People who like to raise flowers always love to explore the flower language behind the flowers and grasses, and under the influence of traditional culture, the flowers and plants that mean auspicious and rich seem to be more likable, and those flowers and plants that mean bitterness and sorrow are afraid to avoid! In fact, the flowers bloom and fall unintentionally, but because of some folk tales, they have added some mysterious colors, invisibly making people feel that these flowers and plants are like flowers and non-flowers, and flowers have feelings!

<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > several well-known "bitter love flowers", and the stories behind them are all good stories:</h1>
【1】Grass:
Xuancao is also called "forget worry grass", the flower language is to relieve worries, forget the meaning of depression.
Xuan herb is a chinese herbal medicine, the flowers are edible, and its dried flowers are also called yellow cauliflower and golden needles.
According to legend, during the war and chaos years, the women and children who stayed at home missed their relatives on the expedition every day, hoping that their families could return safely, especially the old mothers at home, the husbands and sons who worried about the expedition, so that the depression became a disease, so they used the worry-free herbs into medicine, hoping to help them relieve their melancholy and restore their health. Since then, the custom of planting grass in front of the house and behind the house has been passed down to this day, and there are more "grass steps, wandering children go to the end of the world." In front of the church, there is no grass flower" in the good sentence, the kind mother looks in front of the door of the house every day, but can not wait for the loss of the return of her relatives, portrayed into three points, so the grass is also regarded as "mother flower".
【2】Acacia:
Acacia flowers are also called velvet trees, phoenix trees, flowers for pink, fan-shaped, fluffy small flowers, but also do not lose childlike and cute, its flower language originally means husband and wife harmony, eternal knot concentricity, but because some folklore also has a bit of tragic meaning.
Acacia is a deciduous tree, which generally blooms in summer, and looks like a pink velvet fan from a distance, and a single flower can generally only open for one day, and has the characteristic of closing at night.
According to legend, there was once a woman named Hehuan, who originally had a happy family of four, male cultivators and women weaving, children and daughters were complete, helpless Acacia died of illness, because he could not rest assured that the child, such as turning into an acacia tree to grow in the courtyard, just to be able to continue to protect the family. Another version is the cold door show to go to Beijing to catch the exam, the gold list title and forget the original heart, the wife fan alone to guard the cold kiln, the green silk boiled into white hair did not wait for the husband, before dying to the acacia tree in the yard sighed, if you change your heart, only let this acacia tree blossom, or let me die. Soon the pink fan died, and the acacia tree in the yard really bloomed pink velvet fan-shaped flowers, which only made people sing for this infatuated woman.
【3】Ephemeral:
Ephemeral flowers belong to the cactus family, ephemeral flowers are epiphytic fleshy plants, also known as Qionghua, Vedic flowers, because they always bloom at night, only for a moment, and have been given the title of "beauty under the moon".
Compared with other bitter flowers, the ephemeral flower belongs to the potted plant that everyone knows and loves, and it is also the object of the enthusiasm of literati and photography enthusiasts.
According to legend, the ephemeral flowers were originally immortal grasses in the Jade Emperor's garden, and they were degraded because of their secret affair with Wei Tuo, who took care of the flowers and plants, and the punishment could only bloom for an instant every year from then on, and Wei Tuo was sent to the Spirit Vulture Mountain to become a monk. Knowing that Veto would go down the mountain to collect morning dew for the Buddha in the late spring every year, so the ephemeral flowers accumulated a year's essence, only to bloom when Vedic came to collect dewdrops, but unfortunately, Vetuo, who had forgotten the red dust, could no longer remember the flower god he had been, even if it was a thousand years of solo dancing under the moon, after all, there was no waiting for a look back from the lover, the so-called "ephemeral flower, only for Vedic" also came from this!
【4】Yu Meiren:
Yu Meiren is an annual herb, also known as Artemisia nymph, Full Garden Spring, and Dancing Grass. Its flower language means life and death, life and death.
The poignant love story "Farewell to the Overlord", which has been passed down for thousands of years, depicts Yu Meiren's flower language as poignant and tragic.
Although there are many versions of this story, Yu Ji's loyalty to love is deeply touching and unquestionable. In fact, not only during the period of chu-Han rivalry, many literati and inkers in modern times still like to use Yu Meiren as a word name, for example, Naran Zhide, who is known as the "first talent of the Manchu Qing Dynasty", once commemorated his deceased wife with "Yu Meiren • Qu Lan Deep Reunion", and the picture of the reunion with his beloved in the depths of the twisting corridor was vividly depicted.
【5】荼靡:
It belongs to the woody plant of the rosaceae family, which can also be cultivated as a hedge plant, its branches are dense, and the light and emerald green branches at the flowering period are full of white flowers like stars, because it only blooms in late spring and early summer, with the meaning of "after three springs", so it is rich In the meaning of youth will pass away, feelings to the end, its flower language is also defined as the beauty of the end of the end, the end of love.
It has always been a symbol of the bitter love flower, frequently appearing in the titles or lyrics of various love songs, always giving people a sad feeling of love and unrequited love, and folklore about it is also related to love stories.
According to legend, Di Jing is also a flower fairy in the heavenly court, but he has a special fondness for the sun's look, knowing that the hot light of the sun god will make himself perish, when he is close to the god of the sun, that is, when he is annihilated, but he still wants to follow his heart like a "moth to the fire", and as a result, he is burned by the hot light before he gets close, but unfortunately he pays the price of his life, and the sun god does not know her existence. So it's also often used to express unrequited love and fruitless love!
【6】Higan hana:
The other side of the flower, also called Manju Shahua, belongs to the herbaceous plant of the family Lycaenidae, and its flower language means desperate love and endless thoughts. Its flower stems are upright, its leaves are green like orchids, and its flowers are like spread palms, because it always blooms after the leaves have withered, or the long leaves after the flowers have withered, it has been given the saying that "flowers and leaves never meet", and secondly, because it grows in dark and damp valleys and wildernesses, it is also called the flower of hell or the flower of ghosts.
There are many versions of the legend about the other side of the flower, and the other side of the flower has always been regarded as an unlucky flower, everyone is secretive about it! In fact, the other side of the flower is also a bitter love flower.
According to legend, the other shore flower was originally the flower of heaven, guarding its flower fairy, one called Manzhu, one called Sha hua, they guarded the other shore flower for a thousand years but never met, one day driven by curiosity the two decided to secretly meet, who knew that the two fell in love at first sight, secretly had feelings, and that year's other shore flowers were more red flowers and green leaves blooming. All this naturally could not escape the eyes of God, because contrary to God's will, the two were reduced to mortal worlds, and were arranged to serve on the other side and the Forgotten River, giving them the poisonous curse of never seeing each other in the future. From then on, the flowers on the other side became plants that saw flowers and did not see leaves, and the flowers were like palms praying to heaven, only to change God's will for forgiveness.
Flowers blossom and fall is a natural law, but it is these folklore that give it a flesh-and-blood soul, and at the same time give our lives a little more mythical color! What other myths and stories about flowers and plants you know, welcome to add, let's explore the stories behind plants together!
May every flower friend have a favorite small courtyard, raise flowers and vegetables, and harvest colorful seasons! Welcome to pay attention and raise flowers together! #Succulents ##多样世界生生不息 #