<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="1" > Introduction:</h1>
This society is developing more and more, the aging is deepening, and the issue of human pension has become a focus of attention. But instead of worrying and dazed, considering what kind of pension method is more suitable for yourself is the most important, and today we are going to tell such a story.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="10" >Feed by: Teacher Zhang</h1>
I now live in a small town, I have been a teacher in a middle school for decades, and now I have retired, my wife, but a farmer, in fact, in our time, free love is still a very avant-garde thing, and the gap between our two identities is so large, it is really an incredible thing to be able to come together, but I still pursue true love, still resolutely married to love, married to my old partner. After getting married, the relationship between the two of us was very good, we were very fond of each other, mutual respect and mutual love, and we also had three children, two daughters, a son, and the daughters knew that it was not easy to live in the countryside, so they all entered the famous university through hard work, stayed in the big city, did not expect that it was the younger son, but we were not pampered by the two of us, not only did not study well, but also became a second-rate son in a village. Fortunately, the daughter-in-law of the son's wife is still particularly powerful, spicy and capable, and the little two have a very solid life, but the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law is really a problem for eternity, even if my son is not angry, but I can't accept the daughter-in-law bullying the son.
Daughter-in-law is too strong, always let the son get angry, I will try to find trouble with the daughter-in-law, I hope that my son's grievances will all be found back, but the daughter-in-law is not an easy person to suffer, we are also considered to be fighting equally, so the relationship is not good, always noisy, fortunately, the daughter-in-law is not a vengeful personality, every time we quarrel, it passes, the days are still like before, so we also live for several years, my grandson was also born, My wife also died of illness, the death of my wife still had a great impact on me, after the death of my wife, I also found that my health is getting worse and worse, I think I should be very difficult to take care of myself, my daughters are still very worried about me, just say let me go to the big city, if I am sick, it is convenient to seek medical treatment, they can also take care of my life, give me pension, but I do not want to leave this small place where I live most of my life, and if I go to my daughter's house to live, what if the son-in-law and the daughter's mother-in-law have opinions? More importantly, my son is in his hometown, I don't want to leave my son, I hope to be closer to my son in the future days.
In fact, in order to be able to give his children a better life, the son also went out to work to make money, the daughter-in-law took care of the children at home alone, and also raised pigs, so that he could also make some money, the life of a family of three was still passable, I did not want to go to the city daughter's home for the elderly, to the nursing home will make others laugh, there are 3 children are not given to the pension, so please a nanny to take care of me at home, for me this is the best choice, and my pension is still a lot, there are 6000 yuan, such words, I used my pension to pay the nanny's salary, and then pay the living expenses of the two of us is more than enough, and even save some money, originally I wanted to ask the nanny like this, but the relatives said that the nanny also cost money, which has to let their daughter-in-law take care of it, it is better to directly give the nanny money to the daughter-in-law, let the daughter-in-law serve you! It is also considered that the fat water does not flow into the fields of outsiders, I thought about it for a while, and it is indeed such a truth. But I have been arguing with my daughter-in-law for so many years, is my daughter-in-law willing to take care of me? Whether the daughter-in-law would like to ask or ask, I took an opportunity to ask how much money the daughter-in-law could make from raising pigs.
I calculated that in fact, the daughter-in-law's pig raising money is similar to the money I asked for a nanny, and if the daughter-in-law takes care of it, it will not delay her raising pigs, so it is better to earn more money. I said to my daughter-in-law, "Daughter-in-law, or you will take care of me, and then I am definitely more cost-effective than raising pigs, or you can raise my pigs." "Then I also seriously discussed with her, but also took out their own pension, the daughter-in-law also knows what I mean, she thought about it and happily agreed, the days of having a daughter-in-law for the elderly are still very comfortable, and with the daughter-in-law, my contact with my grandson is also more, although our life is also noisy, but the relationship is also harmonious a lot, I think under the care of the daughter-in-law, I can also spend a happy and happy old age."
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" > xiaobian said:</h1>
In fact, what does the elderly need most in their later years? Is to hope to have a good mood, can have a comfortable living environment, if the economic conditions allow, the children have enough time to filial piety to the elderly, then at home pension is naturally the best choice. However, in the current social situation, young people really do not have much time to take care of the elderly, the elderly will also understand the difficulties of their children, willing to help children within their own ability, do not add trouble to children, whether it is to go to a nursing home or ask for a nanny, is a good choice, like Teacher Zhang let the daughter-in-law take care of herself, she pays wages, this is also a very smart choice. In this way, the money she saved was also left to her children and was better taken care of. With relatives, life will be more comfortable and natural, if there is no affection, no care and love, then, no matter how much money is not really happy and happy. Each of us will grow old, everyone has a time to need help and comfort, and I hope that every old man can have a happy and warm old age.
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