I am a post-80s mom with a boy (9 years old) and a girl (5 years old).
Son sent nickname: Grumpy Mom
Daughter nickname: Busy Mom
Ten years after marriage, I always thought that I was independent enough, I always thought that this was what I wanted to be, and later, I got two different nicknames, only to find that I had been busy and always thought that I was working hard for the life I wanted. The persistence that has always been proud has not been recognized by the children.
I work hard, I plan my life, I supervise my children, I am really busy, I am also tired, I think that everyone should support me, thank me!
One day the son said,
"You're a grumpy mom, that's what you're going to see, not what I want."
"You love me, that is, let me live according to your ideas, you are cold, I am cold, you are hot, I am hot"
"You regret that you don't have outstanding talents, you want me to learn to draw, but I want to swim"
"You think I got the top ten in the exam, or I'll regret it for a long time, that's your life, not what I want"
- and so on
At that moment, I felt that my path had gone far~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
One day the daughter said:
"Mom don't go to work"
"Let my mother go out with me, and my mother will tell me one more story."
"Mom, I don't want to go to kindergarten today, I want to follow my mother, go to work, I promise not to make trouble, I promise to be obedient" ~ ~ ~ ~
"I don't want my mom to go to work, and my mom isn't good at all"
At that moment, I felt that my daughter was very wronged, and at that moment I felt that I had done so much, but it was not what they wanted
At that moment, I felt that this kind of life was not what I wanted, and it was urgent to be myself
Slowing down and listening attentively, I quit my toiling job. I typed on the long-lost keyboard, my confusion, my achievements, jumping at the fingertips!
Reading makes me grow, and learning keeps me away from useless grumpiness! I can spend any time with my daughter, I am no longer a working mother, although I am also busy, but I can freely dispose of my time.
Slow down, really good, while walking while looking at the scenery along the road, the original parenting road, there are many touching, harvesting, and ridiculous stories. Although I can't face the sea and blossom in spring, I can also think quietly in this downtown, slowly taste life, and there is another situation of facing the sea and spring blossoming.
<h1>In 2017, he successfully certified as a parenting self-media with V in "Today's Headlines" and became an original author! </h1>
<h1>I am what I am, without any labels! </h1>
<h1>If you are still grumpy, if you are still anxious about your child, you may as well slow down, stop, and listen to your heart. </h1>
<h1>Welcome to pay attention to: my children have just grown up, we grow together, be a better version of ourselves! </h1>