Moderator Dong Qing said:
"The beauty of a woman's appearance is short-lived, and only by modifying herself with knowledge and cultivation can she be beautiful for a lifetime, and everyone's face is written with the books she has read and the roads she has traveled."
There are two kinds of human beauty, one is the beauty of the face, and the other is the beauty of the connotation.
The beauty of the face will be corroded by the years, and the beauty of knowledge and connotation will be brighter because of the precipitation of the years.
Some people only pay attention to external maintenance, and ignore the connotation, thus becoming an empty vase, which is not useful in the middle;
Some people cultivate both inside and outside, even if they are wrinkled by the years, they also have a young mentality and can calmly accept natural phenomena.
Just like the high circle circle.
Recently, Gao Yuanyuan was invited to interview, rarely talking about the problem of her aging, she said:
"I look at myself in the mirror every day, and I know better than everyone what I look like, so if you think she's getting older, I know better than you."
The implication is to admit that her appearance has gradually aged, and also indirectly respond to the topic of netizens constantly commenting on her aging.
As we all know, Gao Yuanyuan, who has the title of national goddess, has always been the white moonlight in the hearts of the audience.
Her face, which has never been carved, is naturally beautiful, and the beauty is indispensable, especially in her youth, and she exudes charm between her hands and feet, and is a rare original beauty in the entertainment industry.
Therefore, before getting married, Gao Yuanyuan mixed well in the circle, and his works and resources were in a state of prosperity.
But in her belief, career is not the most important.
In 2012, 33-year-old Gao Yuanyuan met Zhao Youting while filming and fell in love ever since.
Two years later, the two men cultivated the right results, received a marriage license, held a wedding, and became a happy couple.
Since then, Gao Yuanyuan has divided more time into his family and husband, and his works have decreased significantly, and his film and television works have stayed in 2017.
After 4 years of marriage, Gao Yuanyuan was busy preparing to conceive and give birth, and even rarely participated in activities.
When she actually gave birth to her daughter and made a comeback after dealing with the child's affairs, the topic of her aging also came.
When participating in the event, he was accused of being haggard; when he came back to shoot "Glory and Dreams", he was accused of sunken cheeks and collagen loss.
Since the postpartum comeback, the topic of wrinkles, status, and eye bags has increased dramatically.
It was as if the root of all aging was because she had children.
Isn't it possible to be young forever without having children?
Does the goddess have to keep the beauty of 20 years old?
No one can be young forever!
Aging is the norm in the world.
Born as a person, everyone does not want to see their own aging side, especially people in the entertainment industry want to retain their beauty and want to become the one who freezes age.
But the years are an invisible sculptor, a little precipitation, a little accumulation.
And a woman's beauty should not be defined by age or appearance.
The 20-year-old Gao Yuanyuan has the beauty of the sun like fire; the 42-year-old Gao Yuanyuan has the beauty of maturity and wisdom.
Every kind of beauty is a gift from life and should be loved.
The modern writer Zhang Fangyu said:
"A large part of a woman's beauty comes from her awareness of her own beauty—the confidence and elegance that comes from it."
Elegant life, elegant aging, is not a comfortable attitude to life?
In the entertainment industry, there are many stars who do not obey the old.
In order to retain the beauty of youth, many people will work crazy on their faces, and even more, they will use knives.
But the truth backfired.
Once in "A Curtain of Dreams", Xiao Qiang, who played Lu Ping, was called Taiwan's first beautiful woman when she was young, and at that time, she was very beautiful and spiritual.
However, with the increase of age, in order to retain her beauty, Xiao Qiang began to work hard, and the result was that the audience could not recognize it, and even laughing was not natural.
Chen Derong, who also played Ziling in "A Curtain of Dreams", was beautiful when he was young, so that he refused to serve the old man in middle age;
He also said that he would not play the role of a mother when he died.
Among the male stars, Chen Haoming was a creamy boy when he was young, with a polite temperament and a very attractive look.
However, after middle age, he changed to European-style large double eyelids, the apple muscle is very strange, and the laugh is creepy;
Presumably, behind the huge changes in appearance, it is also the result of excessive picking.
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Comparing these artists who do not obey the old age, they will find that people who correctly view age changes such as Gao Yuanyuan know the meaning of life better, and also make some artists who have no self-knowledge shame.
Such people who accept age changes know how to take care of the outside and also know how to improve the inside.
When you are young, you can stand out with your beauty, and when you are old, you can shape the classic with your strength.
The value of the actor is not all in the appearance, no matter where he is, he has self-knowledge, steadily improves the inside, and speaks with strength to be sober in the world.
Whether it is a man or a woman, everyone has a heart for beauty.
But excessive indulgence in appearance is bound to outweigh the losses.
If you want to be an admired and respected person, you can't rely only on appearance, but you should have a rich heart, a cultivated temperament and wisdom.
Over the years, Gong Li's old age is obvious, her body is bloated, and there are many wrinkles, but when she is mentioned, the audience first thinks of the classic role she has created, and to this day, she is still invited to perform various plays;
When she was young, Pan Hong was also in the ranks of beautiful women, and when she was old, she became a mother-in-law professional household, and her beauty has been covered by wrinkles to the point of not being seen, but no one can deny her value in the entertainment industry.
Hao Lei, who had a strong aura when she was young, is now fat and has become a big mother, but she has gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry with her acting skills, acting like what, and also served as a teacher in an acting school.
There are many artists who serve the old, and each of them has lived out their own posture and lived the way they want to be.
Even though aging is a natural phenomenon, they are old and have an attitude.
So, what reason does the audience have to harshly criticize Gao Yuanyuan and the wrinkles of others?
Audrey Hepburn once said:
"The beauty of a woman is not in the facial features but in the true beauty of her inner refraction." That's the love she gives and the passion she shows. This beauty of a woman grows with the passage of time. ”
I think that compared to those young and crazy years, Gao Yuanyuan likes his current state more.
Now she has a beloved husband, a lovely daughter, and in the role of wife and mother, she happily fulfills the meaning of life.
This kind of happiness is not something that everyone can have.
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