Want to ask you if you dare, like me crazy about love. - "Crazy for Love"
If He Lei could foresee that his wife was such a crazy person, it is estimated that he would not dare to fall in love with her. Because his wife Chen Danlei's love was too heavy, it not only made him breathless, but also killed him. Chen Danlei even kept saying in court that she loved her husband too much, so she would attack him. How crazy is Chen Danlei's love? Loved her husband too much, so you wanted to kill him?
Chen Danlei was born in 1977 in a scholarly family in Sichuan, but she was not very happy. Because her father is a high-level intellectual, but her mother is an ordinary housewife with low education, not only is there a cultural difference between her parents, but even the three views are basically inconsistent, and there is basically no common language between husband and wife, and there are often quarrels and contradictions. And her mother has a strong desire to control, not only stealing her father's personal belongings, but even following him, so the contradictions between the two have deepened, and finally choose to divorce.
Chen Danlei grew up in the noise of her parents, so she will be more or less affected. Therefore, since she was a child, her personality has been more introverted and does not like to talk to people. However, she is still very good in terms of academic performance. The college entrance examination was also admitted to Tsinghua University, which is the dream place for all students. Chen Danlei, who is in adolescence, also has a yearning for love like other girls, but she has not been popular on the love field since she was an introverted child.
Falling in love is different from doing problems, there is no unique and correct result, everything is very random. In her junior year, Chen Danlei picked up a fountain pen in class. Unexpectedly, this pen actually took her to meet her long-awaited love. The owner of the pen is Chen Danlei's classmate named He Lei. He Lei was born in an ordinary working family, his personality has been particularly cheerful since he was a child, and his popularity is also very good. His cheerful personality was in opposition to Chen Danlei. The first time Chen Danlei saw this sunny and cheerful teenager, she had some heartfelt feelings for him.
She herself has always wanted to find someone who complements her personality, and later the two slowly become acquainted. With the relationship between the two, Chen Danlei felt more and more that He Lei was the sun that could warm her heart. He Lei also felt that although Chen Danlei did not like to talk, she was kind in heart and studied hard, and was a good girl with many advantages. So it didn't take long for the two to officially confirm their relationship and become a couple. Not long after the two fell in love, Chen Danlei was a little confused about this relationship, probably affected by her childhood experience, and she was particularly insecure.
Near graduation, Chen Danlei received a full scholarship from Purdue University in the United States, while He Lei received a guaranteed place for Tsinghua graduate students. Both of them had such excellent results, which should have been a good thing, but Chen Danlei's insecure heart felt very uneasy at the moment. Because that means they're going to be in a long-distance relationship. How does this work, originally Chen Danlei had some confidence in their relationship, and now if you want to have a long-distance relationship, it will only be worse. So the two discussed this matter for a long time, and finally He Lei made a concession and went to the United States with Chen Danlei.
The two also took the opportunity to get married in the United States, from love to life. He Lei's personality is very mixed in the open country of the United States, on the contrary, Chen Danlei, because she is not good at expressing her own characteristics, whether it is dating or life, will have a lot of impact. In the case that the circle could not be expanded, He Lei became chen Danlei's only pillar in a foreign country. Watching her husband mix so openly, she did not feel happy for her husband, but felt resentment and uneasiness, especially when she saw He Lei in contact with the opposite sex.
The advantages of He Lei in her eyes have now become shortcomings, and He Lei's optimistic, humorous, funny and other positive personalities are all precursors to flowers and grass in Chen Danlei's view. When this idea arose, Chen Danlei changed completely. She was very afraid of losing He Lei, and began to become sensitive and vulnerable, even though He Lei was still so concerned about her, but now she still suffered from gain and loss. The two also had many conflicts as a result. Such negative emotions have been accumulating in her heart, and one day it will explode.
One christmas, He Lei went home late because he was drinking with friends, and the two had a conflict again. Some drunken He Lei said a few serious words to Chen Danlei. This completely stimulated Chen Danlei's heart, and she was furious and stabbed her husband with a fruit knife when her emotions were out of control. Afterwards, Chen Danlei was detained. According to the local law of the United States, the domestic violence case is determined, even if the victim is not injured, but as long as the prosecution can be sentenced to up to 1 year in prison, if injured, the prosecution can be prosecuted for a felony, up to 5 years in prison.
But He Lei remembered his old feelings and paid bail to redeem his wife. But if something like this happens first, there will be a second. The contradiction between the two is getting bigger and bigger, basically to the point where they can't get along, and He Lei can't stand it anymore and proposes a divorce. These two words were like needles into Chen Danlei's heart, and her parents' failed marriage had always been a shadow in her heart. At this moment, she also wants to divorce herself, how could she agree. So the seeds of hatred were planted in her heart.
On the evening of August 19, 2005, Chen Danlei finally broke out. She pulled a pistol from under her pillow and pulled the trigger on the sleeping He Lei. After He Lei's death, Chen Danlei did not have any panic, but was unusually calm. She did not dispose of her husband's body at the first time, but calmly ate and lived with her dead husband for seven days and seven nights. According to her later confessions, she felt that although her husband was dead, their love had become eternal. What a terrible thought.
Since she had been detained before, she had not yet retrieved her passport, so she modified He Lei's passport and disguised herself. I thought that this would fool me through. I didn't expect to escape the United States, not China. When the Chinese customs checked the documents, the staff found the hint of her passport. She was then detained, and only after being questioned by the police did she confess to the killing of her husband. She was eventually sentenced to death in the first instance for intentional homicide.
According to article 232 of the Criminal Law, if the circumstances of intentional homicide are minor, they shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than ten years, and if the circumstances are serious, they shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than 10 years, life imprisonment, and death penalty, and later she appealed, and the court of second instance took into account Chen Danlei's family, psychological disorders and many other problems, and changed the death sentence to a two-year suspension of execution, and compensated He Lei's family with 440,000 yuan.
Her crime is indeed related to her original family, and she was influenced by her parents since childhood, so she has some inferiority in feelings, and even some extreme psychology. But this is not the reason for her crime, killing her husband with her own hands, and saying that she is for love, such love is inevitably too terrible.