For women, if you want to have a happy marriage, you must understand your man, know how to be considerate, know how to use gentleness to create a harmonious atmosphere, use love to light up soft light for men, open the door for men with tolerance, and let men willingly return to the warm harbor.
"I want to have a home, a place that doesn't need much, and when I'm tired, I think about it, I want to have a home, a place that doesn't need much, and when I'm frightened, I don't get afraid..."
Many years ago, the famous singer Pan Meichen's song sang the voice of many people.
Home is not only a place to live, but also a harbor for the soul, otherwise it is an empty house, no matter how big and comfortable it is, it cannot be considered a home.
Especially for men, home is the most authentic haven and resting place for men, and it is also the warmest comfort nest.
A man's tired body can be relaxed at home, and a hard heart can be rested at home.
Men's hearts are not as strong as they usually appear, and in the face of various pressures, men's psychology is often very fragile.
Although he was speechless, he hoped to be understood and cared for by his family, and he was more eager to hear his wife's gentle and considerate words of encouragement and support.
No matter when, as long as men have the care and encouragement of women, their hearts will be full of self-confidence.
If men can't feel happy, warm at home.
Even a passionate man can feel frustrated and confused.
It can be imagined that men are working hard outside, tired and exhausted, back home, women nagging endlessly, even the best men will be annoyed.
Therefore, as a woman, we must understand men, know how to be considerate, know how to use tenderness like water to create a harmonious atmosphere, use love to light up soft light for men, open the door for men with tolerance, and let men willingly return to the warm harbor.
Xinya's husband is a businessman and has a successful career, but because he is busy with business, he often travels on business, sometimes not even for months.
Xinya, on the other hand, insisted on living at her own pace every day, taking good care of her son and in-laws. Friends around her always advised her to pay more attention to her doctor, so that he would not always be out of town and go home to see more.
But Xinya always smiled slightly, silently. She rarely complains about her husband's busyness, nor does she oppose his decision.
On the contrary, she is very supportive and considerate of her husband. He told her husband that men are too tired at work and should pay attention to maintaining good health.
Persuade your husband to stay sober when your career is going well and give encouragement when you encounter setbacks.
Whenever her husband is out, she and her son often call or email him.
Husbands also carry mobile phones and laptops with them, so they can always find out if there are wives and children at home.
The women around her either complain that her husband is too timid or complain that her husband is too careful, and Xinya's husband is becoming more and more successful in his career, and he is also very affectionate with Xinya, and he spends as much time as possible with his wife and son.
Xinya's happiness is enviable.
When asked if she had any special methods, she said that there is no special method of love.
Men are like kites, flying in the sky, but the kite is connected to one end, and this head is home. As a wife, you must know how to let go in time so that the kite can fly high; you must know how to tighten it in time so that the kite does not get out of control.
Love for a husband is like flying a kite, and flying a kite focuses on tension and relaxation.
At the same time, it also requires technology.
Hold the rope of love and grasp happiness between tensions.
Only intelligent women can understand this beauty. And Xinya is such a woman.
"Ten years of repair can be crossed by the same boat, and a hundred years of repair can sleep together."
Caring for each other, compromising with each other, and tolerating each other is the best way to maintain a happy marriage.
Marriage is bound to have friction, so it is more necessary to tolerate and care!
In the face of the misunderstanding and hurt that your lover has given you, after the outright pain, you still have to choose to be tolerant.
Because a warm home is a home that must be operated with love, forgiven with tolerance, and understood with trust.
Zhiqiang has an affair and is ready to divorce his wife.
Before the divorce, the wife offered to meet Zhiqiang's girlfriend.
Zhiqiang agreed, and took his beautiful young girlfriend home.
I thought my wife would accuse her girlfriend of insulting.
Unexpectedly, the wife did not, and she nodded generously and said that she would like to talk to his girlfriend and hoped that Zhiqiang would avoid it.
Zhi Qiang, who was standing outside the door, was worried that the two women would fight.
A few minutes later, however, the two women walked out peacefully.
After that, Zhiqiang couldn't help but ask his girlfriend: "What did my wife say to you?" My bad words? ”
When the girlfriend heard this, she shook her head regretfully and said: You don't know your wife too well, just like I don't know you! Zhi Qiang listened to the defense and said: "How can I not understand her, she is stupid and dirty, lack of interest, like a family nanny, nagging." ”
The girlfriend suddenly stopped and said solemnly: "She said that your stomach is not good: but she always loves to eat raw and cold food, so let me persuade you to eat less raw and cold food in the future." He also said that your blood pressure was high, and told me to pay attention and urge you to check it from time to time. ”
After listening, Zhiqiang lowered his head.
The girlfriend sighed heavily and said, "Your wife is a good woman, she is more open-minded than me." Go back, she's the one you're most worthy of your affection, and she knows better than I do how to love you. "
After saying that, the girlfriend turned around and resolutely left.
After this storm, Zhiqiang never mentioned the word divorce again, because he already understood that the love he had was the best one, and if he had a wife, he would ask for it.
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Home, is such a small haven, colored and fragrant three meals a day; there is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea; there is the concern of lovers; children's cheers.
The hand that holds the son, the old man with the son, the hand that holds the son, what does the husband ask for?
We must embrace the family with love, let the home become the Eden of love, and let the home be full of joy and warmth.