Come to a friend today and nag and see her tidying up her room
A small house, a bedroom, a living room, a kitchen, a bathroom, a balcony, because I have lived here for a long time, and the things are also very complete, so that many things have become idle
A lot of little bottles and cans, and I picked up something I hadn't seen before and asked her what it was, and she thought about it for half a day, and she didn't answer it, and she forgot, and then she threw it in the trash
She said that some of them were bought by herself, some of them were sent by friends, and they took them back and put them there, and they just remembered what it was, and they forgot what it was, and they forgot, and they didn't know whether they were eaten or smeared, and it was all in English or Korean
Watching her not use skincare products, clothes, shoes, bags, all kinds of little things, really happy for her, in fact, it's very good, very close to life, looking at the full things is full of security
But I like minimalism now, I don't like a lot of stuff in the house, I haven't opened it in a year, I didn't use it once, I threw it away, and now except for the necessities of life, a lot of the occasional use of it, I use it for rent
Friends say that she usually prefers to buy practical small things, and her friends will occasionally give her things, but many of them are not practical, and she knows that they have spent a lot of effort and money, so even if they can't use them, they will happily accept them, and they will feel very distressed
So when we give gifts, we must send according to the actual situation, such as personality, hobbies, needs, and so on
For example, my friend here, she used to buy all kinds of small things, and if she didn't use them, she might have been there in the dust and even ended up in the trash, and if she was given something that she had to use every day or a lot, she would remember
For example, if you send something to a rough person who doesn't know a few big characters, you certainly can't send him a book, and he thinks you're satirizing him for not being literate
Or if you send cigarettes and alcohol to someone who doesn't smoke or drink, that's definitely not appropriate
The so-called gift-giving is to give it to others what they like, and what they need to make others happy to accept
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