"The Man Who Does Housework" is a reality show that takes "men doing housework" as the perspective and cuts into the intimate relationship of real life to observe reality. In addition to showing the psychological state of each person in the family relationship, the roommate group is also set up.
Chen Xuedong, Huang Jingyu and Dong Youlin showed the sparks of friction when they lived together in a three-person shared apartment. Compared with family relationships, this roommate group is really interesting.
Chen Xuedong, Huang Jingyu and Dong Youlin, three big boys living together, are basically laughing and laughing. However, the personalities of the three of them are very different.
Huang Jingyu is an absolute optimist, a comedian everywhere. His sense of humor seems to be innate, and joking is a part of his life, and it would be easy to be with him.
Huang Jingyu's life ability is also very strong. The three of them went camping outdoors, and when Chen Xuedong and Dong Youlin were still thinking about finding instructions to see how to set up the tent, Huang Jingyu had already put it into practice. He is typical of the activists. Instead of grinding the clock, find answers in action.
Make friends with people like Huang Jingyu, and the people around you should feel very comfortable.
Dong Youlin in "The Man Who Does Housework", the state shown is a well-behaved big boy. Because he was the younger brother of the three people, he had great respect for Chen Xuedong and Huang Jingyu. Basically, Dong Youlin is the person who does what others say and do, and will not raise any objections.
Chen Xuedong, his personality is completely different from the above two people. He showed a strong desire for control. Many times, he did not seem to express an opinion, but in the end, everyone still did what he thought. To put it simply, Chen Xuedong is a very subjective person.
He will invisibly put pressure on others. This is fine for Huang Jingyu, but it is a little difficult for Dong Youlin.
Perhaps Chen Xuedong felt that Dong Youlin had no opinion on anything, so in the common life, Chen Xuedong dominated Dong Youlin's ideas. Many times, his approach will make Dong Youlin very embarrassed.
Guo Caijie went to the roommate group's house to be a guest, and everyone played games. The penalty for losing the game is to pluck the leg hair. Dong Youlin said that the leg hair could not be pulled off.
Before the words fell, Chen Xuedong directly started to take down five roots. Guo Caijie laughed at the side, and Dong Youlin laughed there with embarrassment and helplessness.
If such a game link is more than some interaction between friends, no one will care, then Chen Xuedong's behavior of completely ignoring Dong Youlin's feelings after that is really speechless.
Chen Xuedong, Huang Jingyu and Dong Youlin went to a game experience hall to play. The games in this place are basically the kind of high-altitude games that are more thrilling. Such a place is a paradise for adventurous, exciting friends. However, for friends with fear of heights, it is a nightmare.
The three people in the show, Chen Xuedong came to the paradise, Huang Jingyu did not care, it was a nightmare for Dong Youlin.
Chen Xuedong took Huang Jingyu and Dong Youlin directly to a high point to challenge a passing project. It was raining outside that day, which added some difficulty and scary factors to these games.
Chen Xuedong and Huang Jingyu both successfully passed the first game. Dong Youlin did not move for a long time. He has a fear of heights. This type of person faces high-altitude games and needs strong psychological construction. Even if you reluctantly participate in the game, your body may experience various discomforts afterwards.
Dong Lin tried several times, but his foot stretched out, and finally he took it back. He chose to give up.
Friends who do not have a fear of heights may not find it difficult to play games with a safety rope. But for many friends like Dong Youlin, their inner fear is not something that can be solved by the encouragement of friends or many safety measures.
It was normal for Dong Youlin to give up that game. However, Chen Xuedong felt strange, and Dong Youlin, a game that seemed to him very simple, did not do it. Later, he found Dong Youlin on a high slide.
Because the slide is also very high, Dong Youlin is entangled in whether to play. Just when he was struggling with whether to slide down, Chen Xuedong directly pushed Dong Youlin, who was sitting at the mouth of the slide, down.
In this way, with Dong Youlin's shouting, he completed an involuntary game. After the show, Chen Xuedong's action was accused by netizens.
In this matter, Chen Xuedong did not consider Dong Youlin's feelings at all. He simply thought that Dong Youlin was not brave enough, or that Chen Xuedong just wanted to see him look a little afraid and afraid.
But for Dong Youlin, Chen Xuedong has almost become his own "nightmare".
Chen Xuedong's action was very disappointing. Dong Youlin's weakness became his laughing point. He completely ignores the other person's feelings and only thinks he is playing.
In the previous racing session, Chen Xuedong could not experience the beauty of the speed of the car, and the speed was a nightmare for him. Therefore, in the end, he did not participate in the competition after Huang Jingyu and Dong Youlin, but only as a spectator.
No one forced him to participate, but he forced Dong Youlin to participate in the game after that. Chen Xuedong did a very "double standard" thing.
For Chen Xuedong, I don't know how Dong Youlin feels in his heart. However, in front of the camera, Dong Youlin treats Huang Jingyu and Chen Xuedong differently.
When they appeared in the observation room with Huang Jingyu and watched the previously recorded programs, Dong Youlin and Huang Jingyu talked and laughed, and sometimes they would fight in a very good atmosphere. But when Huang Jingyu was replaced by Chen Xuedong, it was a different scene.
In the latest episode, Dong Youlin and Chen Xuedong were guest observers in the observation room together. During the period, Chen Xuedong patted Dong Youlin's shoulder with his hand several times, and Dong Youlin was in a posture of dodging to the side. Obviously, he was very resistant to Chen Xuedong's way of interacting with himself. A person's behavior may manifest itself in what he really thinks.
Perhaps, Dong Youlin still can't forget the feeling of the moment Chen Xuedong pushed himself down.
Some people say that is the way Chen Xuedong interacts with his friends. But in this way, the emotional intelligence is somewhat low.
In fact, Chen Xuedong has been complained about by netizens more than once about low emotional intelligence. Once a fan went to pick up the machine, saw that he was wearing less, and asked with concern, "Brother, why don't you wear more?" ”
Originally this was a very heartwarming sentence. As a result, Chen Xuedong smiled and held up the mobile phone case and responded: "I will show you a word." The phone case was impressively written with the word "roll."
Fans picked up in the cold wind, but got a "roll" word. This is probably unacceptable to anyone. The reason is that he does not give fans the most basic respect.
Back to "The Man Who Does Housework", Dong Youlin more often shows obedience among the three people, because he has the most basic respect for Chen Xuedong and Huang Jingyu.
Whether it is between relatives or friends, respect for others is the most basic cultivation.