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Brush into a video, three girlfriends family reunion. After the dishes are served on the dinner table, the husbands hold the baby and feed, and the mothers eat and chat with peace of mind. There is also a video of two friends eating, chatting and watching TV in the living room, the camera turns to the kitchen, and the two husbands are busy washing and cleaning.
Many netizens below the video have said: They should forward this video to their husbands to see. Such a good husband is someone else's; where to find such a good husband? Some people joke that what does marriage bring to men?
I didn't expect such a video to cause such a big uproar on the Internet, because I think this is a normal thing. Because my cooking is not delicious, every time friends come to the house, whether it is my husband's friend or my friend, it is my husband who cooks, I chat with my friends in the living room, and when I finish eating, I give my husband a hand. If you need to coax the child when eating, my husband also let me eat first, and when I eat well, I will take the child's husband and eat again. Although the two of us also had occasional quarrels, we rarely quarreled over housework. I once asked my husband, what does marriage bring you? The husband said: "Bring my wife and children, you have brought me happiness!" ”
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="9" > society has progressed and women's family status has improved</h1>
Whether it is my family, there are many families around me, and the average man will do some housework when he comes home from work. Many men are also working hard to earn money to support their families outside, and go home to wear house clothes, wash and cook to share housework. Even more understanding of women's difficulties, more at home, will give priority to the wife when eating. And like many women on the Internet complain, many men are at home to throw their hands in the cabinet, do nothing, just wait to serve. To be honest, I really haven't seen a man like this in reality.
Now that society has progressed, women's family status has improved. A family model like the previous one in which men are at home and women are humble and statusless at home is rare. Most of today's men understand how to understand the difficulty of women getting pregnant and having children. Women also understand the hardships of their husbands earning money to support their families. If conditions permit, the two earn money together to support the family and go home to share the housework together. Because relatively speaking, because the mother takes more children, the father does more housework that he is able to do.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > marriages place greater responsibilities on both men and women</h1>
What does marriage bring to men and women? First of all, it brings greater responsibility to both men and women, and entering into marriage means forming a family and being responsible for each member of the family, rather than the previous one-person state. Both people will have to give and sacrifice in marriage, not one partner becoming the other's nanny.
In fact, for most people, the quality of life after marriage is reduced, and both are tired. So many people began to complain about marriage, feeling that marriage reduced their quality of life and restricted their freedom. These people only see the disadvantages of marriage, but they do not see the benefits of marriage, and they do not realize that the essence of marriage is the transformation of two people from family profiteers to givers. After responsible men and women get married, the quality of life becomes lower.
【Topic Discussion: What do you think about this phenomenon?】 】
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