After watching the reality show, I suddenly felt Qin Ziyue's strong love for Nie Yuan!
The program team staff asked Qin Ziyue how to sort "daughters, careers, husbands", and she replied: husband first, daughter second, career third.
Obviously, she values her husband Nie Yuan very seriously, and loves her husband more than her daughter, but she puts herself and her career last.
Is this the marriage view of most "Chinese wives"?
Qin Ziyue's love for Nie Yuan is not lip service, but sincerely pays for her husband, does housework, takes care of all her husband's life, and takes care of Nie Yuan.
From Qin Ziyue's words, it can be seen that she is very distressed that her husband is too busy with acting work, so she takes the initiative to take on the responsibility of taking care of the family.
As mentioned earlier, Qin Ziyue ranked her husband and daughter ahead of herself, but her plan for herself and her career was not so detailed and diligent.
So, when the staff asked Qin Ziyue to rate herself, she cried.
Qin Ziyue's score for her career is almost "negative", she was emotionally excited at one time, she was in tears, and her heart was also very eager and pursuing for her career, but now she pays more attention to the care of her family.
Whether there was bitterness or happiness behind the tears, only Qin Ziyue knew.
Here is a detail, Qin Ziyue once collapsed and cried in the question and answer session, knowing that the interview was over, Qin Ziyue was still crying.
But Nie Yuan did not patiently coax her, but began to educate his wife, so that she should not be emotional, unnecessary.
Even when his wife was crying non-stop, Nie Yuan was sitting and playing with his mobile phone, not knowing whether he was really rude or did not care much about his wife's emotions?
It is said that whether it is a recording program or a daily routine, the wife cries like this, and because she cries because of the mention of family and career, Nie Yuan, who is a husband, should patiently comfort his wife, and should be grateful and distressed to his wife who has been taking care of the family.
Not only this detail, at the beginning of the show, Nie Yuan got up and was angry, and always blamed his wife Qin Ziyue for recording the show too grand and deliberate, resulting in Qin Zi not daring to provoke him to be angry, and he was very aggrieved to accommodate her husband.
This scene deeply touched Li Shi and Dong Youlin in the observation room.
Dong Youlin asked Qin Ziyue, are you afraid of your husband?
Li Shi said with a smile, don't say Qin Ziyue, he looked a little afraid.
Dong Youlin said that he was also a little afraid of Nie Yuan.
Indeed, Nie Yuan in the show gives people the feeling that he is a big man!
He did not have a very patient spoiled persuasion of his wife, and he blamed her very strongly about the matter of dressing, and did not have the patience to listen to her reasons.
Looking at another detail, when Qin Ziyue gave himself a 120 points for his "wife's duties", what was Nie Yuan's reaction expression?
Smile? Or impatient?
In Nie Yuan, how could I not feel his spoiling and love for his wife?
In addition, when Nie Yuanlai couldn't get out of bed and the whole family was waiting for him to eat, Zhu Dan couldn't help but get emotional, and bluntly said in the observation room that Qin Ziyue should cure Nie Yuanlai's bed habits next time.
But Fu Seoul pointed out to the point that it was obvious that Qin Ziyue did not want to treat her husband.
Indeed, Qin Ziyue explained that the reason why Nie Yuan couldn't afford to sleep was because sometimes insomnia and rest were not good, so she would unconditionally accommodate her husband.
Look! This is Qin Ziyue's love for her husband.
It is no wonder that after watching the whole process, Li Shi said with a sigh that Qin Ziyue was too humble in marriage.
But Qin Ziyue did not consider herself humble, and she even explained that it was her love for her husband.
She believes that Nie Yuan is the head of the family, and accommodating him and tolerating him is what she should do as a wife.
Qin Ziyue spoiled her husband's speech and opinion, which made Fu Seoul's face full of incomprehension.
But Fu Seoul finally put up with it, knowing that Fu Seoul's attitude towards her husband is definitely not such a spoiled attitude!
Li Tian's can't look down, Zhu Dan's can't help but erupt emotions, Fu Seoul's see through does not say broken, all of which reflect Qin Ziyue's husband, really too spoiled.
Every couple, every family has their way of getting along.
All kinds of tolerance and pampering of the husband, taking care of the husband meticulously, everything to the needs of the husband first, this is Qin Ziyue's "cultivation" as a wife!
In the eyes of outsiders, it may not understand why she tolerates her husband in everything, but for Qin Ziyue, this is a manifestation of enjoyment and love, which is the part she should do well as a wife.
However, Qin Ziyue himself paid unconditionally to her husband, did not pay attention to returns or consider gains and losses.
But when it comes to parents, Qin Ziyue finally collapsed again!
Qin Ziyue cried and said that he felt very guilty about his parents, because his parents did not have their own rest time, gave up a life that could have been very idle, but went to their daughter's home to cook and do housework and take care of their daughter's family's life.
As a daughter, Qin Ziyue was distressed by the hardships of her parents, and she knew that she had established a family, and her daughters were in the first grade.
But the parents are still working hard for their own family and housework, which makes Qin Ziyue, who is the daughter, more able to feel at ease?
Let's take a closer look at the show that Qin Ziyue's parents are really hard working, breakfast is made by Qin Ziyue's mother, and in order to welcome Nie Yuan who comes home from work, Qin Ziyue's father also cooks busy.
The two old men cooked on the stove at the same time, and finally made a table full of dishes.
After doing a good job, Mother Qin also carefully covered each dish with a hood, afraid that the food would not taste good when it was cold.
But at this time, Nie Yuan was still sleeping, and Mother Qin and Father Qin were preparing meals at 10 a.m., during which Nie Yuan never got up.
Qin Ziyue went upstairs again and again to tell Nie Yuan to get up, but Nie Yuan just couldn't get up.
In this way, the time passed little by little, and the meal slowly cooled down.
At 12 o'clock, Mother Qin took the cold dishes back to microwave and heat them again and again.
At one o'clock in the afternoon, Father Qin was also a little impatient, and his expression had not been very good.0
Finally, Nie Yuan didn't get up until 2 p.m.!
During this period, his mother-in-law kept going back and forth on hot dishes, and Qin Zi told him to get up several times.
In the end, my father-in-law couldn't wait and went to take a nap himself.
And Nie Yuan, who got up at 2 p.m., was a bit surprised by his father-in-law's name, calling "her grandfather"!
Shouldn't it be a call to Daddy? Even if it is the father-in-law, it is also his own "father", is it not a little inappropriate to call the father-in-law "her grandfather"?
Qin's father and his wife were busy all morning, and they didn't wait for their son-in-law to get up, but they didn't expect Nie Yuan to call himself "Old Taishan" like this.
Moreover, what is even more uncomfortable is that Mother Qin has been patiently waiting for her son-in-law to get up.
Even if he was hungry, the old man endured and eventually waited for his son-in-law to eat together.
Mother Qin was busy all day, repeated hot meals, but she had to accommodate her son-in-law's bed, and did not eat until 2 p.m.
No wonder Qin Ziyue wept at his parents' guilt, indeed, Qin's father and Mother Qin really paid too much for their daughter's family.
In fact, I don't understand why Mother Qin wants to tolerate her son-in-law so much, Nie Yuan doesn't get up, she and her wife can eat first, leave it for the son-in-law, there is no need to wait for a few hours to eat.
Perhaps, it is because the old couple feels that this is in the son-in-law's family after all, and the son-in-law's career is better than that of the daughter, so it is particularly tolerant and respectful to the son-in-law!
Speaking of career, Qin Ziyue also mentioned this point, she said bluntly: Career, I can't be a distant brother.
Tasting this sentence carefully, it seems that some reasons why Qin Ziyue is super pampered and pampered for her husband.
Qin Ziyue feels that she is not red, the career development is not good, the family's expenses, most of them rely on the husband after the red, so in addition to doing a good job of housework so that her husband has no worries, her heart is grateful to her husband, is admired, and is extremely respectful.
Seeing Qin Ziyue's respect and love for her husband, Zhu Dan couldn't help but sigh and say: The more Qin Zi admires her husband's woman more than I do!
No matter what Zhu Dan said about Qin Ziyue, and no matter how many opinions Fu Seoul put up with and did not mention Qin Ziyue, I could feel that Qin Ziyue really put his position too low in the family!
Li Shi finally reminded Qin Ziyue not to rate himself so low, sometimes the more he despised himself, the easier it was to put himself in a humble position, and the more he was less confident.
I don't know if Li Zhi's words will really listen to Qin Ziyue.
But I think that as a wife, even if the career is not as good as the husband, even if the husband takes on most of the responsibilities of raising the family, he should give himself a proper position, and should not put himself very low.
Maybe I think this is love for my husband, but in the eyes of outsiders, this love is a bit "humble".
In addition, Nie Yuan said in the show that he wanted to present the audience with a super real self!
Nie Yuan's original intention is very real, but some of his truths, but people can't feel his love for his wife, perhaps Nie Yuan also loves Qin Ziyue, even if he can't pay the same love as his wife, but at least to the camera, there is also a bit of "performance".