meet true love, which is precious. In the story, Cheng Zaiben is a down-and-out businessman, but the woman does not dislike him and still believes in fate.
The heart is given to you, so what else can't be given to you? As long as he has a mouthful of hot rice, he can give you half a bite. Such feelings are each other's foam.
Second, people who truly love you will encourage you to get rich.
In "Love Defense War", there is a woman named Shanshan who falls in love with the poor boy Lin Chuan. Their love was opposed by the woman's parents.
Parents believe that a daughter marrying a poor man will have to suffer for a lifetime. Moreover, take out 200,000 yuan and give it to Lin Chuan as a parting fee. Lin Chuan refused the money and also let go of love.
After a year, Shanshan and Lin Chuan reunited in the show, but they still had no chance of getting married. Because the word "poverty" has become an insurmountable wall.
In fact, if you truly love a person, whether poor or rich, you will not abandon it, but expect two people to get rich together and change the face of life.
The opposite sex that helps you get rich, seemingly partners, is actually in love with you, don't don't understand.
Third, the person who truly loves you will fulfill your happiness.
The original intention of loving someone is to run to happiness, not to live worse and worse.
Whether you can be a husband and wife, you must be good, if you are entangled with each other, both lose, it is contrary to the original intention of love.
Cheng Zai in the story insists on returning to his hometown, and the woman does not stop him, but puts away her feelings and fulfills him. Such a choice is undoubtedly touching.
Know that the person who fulfills you must have more affection than you give and love more deeply.
Maybe you don't know, behind the scenes, the person who took the initiative to let go, how many times he cried, how much suffering he had suffered. But he hid all this and still faced you with the best posture.
Fourth, people who are truly in love will look forward to reuniting with you.
There is a saying on the Internet: "When you and I are old, I will go to you and wait for me, okay?" ”
Yes, there is no chance to be a husband and wife in this life, so when you are old, see each other again, see if the other party is doing well, is not very happy. Perhaps, it can also be agreed that the next life will meet again at the Red Dust Ferry, and they will marry each other.
Many people think that people who have no chance of getting married will not be seen again. In fact, the reunion is very necessary, so that the memories can quickly come and the good can be continued.
When you are at ease, when you meet again, you will look at everything very calmly, and you will greet and love each other like old friends.
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Shakyamuni said, "Whoever you meet, he is the one who should appear in your life, no accident, and he will certainly teach you something." ”
On the road of life, when you meet a person who truly loves you, whether you can hold hands for a lifetime, it doesn't matter, don't live up to love.
Because of love, it has achieved a better "you and me", and it is not worthwhile to meet once.
For the rest of your life, cherish your fate and live up to it.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.