In the course of life, everyone will experience various blows, from being punished by the teacher when he was a child and arguing and fighting at the same table, to the ignorance of love in adolescence, to going out of society and coming to the workplace, everyone is experiencing various setbacks, stumbling all the way, upside down, but every time we rearranged our mood, packed up, continued to move forward, and continued to meet the next problem.
Unforgettable things can always be engraved in the brain, deeply affecting everyone, happy things will be forgotten after the time, and the injured things will always remain in the brain, and even can never be erased. The biggest thing in the world is life and death, other than that are small things, or can be solved, through the healing of time, with the erosion of time, everyone will slowly begin to accept those ups and downs, and in the process of re-understanding life, understanding a new self, and in the future days to better deal with these problems, which is the price of growth for each of us.
When the merciless blow falls on you, once I will be devastated, borrow wine to dispel sorrows, panic all day long, the sense of disillusionment brought by the sudden loss of hope, so that I am full of despair about life, I do not know where the future is, nor do I know what kind of life I will face next, where will I go, that feeling of helplessness is too uncomfortable, and in reality, every day I have to continue to maintain food, clothing, shelter and transportation, bad experience makes me have a hard appetite, depressed mood, no matter how good the dishes and scenery are at this moment, It doesn't make me feel happy, and it doesn't make me feel at ease. Later, I slowly thought that the blow was because I could not face the reality, and when this blow could not be solved, acceptance was the greatest favor for myself. I began to learn to be grateful, grateful that I still have a lot, and slowly my heart knot opened, and the blow on my body has disappeared.
You can argue that because everyone's family environment and education level are different, I can cope with all kinds of blows very well and calmly. In life, those who encounter difficult problems, are depressed, and those who find out the causes, analyze and think, and then find ways to solve them, the results brought about are different, and indeed they are related to the personal family environment. But what I want to say is that the kind of blow that makes you change the direction of your life, have to give up something, and re-accept new things, and the blueprint you once planned in your mind suddenly disappeared, which is the most hard-working blow. And as a result, all we can do is to suffer silently and accept silently.
Why does such a thing happen to you, and when the consequences of the blow are serious, you ask yourself why God is torturing me so much. And what you don't know is that there are so many worse people than you. You are luckier than more people, you live, you have no worries about food and clothing, you have good parents alive, you have wives and daughters around, it turns out that some things are magnified by yourself, some are insignificant things, some are not worth talking about compared to your eyes, the happiness you have, you have not found, and you do not care, that is because you are not satisfied, too willing to ask. Life in the world, look at the scenery in front of you, listen to the sounds of nature, those blows can not stop me from appreciating the pace of the world, will only make me stronger.