Wen | Zhang Ping
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Do you know why more and more young girls are voluntarily abandoning boys of the same age in favor of older men? Do you really think that the gentleness and thoughtfulness of old men captures such women?
Of course, I admit that older men do know a little better about how to treat women. Especially men who have experienced things are also more skilled in getting along with women.
But the skill of this kind of thing, to put it bluntly, is to see how much he likes you.
If he loves you, of course he is willing to spend money for you, but if he doesn't love you anymore, then even if he was good enough to make you forget everything, he will eventually make you fall from heaven to hell.
Because love itself is a very real thing, its prerequisite is that the other person loves you, but if he no longer loves you, you are nothing.
As a girl, you must understand this truth, no one will always get a person's love, most of the love is time-limited, so if you want to seek some benefits for yourself, it is best to love you and can't do without you, otherwise you will not only get nothing, but even catch up with you.
01。
Ma Sichun's new movie "The First Incense" I don't know if you watched it, frankly, after watching it, I actually sighed.
On the one hand, I have some regrets about Ge Weilong, played by Ma Sichun, on the other hand, I can also recognize young women, which is a little more.
For a woman, youth is the best capital, this matter is understood by everyone, so when a woman is young, especially a long and beautiful girl, it can really be said that it is going to be windy and rainy.
Ge Weilong, originally a rich, beautiful and talented female college student, she is a well-behaved girl in the eyes of her parents and a good student in the eyes of her classmates.
However, when the family changed, in order to successfully complete her studies, she chose to turn to her aunt Mrs. Liang. When she chose to run to her aunt, she always comforted herself in her heart, I just wanted to finish my studies, and as long as I insisted on being myself, no one could change me.
In fact, her thoughts were naïve, perhaps she herself did not understand, and when she decided to take this step, she was not for her studies, but for a better life.
02。
Young girls always have a desire for fame and fortune, especially if she still has a beautiful face.
Of course, Ge Weilong is ambitious, she is not willing to be an ordinary person and live an ordinary life, so even if she graduates successfully, according to her conditions, she is just a teacher.
Of course, this kind of day is not what she wants, what she wants is to go higher and have more wealth. No matter how much she despised it, in fact, her heart had a worship for the aunt that her father despised.
When the aunt was young, despite the opposition of her family, she insisted on marrying a rich man as an aunt, and it was for this reason that she severed contact with their family, and in her father's words, the aunt lost the face of their family.
But is face really that important? In Ge Weilong's father's eyes, it might be so, but in Ge Weilong's eyes, she didn't think it was such a serious matter.
A woman uses beauty to get what she wants, and a man uses his talent to win what he should have, in fact, is a truth, but from a secular point of view, they will feel that a woman's beauty in exchange for wealth is very cheap, so there is so much contempt and disdain.
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We always overestimate human nature and feel different from others, but in reality, everyone is the same. When Ge Weilong first saw her aunt's mansion, she was shocked.
When she saw a cabinet of Chinese clothes carefully prepared for her aunt, her heart was even more surprised. A young girl who has never seen the world, her restraint really isn't going to be too good.
Obviously, Ge Weilong overestimated herself, and her values have changed dramatically since she chose to step into this house, so when her aunt later used her to obtain more men's resources, she also chose to compromise.
To some extent, she also understands that what people want to gain in this life, they must lose something.
Therefore, every step after Ge Weilong is actually a choice she thinks is suitable for herself when she is sober.
Whether she is in love with a playboy or reduced to a social flower, Ge Weilong's purpose is to continue to maintain this luxurious life, to continue to satisfy the little vanity in her own unattainable field.
Therefore, some people say that Mrs. Liang has so much money, but she has no family, and she is even ridiculed by the next person, which is extremely pitiful.
But in fact, Ge Weilong, who changed from a well-behaved girl to a socialite and let herself get closer to her aunt a little bit, is not a poor worm.
Once people's greed is initiated, life is already out of control, and no matter how well you think at the time, the ending will not follow the trajectory you have booked.
In this life, if people want to live happily, they must reduce their greed, especially their lust for fame and fortune.
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About author:Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media. I have wine, do you have a story?