Some time ago, I saw a video on Douyin, and the text content was as follows: "Listen to experts, women are not good-looking, easy to age, so everyone should listen to experts, and later see good-looking men, directly take it!" If nothing else, for immortality! ”。
At first, I just thought it was funny, whose head melon seed was so bright, actually came up with such a paragraph!
Later, I thought of a person who had done this, and that was Liu Chuyu, the princess of Shanyin.
During the Southern and Northern Dynasties, princess of the Southern Dynasty, the eldest daughter of Liu Jun, emperor Xiaowu of Song, and the half-sister of Liu Ziye, the deposed emperor of the former Song Dynasty, her mother was Empress Wenmu Wang Xianyan. She was first enfeoffed as Princess San'in, and later changed her title to Princess Huichang, and married Ma Du wei He Jie. At that time, the Liu Song Dynasty was known as the first beauty of the imperial family.
She is outstanding in appearance and has fallen into the country. And she is famous not for her beauty, but for her fornication and debauchery.
In the first year of Jinghe (465), he was killed by his uncle Liu Yu (劉彧), the Emperor Ming of Song. When he died, he was only 19 years old. In the present, it is only adulthood, and the law in our country stipulates that the age of marriage for women is 20 years old, while in ancient times, most women were married at the age of 14_15, and they were still children.
Dong Qing said: The beauty of a woman lies in kindness, and the beauty of a child lies in innocence.
At such a naïve age, if she does not go out of the second door, she will teach her husband and son at home, and abide by the three from the four virtues, if we put it on us, we may not be able to do it, let alone be a noble princess of a country!
Besides, where did her name for fornication and debauchery come from? This stems from two things.
First, there are 30 male pets
She once said to Liu Ziye: "Although I and Your Majesty are different from men and women, they are both the flesh and bones of the former emperors. There are tens of thousands of beautiful women in His Majesty's harem, and I have only one horse. Things are not fair, how did it get to such a point! ”
So Liu Ziye gave Liu Chuyu thirty beautiful men. He also renamed Liu Chuyu as the princess of Huiji County, and Feng Lu was the same as the king of the county, eating two thousand households in Tang Muyi, allocating a band and twenty people with ban swords.
This shows that she has the idea of equality between men and women.
Second, pursue your uncle
At that time, there were two beautiful men, one was princess San'in's horse lieutenant He Jie, born into a famous family, with clear eyebrows, a straight posture, every move, style, is a rare beautiful man. The other was Chu Yuan, the husband of Princess Nanjun Xian, who was personable, handsome, mature, stable, and charming, and at each court meeting, the courtiers all watched Chu Yuan go away before they scattered.
According to the generations, Chu Yuan was Liu Chuyu's uncle. Now Liu Chuyu took a fancy to him, so he asked his brother to let Chu Yuan accompany him for a few days.
Liu Ziye agreed to Liu Chuyu's request and asked Chu Yuan to stay in the Princess Mansion for a few days.
Princess San'in raised her spirits, dressed up every day, had nothing to do, soft and hard, and wanted Chu Yuan to like herself, so as to keep him.
But more than ten days had passed, and Chu Yuan was still unmoved. In the end, I still threatened to die, you are a princess, I can't do anything to you, you force me again, I can always commit suicide! Princess San'in saw him like this, and had no choice but to let him go back.
Princess San'in loves beautiful men, and loves blatantly, regardless of it. Never suppress yourself, live too really.
No matter who the other party is, if you like it, you have to work hard, regardless of the worldly vision and evaluation, so it leads to her short life.
And now we like beautiful men as much, but who can be like her, regardless of it.
We need to worry too much, because even a princess can't live too long.
Besides, we are not princesses, there is no one to support us, and the slightest mistake will attract the blank eyes and scorn of others. We have to think about relationships, work, family, children, etc., and we can only do it step by step and try to make life better.
That said, if one day, you become a princess and have endless money and supreme power, what will you do?